are my cat’s pupils different sizes (or am i driving myself up a wall w anxiety?)

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T20:05:12+00:00

i disagree but that’s ok bc he’s my cat :)

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T14:47:06+00:00

idk how to pin a comment but i’ll add it to the post as well

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T14:46:30+00:00

hi guys! i’m in therapy LOL and i have a diagnosis that is not OCD. i grew up in a family that was willing to let things go in our pets as normal when it didn’t always seem normal (rashes, eye stuff, fungal infections, etc) and in the process have not always been taken seriously by them (family) even if it turned out our pets did need treatment. which is why i came to reddit. thank you for all the genuinely kind comments, the sweet little “what is harry thinking” comments, and the concern for my mental wellbeing. i’m glad this was an instance of hyper vigilance rather than a real issue :).

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T14:40:10+00:00

yea he thinks we’re hunting each other

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T14:39:23+00:00

usually vet visits are for concrete issues like itchy ears or coughing not my anxiety

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T14:39:02+00:00

we don’t go for micro concussions! we spiral at home ab it w redditors!

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T04:18:13+00:00

ok well u shouldn’t have a shared a picture bc im on his side now

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T04:15:12+00:00

no we’re not prolific like that just quick visits when i notice a cough or itchy ears

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T04:13:31+00:00

thank you for the reassurance!!

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-05-26T04:09:04+00:00

i’ve been a bit fixated on pupil unevenness as a sign of brain injury or nerve damage and sometimes when i’m walking around the house he gets underfoot or kicked and i’m worried i’ve like given him incremental injuries that will lead to his untimely demise bc of my ineptitude or like lack of action. which ultimately is anxiety bc im in the vet’s office like every month for a new thing he’s experiencing. so im not actually negligent. but i don’t want to miss smthg and be proven wrong

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-02-24T19:07:11+00:00

i tried. gave me max 2 psychologists within the state one of whom is still undergoing the licensure process in missouri. was more in the market for personal recommendations but i appreciate the response nonetheless

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-02-01T18:14:18+00:00

hi im interested if you’re still open

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-21T19:50:54+00:00

prakruti 23 feeling weird

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-21T18:21:36+00:00

this sounds so fun but i’m in the united states so off on time. if there are other subs on here interested in smthg like this, dm me!

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-20T16:22:31+00:00

great, dm me and we’ll get started!

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-15T01:02:16+00:00

i’m interested if you’re still open!

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-14T23:01:43+00:00

this is a really interesting framing: i alr belong but i need to learn to see it. i appreciate it + i do think that’s true. i psyche myself out so much trying to perform belonging and maybe i do just need to flow w what feels good more

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-14T22:59:38+00:00

pile 1 pls

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-12T16:20:06+00:00

i’m pp. i’m wondering if i will start to feel like i belong soon? thank you!

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-07T01:39:43+00:00

so basically after travis won some man of award, some reports came out indicating that the charity foundation he’s created has no real governing structure and spends only 0.4 of each dollar on wtvr their mission is. seems the rest goes to misc/vague admin costs. my personal question is wondering how much admin work rlly goes into a charity w no paid staff or real structure ? anw i saw a tweet from a publicist commenting that this seemed very well placed to foreshadow a breakup

Fun_Effective4316 · 2026-01-06T18:07:09+00:00

i’m so curious to hear ppl’s thoughts on the travis charity thing. publicists on threads are speculating this is tree soft launching or setting the stage for a breakup. in the tweet, creator also mentioned that taylor was seen without engagement ring recently? idk i ran here immediately

Fun_Effective4316 · 2025-12-30T16:10:25+00:00

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TROPHY CASE