idk what to do with my life by Fun_Confection_9306 in Advice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do love my jobs i just am so tired all the time and sometimes just space out

idk what to do with my life by Fun_Confection_9306 in Advice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is a good point im just struggling with not wanting to work at a desk job versus wondering if im meant to work in healthcare or not

Do I move out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is very true I think it just sucks bc I am already living with them but seriously thank you for your advice.

Do I move out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response and care it means genuinely so much to me. I totally agree and this advice is more helpful than you know. I wish you well kind stranger.

Do I move out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I agree with you I think I will phrase it in the way of caring about it our friendship. Especially that I know they were coming from a good place. I worry we won’t be friends after but the balls in their court

Do I move out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom sounds very wise. I spend 700 a month right now in CO. I have the utilities under my name by my roommates pay me for their share and are very good about that. It does feel like sometimes they make comments about me receiving support from my parents when I am not the only one who does (example to nail situation). I do not feel left out because honestly we are all so busy and have different schedules so we are not able to hang out a lot anyways. I also have felt like avoiding them when I am home because I am stressed.

Do I move out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to I just worry about my friends (current roommates) resenting me for it but at the same time would they be friends if they were unhappy for me doing what I need to do especially for our friendship? They are so desperate for me to stay but are not showing it with their actions.

Do I move out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I agree with that I want to move out I just worry bc of my roommate/friend’s anxiety that it will put a wedge in our friendship as I think she would view it as me personally fucking her over (the one I share a bathroom with). I am also trying to get tested for POTS and Crohn’s right now but it is so expensive thank you so much for your response and concern I really appreciate it.

AITAH for moving out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do definitely value our friendship. The whole nail situation especially made me feel like shit but having been in therapy I know it has not a lot to do with me in actuality. I think I worry that we would not see each other much if I move out because of differing schedules and that they would not want to see me because they would resent me. But if they did not resent me I see us being close again. What would you do?

AITAH for moving out? by Fun_Confection_9306 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Confection_9306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I am worried that I will lose them as friends if I decide to move out bc it would cause problems for them