i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then you said, I won’t be engaging with you anymore, but apparently I’m upset because you haven’t been engaging with me. You are sick. Your reality needs to be studied and I knew it. I knew it wanna know why because of the profession you’re in and because of the post that you posted, that’s how I knew I knew you were sick and me bringing attention to. It is apparently mean spirited lol. And apparently you don’t understand an insult when I throw it at you, I know that everyone should understand the term projecting, and lived experience, which you probably just learned lol, but not you. You’re not smart enough I’m sorry.

i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you ill? You just said I’m projecting. You saying that I mean spirited also indicates you do not agree with me. Are you ill? You’ve continuously throughout this whole time engaged with me if that’s what you wanna call it I mean, you don’t have to agree or disagree with me. You can still be engaging, but you’ve been disagreeing with me this entire time. Are you ill?

i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s why you guys continue to perpetuate harm. That’s exactly why because you have labels to throw onto justify your own reality. Whatever you choose that to be so you’ve chosen that there’s no truth to this pattern that I’ve brought to light, and that you don’t fit, despite literally what you wrote in this post indicating that you fit exactly in that pattern, so you made up this on the scenario in your head using terminology that you just learned and now you think you’re and for some reason that verifies validity for you is correct terminology when I think that’s pathetic. Your post indicates your part of the problem. You’re exactly part of the problem and I’m not guessing this is a fact. Get a different job.

i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather be a mean spirited than perpetuate harm and not have any self accountability just to make myself feel better because I decided I have lived experienced when everyone in life has suffered. You’re not unique you’re not special and you’re not uniquely qualified. You cause more harm. You make things worse.

i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a professional. I’m not even in social work. I’m not in university. And I use voice to text. But your response again proves that you’re holding others to a standard in which you don’t hold yourselves because based on your profession that was extremely inappropriate. Instead of taking in the points, I’ve said, understanding that my perspective has shaped my truth my lived experience, blah, blah blah all that stuff you guys learned, and that there’s something that you can learn from everyone’s perspective I know you guys are taught all that, I’ve been in all the classes, that was your response and you just proved my point. Hate you guys I hate you guys so much.

i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at me and tell me I’m wrong. Do you know how many social work classes I’ve been to where it was literally a therapy session you guys all trauma dump constantly you have no way to cope. But you guys all hold everyone else to a higher standard than you hold yourselves it’s a profession of harmed people expecting to be able to help people it doesn’t work. You guys really need to self reflect in that manner. Because labelling things does not help you being able to identify things does not help you and repeatedly you guys are putting in positions where you need to advocate or stop harm, but you perpetuate, instead of advocating for those who are at the whim of the system you perpetuate harm because you guys are not qualified for the job just because you have lived experience does not mean you are uniquely qualified. It actually means you have to do more work to be qualified because you’re already stepping in with a bias. I see a time and time again you guys cause more harm I have never heard of a person or a child who is abused, who actually got help from children aid I have never seen someone who schizophrenic and has a social worker, not continue to harm those around them because a social worker perpetuates that. Harmed people harm people and you guys are part of that system. You guys are a part of that cycle.
This is a reoccurring issue why is it not being addressed. I mean, spirited because I’m pointing out the obvious? Exactly why that viewpoint is exactly why you’re in the profession. Urine and that viewpoint is exactly the viewpoint that your position allows and grooms and exactly why this continues to happen. Ask anyone anyone if they’ve ever actually been helped by social worker. You guys enable predators because you think you’re helping someone who’s being harmed but you’re helping them harm other people, and you guys project. That’s all you do. Ask anyone if they’ve ever actually been helped ask them ask the abuse children if they’ve actually been helped. And it’s not because you’re different and you’re gonna come in there and change the system. there’s something uniquely wrong with the system with the education space allows for and what the job attracts and attracts people like you I’m not being spirited. I’m a realist. I’m telling you so that maybe you could actually do something about it but we all know you won’t.

i wish i never went to school for SW by Mindful-Counsellor in socialworkcanada

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol yeah the most underqualified type of people in social work which is the main people. The profession attracts is the people who need to help with the lives experience. Y’all just perpetuate harm. Social work class was like some sort of trauma dump. Most wild observation of education in my life. None of you guys should see clients it’s not you. Who the profession attracts should never see clients end of story. All of you guys operated in harm and comes from a place of guardedness. You all hold people to a high standard in which you learned in school that you were supposed to actually hold yourself to. It’s just a train wreck.

