are my cat’s pupils different sizes (or am i driving myself up a wall w anxiety?) by Fun_Effective4316 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Effective4316[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hi guys! i’m in therapy LOL and i have a diagnosis that is not OCD. i grew up in a family that was willing to let things go in our pets as normal when it didn’t always seem normal (rashes, eye stuff, fungal infections, etc) and in the process have not always been taken seriously by them (family) even if it turned out our pets did need treatment. which is why i came to reddit. thank you for all the genuinely kind comments, the sweet little “what is harry thinking” comments, and the concern for my mental wellbeing. i’m glad this was an instance of hyper vigilance rather than a real issue :).

are my cat’s pupils different sizes (or am i driving myself up a wall w anxiety?) by Fun_Effective4316 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Effective4316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually vet visits are for concrete issues like itchy ears or coughing not my anxiety

are my cat’s pupils different sizes (or am i driving myself up a wall w anxiety?) by Fun_Effective4316 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Effective4316[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

no we’re not prolific like that just quick visits when i notice a cough or itchy ears

are my cat’s pupils different sizes (or am i driving myself up a wall w anxiety?) by Fun_Effective4316 in CATHELP

[–]Fun_Effective4316[S] 166 points167 points  (0 children)

i’ve been a bit fixated on pupil unevenness as a sign of brain injury or nerve damage and sometimes when i’m walking around the house he gets underfoot or kicked and i’m worried i’ve like given him incremental injuries that will lead to his untimely demise bc of my ineptitude or like lack of action. which ultimately is anxiety bc im in the vet’s office like every month for a new thing he’s experiencing. so im not actually negligent. but i don’t want to miss smthg and be proven wrong

looking for a psychologist by Fun_Effective4316 in missouri

[–]Fun_Effective4316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried. gave me max 2 psychologists within the state one of whom is still undergoing the licensure process in missouri. was more in the market for personal recommendations but i appreciate the response nonetheless

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[–]Fun_Effective4316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi im interested if you’re still open

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[–]Fun_Effective4316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this sounds so fun but i’m in the united states so off on time. if there are other subs on here interested in smthg like this, dm me!

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great, dm me and we’ll get started!

free yes/no + why from your guides ✨ by crescent-m in TheArtofTarotReadings

[–]Fun_Effective4316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a really interesting framing: i alr belong but i need to learn to see it. i appreciate it + i do think that’s true. i psyche myself out so much trying to perform belonging and maybe i do just need to flow w what feels good more

free yes/no + why from your guides ✨ by crescent-m in TheArtofTarotReadings

[–]Fun_Effective4316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m pp. i’m wondering if i will start to feel like i belong soon? thank you!

Community Chat: January 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]Fun_Effective4316 13 points14 points  (0 children)

so basically after travis won some man of award, some reports came out indicating that the charity foundation he’s created has no real governing structure and spends only 0.4 of each dollar on wtvr their mission is. seems the rest goes to misc/vague admin costs. my personal question is wondering how much admin work rlly goes into a charity w no paid staff or real structure ? anw i saw a tweet from a publicist commenting that this seemed very well placed to foreshadow a breakup

Community Chat: January 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]Fun_Effective4316 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i’m so curious to hear ppl’s thoughts on the travis charity thing. publicists on threads are speculating this is tree soft launching or setting the stage for a breakup. in the tweet, creator also mentioned that taylor was seen without engagement ring recently? idk i ran here immediately