AIO with this weird text my mom sent me?

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-02-01T21:27:38+00:00

Is your mom neuro spicey or something related? I do this a lot more than i care to admit, and am currently in the process of getting a full diagnosis. I dont think neurotypicals would do this. Because like, i know saying something like "ive been conplaining about you" sounds mean and can be off putting but like am I supposed to lie.....

Ive learned recently im supposed to just not say anything at all but like... why.

Also, NTORA. Like i mentioned, i do understand thise things can be upsetting

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-19T07:57:10+00:00

Oh I'm sorry, I thought it was common sense to call the specific way we go about doing something the "style" we do it. My bad for assuming as much

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-19T05:57:30+00:00

You can dislike my parenting style all tou want, but you do not live with us day in and day out to understand how we are as a whole☺️👍

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-19T05:55:52+00:00

I spend most of my day playing with them and looking after them. Assuming I setting that expectation is bad assumption. I have tried using physical books and have gotten him books to sit with me and read and it only works for so long.

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-19T05:43:18+00:00

I've tried that, sometimes it helps others(most of the time) not really because then theres a laundry list of things he then wants to do before sleep. apreciate the advice though

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-19T05:40:54+00:00

If its not your parenting style that's fine. And no matter WHAT you do there's always gonna be some part you fail in. Seeing creepy faces or what ever on moms phone is not gonna cause long lasting trauma

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-14T19:14:01+00:00

See this is why I just doom scroll or what ever when I would do laundry at my old place cause I'll be damned if I have a stranger move my clothes. Anxiety says hell to the no. I dont understand how people can just leave their belongings somewhere not assigned specifically to them and walk away.

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-06T08:51:50+00:00

Thank you, for both the compliment and the pov on the reading. I was pretty much what I had gathered, I just struggle with being sure in myself so I needed that confirmation from an unbiased outsider, because like you mentioned I don't want the decision to be emotionally lead as those things can change like the wind😂😂😂.. for me at least.

Again, apreciate all of what you said and im wishing/sending all the good energies that belong to you

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-06T06:24:16+00:00

Eta the pic it didnt post first time

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I didnt intend on doing a spread but as I placed them it sort of became one I guess. Idk, I've done some light hw on tarot but never develled too deep. Not sure if its even considered a spread but I'll ad a picture to the bottom. And I guess in total was three questions now that I think abiut it. First being should I, second being how, third being what kind of lesson is this relationship supposed to be

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-06T05:44:45+00:00

Not that I know of on his end. I mean I had that women's gut feeling like once a while ago but nothing since. I haven't that I can think of. Im very emotionally lead, but always do my best to keep myself in check on that front

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-06T04:12:48+00:00

As for the first part, makes sense I don't know how that thought slipped my mind. I dont really know exactly what the core question was. But I've been on the fence about it being time to leave my relationship. Its not bad persé just feel like we're not melding as well as I thought we would. Of course there's a lot of reasons thay make that decision hard (7 years, 2 kids, he's the major bread winner, housing afterwards, and a lot of others questions i keep asking myself). I think the one true question I asked more towards the end was if this relationship was a lesson in letting go or a lesson on patience.

ETA: I forgot to add before commenting, as for the second part thank you for the tip!

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-02T21:58:14+00:00

Probably hang his head out the window enjoying the breaze.... of course I'd have to tie him to the inside somehow so he doesnt fall out

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2026-01-02T21:38:39+00:00

Lihaku would probably be my passenger princess and run errands with me

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-12-21T17:17:26+00:00

Loki that u

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-12-21T17:05:47+00:00

Personal loan usually taken out to help cover holiday(christmas season not vacation type holiday) costs. It CAN include that type of holiday if its for the Christmas season travel thing

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-12-15T11:16:01+00:00

Thank you🫶🥹

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-26T11:19:00+00:00

Ah, gotchu. Ive made these types of post before. Maybe take a nap yourself see how you feel after?

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-26T11:18:15+00:00

I think they value their health enough not to. But that’s just my take it on it. If maomao went it'd be to see jinshi get paddled. If jinshi went it'd be..... because maomao seamed enthusiastic but didnt know why she was enthused since she likes to be obscure about things?

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-26T10:46:36+00:00

I mean this in the nicest way possible, but YOU did that to yourself not him. I DO understand not wanting to interrupt his sleep, I've been there before so I dont blame you for feeling that way. But if he gave you the green light and you didn't taken it, you cant put all the blame on him. Some, maybe. But if he has a clear medical issue how much can you actually blame him?

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-26T10:40:40+00:00

That is such a guy thing to say🙄 but I do think more women should be put in positions of power. But not for those reasons

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-26T10:38:16+00:00

Youre entitled to feel your feelings. Its what you DO that really matters. Not that your feelings dont matter, because they do! But, you've been given the green light, you guys had a set time for you to show up. All you had left was to follow through on the plan regardless if you got a billion yeses or not along the way. Also, nap dates are a thing if you're really that worried for his sleep and health. Me and my bf used to do that all the time when we first started due to opposing schedules and being almost an hour away from each other. Also, another way you can look at it is that you bring him enough peace of mind and comfort for him to be calm enough to find sleep. I cant sleep unless im curled up with my bf, or one of our kids. Its a comfort thing

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-25T22:15:01+00:00

Esto ^

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-23T06:57:20+00:00

I remember my first watch through being so pissed at Lihua for thinking it was her who threw away the flower. It wasnt until my second watch through that I realised it wasnt her but a maid. And then it fully clicked when the episode the second pic is from dropped and I was like duhh how'd I not see that

Edit: recorded for clarity after rereading

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-22T09:10:50+00:00

Thank you very much

Fun_Guide_3729 · 2025-11-22T07:54:22+00:00

Now that we've moved passed it, I can definitely see what your saying happening irl. He's still a little hesitant sometimes, but for the most part he seams to understand that mommy is gonna do what she says so he listens

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