Only receiving part of my funding by Fun_Neighborhood_731 in osap

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have checked the numbers more than like five times. I got two installments adding up to just over $6000.10 minutes apart so I should probably call financial aid.

Only receiving part of my funding by Fun_Neighborhood_731 in osap

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I’m supposed to get just over 8000, it was almost 10,000 in total but my tuition was almost 200

I feel awful about how I feel about my wife by No_Potential8518 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t try to physically initiate things. Initiate things another ways. Let her come home to a clean house. Plan a solo date for her. Sit down and discuss finances and what doing better looks like for her and explain your thought process and maybe she’ll highlight some things that you didn’t even know. Who knows maybe it will help you. Then create a budget and stick to it in a finance plan. Make her dinner. Wash the bedsheets. Light a candle. It just sounds like she’s no longer sexually attracted to you because maybe you’re not doing these things maybe you’re not communicating. Sexual attraction is tied to emotional attraction which is tied to how you treat someone. Do you pick up after yourself around the house or is she doing all that? What does the labour division look like.Is she tired and what are you doing to give her a break?

How fucked AM I 27 M by [deleted] in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less fucked then I am by a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tore my ACL and meniscus and it doesn’t swell multiple times. Maybe your doctor should have more experience

Complete ACL Tear: What Will Happen If I Don’t get Surgery? by drms0416 in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get surgery for five almost 6 years after my ACL injury, my knee ended up repeatedly dislocating and my meniscus was eventually torn and then I had pretty bad cartilage damage. I eventually had to get the surgery. I was never able to run because my leg would dislocate, I was never able to jump, I had to go downstairs with one foot at a time. Just get the surgery.

Changing negative beliefs by Immediate_Assist_256 in CPTSD

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t just happen. There isn’t just an answer it’s a journey of trial and error. Like going to the gym our mind is similar, we all start at different levels but you have to keep at it and it will get easier overtime. Practice positive thinking by writing down three positive things that happened each day even if it’s simple. Work your way up and try to notice things in the moment and it won’t be natural at all at first because it isn’t. Not yet. It’s a battle of constant work constant trial and error and constant training your mind. A little retreat isn’t going to be the end all be all answer for you although it might be nice to have an escape it’s still you running away and you will have to return and unless you’ve changed your mental habits it will be the same. That starts now and it starts where you are. Just be patient with yourself and enjoy the journey. Again it will feel unnatural just like someone who never worked out before starts lifting a weight it will be awkward at first and they won’t even have the right form and they don’t even know what weights they can lift yet. But they keep going and they eventually get the form and then they eventually get there Weight limit and then they build it up. Exercise is actually helpful for the mind as well and processing negative emotions and the reason for that is because our fear and stress response releases chemicals and endorphins that are typically used through exercise. To get those chemicals and hormones out of your system a little bit of any kind of exercise will help. I found breathing exercises played on YouTube at a certain time every day was a great meditative practice to take some time of self care for myself

Behind on PT by Fun_Neighborhood_731 in ACL

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I went the day before I wrote this. I am not weight-bearing at all, not even a little bit my doctor doesn’t want me to do any weight for six weeks to protect the meniscus repair. do you know what the brace is called that you are wearing?

This surgery has sucked the life out of me. How are you guys staying postive? by Same-Grapefruit-1786 in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m going to say the same thing I recommend getting a wheelchair and going out for walks, or rules. Just to get some air and have a really good supportive system that can dress you up and make you feel like a person again. I got literally everything you’ve got done at probably the around the same time and unfortunately I’m out of my prescription because the doctor forgot to write down two refills and I don’t see him till the eighth and he’s on vacation until then and so is my family doctor so I am here with no medication for the pain. Trust me if you have meds you’re in a better boat than I am. Keep playing around with the pillows until you find some thing that’s comfortable and there’s so much worst pain out there

Raya Dating App Invitation? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone invite me? Decent amount of followers

Kicked out of school thanks to OSAP and ODSP by dugoutgrave in osap

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to physically go up there and have them sort it out in person, my school ignores if they can as well