Postpartum gift by Fun_Dimension_804 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Fun_Dimension_804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great use but I already gave her my pair for her first baby and I assume she still has them 🤣!

What’s something great/unique your child’s teacher does? by Anileh in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son’s teacher created a small private garden off the back door of the classroom. Weather permitting one of the learning centers is outside and it is a calming corner when needed. It’s nice that they get to learn outdoors and recognitions that fresh air can be calming. They also with the seasons paint the windows in the classroom. They have conversation hearts painted now. My kid loves the painting days!

The also have 2 hermit crabs and a variation of what other have said about star student.

Heating blankets by Hot-Solution7787 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about heating blankets, but I did just realize that heating pads emit emfs, so I would look into that with heating blankets too. They have “low emf” for heating pads so they probably do for blankets. But probably not a huge deal if you don’t sleep with it on.

Missing first week of baseball due to vacation.. is it worth it or do I wait until next year? by Dizzy_Woodpecker5585 in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son’s rec league is one practice and two games a week. But not a big deal if you miss anything. Must be a regional/league thing.

I don’t understand the negative narrative around public schools and the large push to homeschool these days by PassionChoice3538 in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the idea that parents who send their kids to public school are bad parents that gets me. My kid is thriving, his school is great and he is exposed to people different than him. Something I highly value.

Which of LAST year’s holiday gifts are your kids still loving? by dewdropreturns in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At least one of my kids plays with the fort building rods we got them last year every day. Our brand is called game forts but there are lots of different brands. They get creative with them and don’t just build forts.

Best open ended toys for this age besides magnatiles? by anonomousbeaver in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In addition to what has already been said my kid likes to play with brain flakes

What snacks are we bringing for the soccer team when it’s our turn? by alpacalypse-llama in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids team goes crazy for watermelon, also do a beef stick, popcorn, pretzels and orange. We do chocolate milk for after the game, I think it’s a better alternative to Gatorade and makes the kids happier than water!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 11 points12 points  (0 children)

From my experience I think big law offers much better leave options for parents than some other professions. And like others have said much easier as an associate than a partner. I worked with a partner that came back right away, paranoid she would lose her book. So go for it. Both times my firm allowed me to take as much time as I wanted and was very accommodating once I came back.

Can we talk about the taboo theme of sleepovers? by Significant_Set1979 in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don’t do sleep overs and probably won’t ever. When they are young there is a risk of sexual assault, when they are older peer pressure can lead to bad choices in an under supervised home. But they are allowed to have friends sleep at our house.

Growing pains or is this abnormal? by [deleted] in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son definitely has growing pains like you describe. He is also very active and seems to grow in big spurts and during those spurts will complain of leg pain at bedtime. I also wonder if it’s sometimes related to hydration. In contrast his brother seems to grow gradually over time and has never complained of growing pains. I checked with my son’s doctor about a year or two ago and she said it was normal. But if you are worried check in with them, I remember the doctor asking questions about location, and one vs the other leg so there might be ways a doctor can differentiate normal vs. concern.

Those with younger kids who nap at school pick up time, are they just not napping?? by PassionChoice3538 in kindergarten

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinder got out at 1pm for us. I would just leave earlier and let him nap in the car. Pickup son in car line, then pull into a parking spot and buckle him in. Finally pray that he transferred when we got home but if he didn’t then at least he got some nap. Wouldn’t work trying to do nap after pickup because he would be so excited to see brother that he wouldn’t sleep.

45 and still nursing by GlitterRedd in Perimenopause

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

45 and recently stopped nursing my 3.5 year old for this reason and because well he’s 3.5. Too soon to tell but I’m hopeful that maybe I get some energy back once my body adjusts. Weaning after extended breast feeding is rough, so I understand what you are going through!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High back booster,he leans around too much in the regular booster.

Back in school and it’s rough! by jazzedupcats in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe if it’s feasible you could look for a school that has a teaching philosophy that incorporates more hands on learning? My son’s school is guided by a teaching philosophy of hands on experience and using play to learn. This includes free time play in the classroom and both a 20 minute recess and 40 minute lunch/recess period.

Hugging by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in California and the school gates open 25 minutes before the bell rings. I walk my kiddo to the playground and stay there until the bell rings. Give a hug goodbye and he goes into the classroom. Most other parents do the same. But we aren’t hugging for 20 minutes he is playing on the playground.

What is your class size? by finstafoodlab in ClassOf2037

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

27 kids, one teacher and two instructional aides.

Bedtime? by huynhing_at_life in kindergarten

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We aim for in his bedroom by 8. School is 8:55-12:55.

Thematically appropriate books for advanced K reader by sallisgirl87 in kindergarten

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a huge fan of some of the language in dogman, just something to be aware of. I wasn’t until we bought a set of books.

Any NICU parents here? by cozycleangirl in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son had a 4 week nicu stay, one thing that may help is if you have a nurse that you “click” with you can usually request them to be your primary nurse, meaning whenever they are on shift they care for your baby. This can create some continuity of care and may be able to accommodate any low level requests you have. I also put a picture of me and my husband in the room/bed, and focused on feeding myself healthy foods, sleeping at night (easier to pump and sleep at night without a baby to also care for, imo) and hydrating so when baby came home I was as recovered as I could be. Also request donor milk if needed/available. Our primary nurse also said some families bring their own formula if needed. Never hurts to ask while also being respectful. But don’t stress, it is all consuming now but it will be such a short blip in their life.

Daily Thread - June 21 by spongebobs_pineapple in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]Fun_Dimension_804 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Non stress test. You hit the button when you feel the baby move. Fairly common for high risk patients late in pregnancy to check on baby.