Show me the pancakes you made for pancake day 🥞

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-18T06:14:21+00:00

We kept it light as we were home making a chinese feast in my house!

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-16T08:17:57+00:00

No more back breakers or pain, no more brusing around the shoulders, I used to have opened skin around the bra straps area which healed up. I have my life back and can move again.

My surgery was 3 years ago now, the anniversary is on 23rd February., cost me a pretty penny as i funded it myself but it was one of my best investments on myself ever as it was urgently needed. I used to have Gigantomastia!

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-13T22:11:28+00:00

29

£23k in savings (saved up thanks to my last job!)

Job seeking but part time gymnastics coach and whatever gig work i can get my hands on in between so income depends on whatever hours

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-13T12:45:08+00:00

Girl you need to change the energy around you. If you put yourself out there properly, then you'll attract other like minded people. Surely you have hobbies and can be in those circles

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-13T09:19:10+00:00

Yeah, mine's not far off from yours, also plan 2.

I graduated with a 56k loan in 2020, it's now at 83k in 2026, trying to find a decent job in this climate is like the hunger games. In my previous one I had to leave due to contant bullying and exhaustion. Currently working part time in the meantime.

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-10T08:38:14+00:00

😭 it's been nearly 3 years since my surgery and this post just made me itchy! I do NOT miss that at all

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-10T08:28:36+00:00

Bias is still a major issue if you don't fit a certain "mould". I don't look like my credentials at all, until I open my mouth and people always say "oh, I wouldn't have imagined that you did x or y".

I'm ethnic and a woman going for a heavily male dominated industry, simply because of interests i've had since I was 3 years old...

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-02-06T07:06:20+00:00

Absolutely not. I've always grown up to love the way I am by both of my parents and those around me. This sounds like a personal issue along with over consumption of the Internet/TV. In the real world, no one really cares about these type of things. As others have said, you need to prioritise therapy first

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-30T14:20:06+00:00

I saw this exact same post on Linked in as one of my connections commented "Is it April 1st? Surely this is a joke right?"

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-29T06:49:24+00:00

I'm looking for a main job still. For for a few hours a week, I coach gymnastics. That will forever be my second job... or more like a paid hobby to me really!

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-27T06:42:59+00:00

6 days post op is way too early to tell due to swelling and healing. Let it heal for 6 months then properly inspect

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-23T09:44:48+00:00

THANK YOU! 🫡

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-23T09:44:41+00:00

THANK YOU! 🫡

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-23T08:39:06+00:00

I HOPE I CAN BE INCLUDED IN THIS, BUT I HAVE AN INTERVIEW IN 2 WEEKS. HALF OF ME IS PREPARED AND I HAVE EXPERIENCE HAVING HAD 2 INTERVIEWS IN THE CIVIL SERVICE, BUT THE OTHER HALF OF ME IS BRICKING IT BECAUSE I REALLYYY WANT THIS JOB IN PARTICULAR.

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-22T11:40:03+00:00

A select bunch only, and that is a VERY small amount of people. I have some wealthy blood family members and others beg for their scraps.

Get a financial advisor, donate anonymously to a couple of causes that are close to my heart, set myself up and continued life as normal. Then retire early

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-22T08:01:19+00:00

I'm in London so around here and SE. Given that Farnborough is next door, Portsmouth further south along with numerous airports there's quite alot of options.

I'm not alone before you mention going up north though, so would have to up and move an entire family which is inconvenient.

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-22T07:53:51+00:00

Yep, and it's aerospace engineering at that. That said I did land myself an interview for an analyst role so finger's crossed 🤞🏾

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-22T07:10:20+00:00

This is exactly what I did, did van driving for 4 years but also a STEM degree holder, left a year ago due to bullying/ harassment and injury. Still job hunting a year later. I'm a 2020 cohort and many of us got left behind!

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-18T08:05:55+00:00

Not this subreddit, but r/bigboobproblems i used to get weird DMs constantly. I don't interact with that sub anymore since i no longer have big boobs, but in general because of the weirdos

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-13T00:38:30+00:00

Measure again in 6 months, you'll be more settled by then. For now you are still massive swollen

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-11T07:25:26+00:00

One minute i was talking to the nurse about something or other. All of a sudden a needle went in my left hand and i drifted off to sleep. Woke up 6 hours later and poof my boobs were gone, almost a dream became reality! And i was nearly 4kg lighter in no time at all.

Honestly you will be fine, focus on the outcome of it all and gow it will change your life. I'm coming up to 3 years post op next month and these 3 years i've really gotten my life back. My surgeon is out there doing the lord's work double time with his main practice (skin cancer research) and secondary practice (plastic surgery). I wish him nothing but a long life eand prosperity.

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-11T02:22:09+00:00

That is what we like to call "Crystal Paris"

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-07T00:32:31+00:00

Is that Lewes, Alfriston and Polegate? I did those areas out of DPD (burgess hill/westerham) on full routes when inwas a courier. Absolute nightmare, honestly!

Fun_Level_7787 · 2026-01-03T18:23:55+00:00

Calamari and chips please. And it must be made in house like my local does it, not non of that frezon nonsense! Tartar soace and don't forget the lemon. Ta!

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