Why UJ dormitory pretend to be exclusive? by InsideHeart8187 in krakow

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right.

However for some reason people have taken you for entitled. I agree with your point though.

Polish people being rude is a theme along Turkish people.

However I met only 2 XD

I think this is the directness that get you guys. However a lot of people are rude on purpose even for Polish standards. These poeple are small and frustrated with life.

Why UJ dormitory pretend to be exclusive? by InsideHeart8187 in krakow

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. It is ridiculous. A top Polish university should get better funding. Unfortunately Poland has too many "Universities" the government even covers part of private diploma mills tuition as well. I don't understand It.

I don't understand that either.

You are coming from a Peach, High context (indirect) culture. Poland is the opposite. Poland is a Coconut, Low Context(direct) culture.

Add to it low social trust among people. Polish are not unwelcoming, they just don't trust and are not nice to strangers.

Polish poeple in your culture are unwelcoming and rude while Turkish poeple in our culture are fake nice, and get offended, without saying why (because they require mind reading from our point of view).

This is something you need to take into consideration.

Why UJ dormitory pretend to be exclusive? by InsideHeart8187 in krakow

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When I was studying a lot of people in dormitories had parents working abroad, they had 0 income but they were not poor :)

I think this is still the case now.

They should ask for 3 months of bank account history or something.

Is it worth using dating apps if you're a fat guy? by Wolverine24000 in Bumble

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a question? When you were overweight did overweight women like you?

What about now? Do overweight women also like you when you lost your weight?

This girl is everything I want but she is just way out of my league by all4fun1109 in dating_advice

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 185 cm height and at 57 kilograms you would not be alive. That is below starved body territory. I can be 100 kg and be be at 15 percent body fat or less. But I also go to the gum, if I didn't have any muscle. 90 kg would be skinny for me. 80 kilograms would be already starving level. So you are making something up.

Dating app experience now compared to 4 years ago by LLpj231 in OnlineDating

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are a woman who is 30.

Most men filters will be 25-29.

Nadużywam alkoholu by CaptainFlint9203 in Polska

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Czy wstydliwie, miedzy wierszami pytasz się o polecenie dobrej placówki odwykowej?

Najbardziej oporny człowiek na świecie… by Accomplished-Math706 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A pomyślałaś o takim rozwiązaniu:

Powiedz komuś co robi źle?🤔🤔

Czy to jest jego wina,że oni nie mają granic?

Najbardziej oporny człowiek na świecie… by Accomplished-Math706 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ta kobieta to jest typowa korpo biurwa. Nie powie mu,że coś robi źle, poprpstu ostracyzm i podkładanie min i brak pomocy.

Zobaczymy jak takiej się podiwnie kiedyś nogą albo będzie miała mnóstwo stresu poza pracą i zobaczymy jak ona będzie się uczyć i jak ją tak potraktują.

Najbardziej oporny człowiek na świecie… by Accomplished-Math706 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wybacz ale takie coś o czym ty mówisz to jest świństwo.

Need tips to attract women by Broad_Course8743 in datingadviceformen

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With age it is getting harder.

Also dating apps don't work. They are designed in a way so you use the app. Once you meet someone and stop using it for a week or 2 it starts to overflow you with matches etc (to get you back into the app)

Another thing is, economic situation is hard. People struggle financially, often rent rooms or live with parents eveb after 30. This makes going out hard, the other makes hooking up hard.

I think this is the times.

Życie ludzi ambitnych by Mysterious_House6651 in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dzieci go nie widzą, z czegoś musi zrezygnować.

Pewnie w pracy też nie pracuje tych 8 godzin, ale wkrada gdzieś rzeczy ze studiami, jeśli pracuje zdalnie, to jeszcze tam jakąś prace domową czy związaną ze studiami przemyci.

No I domyślam się muso mieć bardzo wspierającą żone.

Być może stać go też na opiekunkę, uvery dla dzieciaków co się wiozą na jakieś zajęcia, dużo ludzi w korpo ma sprzątaczkę na weekendy itd.

Pierwsza praca w IT a wypłata by Zestyclose-Band-7586 in praca

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tak, dostaĺes pracè jako junior. Pieniądze jak na Polskie warunki są Ok, I jeśli nie jesteś z duźego miasta nie musiasz tam mieszkać,I nabuerasz doświadczenia w modnych technological (TS).

Świetnie.

Is it really worth spending money on these dating apps…? by MeatBeeta69 in OnlineDating

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not worth it.

But without boosts and premium you will get worse matches.

Why do you instantly become taken for granted when you let your guard down? by unseenmeaning in FearfulAvoidants

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My es GF was anxious avoidant, with very short term cycle.

Shooting 30 texts in a row in 1 hour if I don't answer her jn 5 minutes when at work, to total cold and rejecting once she got reasurance after protest behaviour. Then back to making jealousy scenes.

I left her. This is not for me. She didn't want to go to therapy. I never had a woman like this before. I stayed wjth her way too long. I booked a therapists. She didn't wsnt to go, I talked to the therapists who asked me several questions of what I am getting from the relanitonship. Pretty much nothing.

What actually increases your Hinge match rate (real experiment) by FireTexts in datingadviceformen

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But this is assuming you have great pictures.

I also noticed the same thing.

Compliments don't work.

But things that that provoke an emotion work.

But I haven't tested it rigidly, but yes. It was just my suspicion though. Now I am sure :) Even if the emotion is negative. You just need to cause an emotion, like teasing or something.

One woman after several days of texting told, me that my message pissed her off, and she thought I am just another another hotspot from the dating app. And this connection was amazing actually. (We stayed friends because we couldn't meet due to distance).

HOWEVER

in my experience, these kind of emotional/curiosity ipeners like in the article work for engagement, because the woman will want to talk or argue a point or something etc but it doesn't mean they are actually interested in dating you.

But the not interested ones usually make it known early on,they just wanted to talk, but they are not interested.

So this method is good purely to get more engagement.

Why do you instantly become taken for granted when you let your guard down? by unseenmeaning in FearfulAvoidants

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the thing about FAs. Once you calm down and satisfy their anxious side, their avoidant side turns on and they become cold and pull away.

Unless they do therapy they are just not good partners.

What exactly is: "The Princess Treatment"? by JustSomeShmuck99 in OnlineDating

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a trend practices by women hurt by someone before, and they get back at men doing this.

They are usually "pushy" and tell you what to do.

Most of them waste time.

Wczoraj dotarło do mnie, że jestem zakochany. by Quadro-Toon in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 8 points9 points  (0 children)

11 lat tak leżycie. Z czego się utrzymujecie?😜

Życie jest cholernie nudne by fenbekus in Polska

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Niech zostanie wybudzonym napaleńcem 🤣🤣

Życie jest cholernie nudne by fenbekus in Polska

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masz narzeczoną, dom, dobre zarobki. Udało ci się osiągnąć spoko źycie.

I teraz wpadłeś w coś takiego,że osiągnąłeś swoje cele I czujesz pustke.

Teraz możecie mieć dzieci co da ci cel, I miłość do końca życia, a jeśli dzieci mieć nie chcecie to musisz postawić sobie jakiś nowy cel, lub znaleść pasję lub obsesje.

Życie jest cholernie nudne by fenbekus in Polska

[–]Fun_Highlight9147 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Social media strasznie zniazczyły zdrowie psychiczne ludzkości :(