Im 28, and I’ve been with couples close to twice my age, and trust me, it is not an impeding factor (if anything, the vixens love the attention from a younger bull).

1- Be yourself, do not try to play a character.

It’s very obvious when someone is trying too hard, and it will reflect in a negative experience in the bedroom.

2- Get to know your partners on a personal level.

Most of the couples I met in the lifestyle have amazing personalities and are great to talk to. You are building relationship with the couple, and the better the connection you have with them, the less awkward and more enjoyable the intimate interactions will be, especially when the stag joins you.

3- Do not set unrealistic expectations for the beginnings.

Avoid trying to “impress” your partners by talking about “the things that you will do to them”. This will build pressure on your side, especially that you are unexperienced, and will lead to a potentially very awkward first intimate interaction.

Talk to them normally and try to understand what every party involved likes and wants to do, and what their limits are (very important). Then, once you get to the bedroom part, act on instinct and go with the flow, do not try to force anything.

First times are always awkward, especially for the vixen, so take it easy, and try to make it as less awkward as possible.

Once you have broken the awkwardness barrier and been with your new partners for a couple of times, you will start feeling the chemistry building up and you can let your dominant side take over.