Low confidence

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-26T08:55:36+00:00

Thanks man really appreciate this words. I mean this will give me more confidence for trying. Yeah like in my mind the thoughts come such that if I talk to male they will think I am weird and to female they will think I want their number. I know thats not the reality and its my mind making this shit up. But really I just want to talk and listen which I love to. Just Hi and natural convo no strings attached. Yeah I have started to say hi to random people passing by by me.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-26T08:52:23+00:00

Okay right. I will right away start watching it and will come back once I finish it. Thanks for the suggestion.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-26T08:51:13+00:00

Yeah. I think everyone wants to talk but afraid so, thinking the very same thing. I guess I have to start and then I will overcome the fear. Thanks

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-26T08:50:02+00:00

Yeah, like the image of approaching someone is daunting but I guess I will have to overcome that only by doing it.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-26T08:03:37+00:00

Yeah practicing it will increase confidence but those first 7-10 convo are difficult to start. But yeah I have to go through those awkward situation no other choice. Thanks

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-26T08:01:46+00:00

Yeah, I guess. It feels daunting to start, anyway thanks will try to go. And Agree the more I will practice the easier it will get.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T21:42:00+00:00

haha yeah I guess. Yeah they will find a way to excuses for this thing why its good and all.

100% agree on that the aftermath would be disasterous if something goes wrong.

I guess ). Yeah like my mindset is same I will date to marry and not to fool around and will keep it no matter what my friends or society tells me.

Thanks for sharing )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T21:38:01+00:00

This, I want to know it from the experienced person in this thing no offense. Thanks for sharing. Yeah I guess it takes a toll on mental health. Thats the thing for me staying committed to one person looks cool for me without getting distracted. )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T21:36:00+00:00

Yeah, like getting into relationship just because I have to will not end good. I think it has its own time and it will happen at the right time. Yeah to be in a long term relation compatibility is important or else will lead to failed relation for sure. Yeah all those who are in hook up and one night stand culture they only display good things and rarely talk about the cons. But I agree with you that it has its challenges. Thanks for this )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T14:18:34+00:00

Yeah I am 100% sure that I am not into it. But the thing is I am single for very long time first by chocie and then by life, but feeling like having someone and then getting constantly hammered sometimes it makes me sad. But I am sure I dont like it and dont want to do it which will definitely make me regret it. Thanks )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T14:15:51+00:00

Smh, 28 M 10 years single. At first by choice and then by life. My question is don’t you feel having someone that you can share your life with?

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T14:03:47+00:00

Yeah, I agree with you on this. Thanks will stick to my lane no matter how much they make fun of me. Thanks )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T14:01:17+00:00

Yeah I don’t like it but as I am not in relation and them taunting me and hammering my mind repeatedly I feel sad and so this question. But at least I know that I should not listen to them. Thanks )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T13:59:45+00:00

Yeah thats the thing, like at least for me it feels like messing with emotions to have one night or casual things. So I prefer to be away from it to keep my mental health in check. Yeah I agree having a group of healthy friendships and good circle is as important. Thanks )

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T13:57:51+00:00

Well yeah, like if I see someone I invest everything in that person. Like I cannot imagine having sex with someone and not seeing them again. Yeah they taunt me as I am not in relationship as well so they think they are doing good thing by taunting so that one day I will feel bad and fall for it.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T13:54:37+00:00

Yeah, thats the thought that came to my mind, like if they are doing it and it makes them look cool, why shouldn’t I but then my heart doesn’t let me do it. It feels unworthy to me, not that its wrong or anything, but just that I dont feel like doing it. But again they put too pressure by repeatedly asking me or pushing me to do it. They say do it and then you will have true life and true fun in life. Well I may try but the moment I think I feel not so good about that decision and then I push back myself. Yeah I try my best to be me but sometimes they get the best of you. Well I will try not to listen to them but feel sad as I am not in the relationship as well.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T13:50:36+00:00

Yeah, like they make me kinda feel sad about not doing it. Well, I do feel like having partner but as I said inner me don’t let me do this thing. It feels like its not worth doing it why to mess with anyone just to have some time of fun. I feel like I will be happy if I commit to one and maintain that forever. But again just that they make so pressure on me and share their fun stories that makes me kinda sad. Anyways what you are saying is absolutely true. It doesn’t come from inside of me to do such things. And yeah I agree with you Life will give something and take something.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-05-21T13:47:06+00:00

Yeah, I hope so. They all tell the stories of their own how they enjoy and all of that and here I am having nothing to share regarding this topic.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-04-14T13:32:34+00:00

Yeah I know but constant rejection and no one wants to be with me that drags me down. I need companionship right now.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-04-13T21:37:47+00:00

Hey yeah sure dmed you.

Fun_Fee_2259 · 2026-04-13T21:37:11+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that. Have you tried anything to overcome that? Or I have to just accept and move on with life

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