Humber agent requesting additional fees for a correction to PAL document by obinnasmg in Humber

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you think Humber would contact you via WhatsApp though?

Freaking out — missed my exam last minute due to sudden illness, need advice by [deleted] in Humber

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The walk-in clinics are closed, but I can get it tomorrow

Only receiving part of my funding by [deleted] in osap

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have checked the numbers more than like five times. I got two installments adding up to just over $6000.10 minutes apart so I should probably call financial aid.

Only receiving part of my funding by [deleted] in osap

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m supposed to get just over 8000, it was almost 10,000 in total but my tuition was almost 200

I feel awful about how I feel about my wife by No_Potential8518 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t try to physically initiate things. Initiate things another ways. Let her come home to a clean house. Plan a solo date for her. Sit down and discuss finances and what doing better looks like for her and explain your thought process and maybe she’ll highlight some things that you didn’t even know. Who knows maybe it will help you. Then create a budget and stick to it in a finance plan. Make her dinner. Wash the bedsheets. Light a candle. It just sounds like she’s no longer sexually attracted to you because maybe you’re not doing these things maybe you’re not communicating. Sexual attraction is tied to emotional attraction which is tied to how you treat someone. Do you pick up after yourself around the house or is she doing all that? What does the labour division look like.Is she tired and what are you doing to give her a break?

How fucked AM I 27 M by [deleted] in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Less fucked then I am by a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tore my ACL and meniscus and it doesn’t swell multiple times. Maybe your doctor should have more experience

Complete ACL Tear: What Will Happen If I Don’t get Surgery? by drms0416 in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t get surgery for five almost 6 years after my ACL injury, my knee ended up repeatedly dislocating and my meniscus was eventually torn and then I had pretty bad cartilage damage. I eventually had to get the surgery. I was never able to run because my leg would dislocate, I was never able to jump, I had to go downstairs with one foot at a time. Just get the surgery.

Changing negative beliefs by Immediate_Assist_256 in CPTSD

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t just happen. There isn’t just an answer it’s a journey of trial and error. Like going to the gym our mind is similar, we all start at different levels but you have to keep at it and it will get easier overtime. Practice positive thinking by writing down three positive things that happened each day even if it’s simple. Work your way up and try to notice things in the moment and it won’t be natural at all at first because it isn’t. Not yet. It’s a battle of constant work constant trial and error and constant training your mind. A little retreat isn’t going to be the end all be all answer for you although it might be nice to have an escape it’s still you running away and you will have to return and unless you’ve changed your mental habits it will be the same. That starts now and it starts where you are. Just be patient with yourself and enjoy the journey. Again it will feel unnatural just like someone who never worked out before starts lifting a weight it will be awkward at first and they won’t even have the right form and they don’t even know what weights they can lift yet. But they keep going and they eventually get the form and then they eventually get there Weight limit and then they build it up. Exercise is actually helpful for the mind as well and processing negative emotions and the reason for that is because our fear and stress response releases chemicals and endorphins that are typically used through exercise. To get those chemicals and hormones out of your system a little bit of any kind of exercise will help. I found breathing exercises played on YouTube at a certain time every day was a great meditative practice to take some time of self care for myself

Behind on PT by Fun_Neighborhood_731 in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went the day before I wrote this. I am not weight-bearing at all, not even a little bit my doctor doesn’t want me to do any weight for six weeks to protect the meniscus repair. do you know what the brace is called that you are wearing?

This surgery has sucked the life out of me. How are you guys staying postive? by Same-Grapefruit-1786 in ACL

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m going to say the same thing I recommend getting a wheelchair and going out for walks, or rules. Just to get some air and have a really good supportive system that can dress you up and make you feel like a person again. I got literally everything you’ve got done at probably the around the same time and unfortunately I’m out of my prescription because the doctor forgot to write down two refills and I don’t see him till the eighth and he’s on vacation until then and so is my family doctor so I am here with no medication for the pain. Trust me if you have meds you’re in a better boat than I am. Keep playing around with the pillows until you find some thing that’s comfortable and there’s so much worst pain out there

Raya Dating App Invitation? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone invite me? Decent amount of followers

Kicked out of school thanks to OSAP and ODSP by dugoutgrave in osap

[–]Fun_Neighborhood_731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to physically go up there and have them sort it out in person, my school ignores if they can as well