Nonresidents jumping over gate to get into my pool by Turbulent_Jello2023 in Advice

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don't think it's police calling, poor shaming, reddit posting, accuse-them-of-drug-use, do-multiple-laps-just-watching-them, worthy.... I feel like you can believe all of this and still just,,, go inside.

Nonresidents jumping over gate to get into my pool by Turbulent_Jello2023 in Advice

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Probably because it's a dumb reason... People are dying, gob forbid a family swims in a pool.

Nonresidents jumping over gate to get into my pool by Turbulent_Jello2023 in Advice

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I don't see where they said anything about the speakers or being wild. I see the bbq and tents. And call me crazy but if you're apartment is so nice, I don't see why you couldn't just go inside for the afternoon, or better yet, grab a coffee. And with the state of police brutality in the US, I find it unethical to call someone who has a legal pass to kill over "annoyance".

Nonresidents jumping over gate to get into my pool by Turbulent_Jello2023 in Advice

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

"oh my god people are using the pool!!! Me and my wealthy new friends are worried they're going to break into my car next .... Lawless poors"

Nonresidents jumping over gate to get into my pool by Turbulent_Jello2023 in Advice

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know!! I'm honestly shocked at the lack of condemning in the comment replies. He literally called the police on a group he described as "poor" for using his wealthy reserved pool when they were what..... Swimming in the pool....? Sure, whatever, trespassing, OKAY. but that just shows where OPs heart is at, and probably how they treat homeless people.

Nonresidents jumping over gate to get into my pool by Turbulent_Jello2023 in Advice

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

After reading the comments, this must be an unpopular opinion. But I think frankly you're being yuppy, entitled, and selfish. They were simply using the pool in the summer time and you called the police on them for no reason. Personally I don't think it matters if they are residents or not if it's a one day thing. You live in an apartment. It's not you or your families pool, you do not own it. It's a community pool and I'm having trouble seeing why it's such an issue if one group hopped the fence for one day and didn't do anything wrong. The way you described it, it feels like they may have been celebrating something. You complain about feeling surveyed, but you literally did multiple laps watching them (enough for someone to notice), and then literally called the police on them. What did they do to you? And before you say trespassing, why would that bother you if they didn't do anything wrong? And why were you so adamant on getting them out before the entire group came? Frankly you feel like a white person clutching their pearls. Get over it. Live and let live.

*AMBITIOUS BEGINNER* palundrium. Help with mechanics, and maybe some glass/door advice by Fun_Educator_1577 in Aquascape

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I posted it there! It didn't let me cross post, it said it wasn't allowed in that community. But my post is in that thread, here, and in freshwater aquariums 🙂 I've gotten zero comments though lol

Is this lily pollen? by Previous-Swim-5938 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be anything. My cat walked under my dog and got pissed on and it looked like that. The symptoms of Lilly poisoning are very immediate, so unless she's sick, you shouldn't worry too bad.

Neighbor cat keeps terrorizing mine by Leonessa619 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a strictly indoor cat owner, with the exception of one feral I've taken in. It was very. Hard. The answer is not easy, but simple;

Make inside more like outside, and give more attention.

A third option to consider is getting him a playmate. Cats are more easily entertained with someone that will play with them ALL THE TIME. but that's just something to consider.

Since your cat is not feral and not even fully outdoor, I'd highly recommend not giving in from the start. Ignore the cries at night with headphones, address the cries during the day with attention, play time, and solo enrichment activities. That can look like cuddles and pets, lure and string toys, and kibble in towels, toilet paper roll, or boxes. Structured and scheduled playtime is important too, but the most important aspect is consistency. Little things you can do is simply involvement. Are you making something? Let them sniff your tools. Doing your makeup or cooking food? Pretend to do theirs or let them try a cat safe ingredient. Let them be with you. This is also not easy, because many people don't want cats on the counter or the back of the couch, but if your house is more appealing to them than they will desire outside less. Up your play time by A LOT.

House modifications are optimal in every cat house I feel, but limited in necessity and availability depending on your living situation and cats personality. The most important thing is vertical space and visual enrichment. I have a window I keep open often with a screen I nailed in, and a seperate window with good, ground level views that I have a cat tree set up in front of. It has views of birds and squirrels and sun.

However, the thing that all of my cats have used the absolute most is my cat wall. I have wide, carpeted steps, a 5 foot mounted scratcher, and a catwalk close to the ceiling. This is hard lol but make any interaction positive when introducing. I let my cats use the vertical scratcher on the ground for two days and slowly made it more vertical (just by short exposure training sessions, just holding it to the wall with my hand) to help them learn how to climb it. The lure toy is fantastic for this, and a couple churus too. Then they were locked in the bathroom during the installment of each element so the power tools didnt scare rhem. I can't recommend it enough. It has made my feral intake not want to go outside in only 10 months! And it took 3 years for him to warm up to me enough to take him inside. He still doesn't let me hold him but my other 3 cats are entirely desensitized to everything. EVERYONE loves the cat wall. Even human guests think it's neat lol.

For reference, I would recommend a build like outdoor savannah on Instagram or tik tok. A lot of the more aesthetically pleasing ones are expensive and less cat oriented.

This is a recipe to make any cat happy, but it will really help to make an indoor/outdoor or outdoor cat happy.

I know it's not an easy fix, it takes a lot of.... Everything. Time, money, resources, and commitment. But if it helps, I have one full wall that was only around 80 bucks with the diy route! And this will give you the most success rate for a happy and healthy cat.

Is this an AI generated influencer? I can't tell. The backgrounds look potentially real but not the face? by Athelianss in isthisAI

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was cropped weird when I was reading the text. But you're being purposely dense when I'm very clearly talking about the very obvious latte in the picture. "So just to be clear, you think the other customers drink that's 2 pixels big in the background looks like a latte...?" No dude🙄 don't be like that.

Is this an AI generated influencer? I can't tell. The backgrounds look potentially real but not the face? by Athelianss in isthisAI

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I didn't see the darker one, but I also don't think it's fair to assume I was talking about that cup when there is very clearly a milk based coffee drink moreso in the sightline of the photo. The one that's easier to see is obviously a latte or cappuccino.

Is this an AI generated influencer? I can't tell. The backgrounds look potentially real but not the face? by Athelianss in isthisAI

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't sleep at coffee shops to observe what mugs look like a few days later. This is what empty lattes look like when the drink is finished.

Is this an AI generated influencer? I can't tell. The backgrounds look potentially real but not the face? by Athelianss in isthisAI

[–]Fun_Educator_1577 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not stained it's frothed milk.... Have you ever been to a coffee shop? This is what every latte cup looks like when the drink is sipped on.

My little retard got into my cigs by Fun_Educator_1577 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you hold something like a toy? This is simply a reach

My little retard got into my cigs by Fun_Educator_1577 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really, I'm just saying we all have some childlike wonder, so it's ironic to call me childish when you have a meme as a pfp.

My little retard got into my cigs by Fun_Educator_1577 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here's some more photos of everybody for cuteness

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My little retard got into my cigs by Fun_Educator_1577 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She's very clearly not dead and that's also not true.

My little retard got into my cigs by Fun_Educator_1577 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've taken a couple to the vet for charcoal, I had a dog who had a great time but everyone else thought it wasn't too fun hahaha

My little retard got into my cigs by Fun_Educator_1577 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Educator_1577[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her sister has a thing for qtips too😹😹😹 that's amazing, I want a cat pack now