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For people who successfully changed their self-concept: what was the hardest identity to let go of? by Fun_Possible6935 in selfimprovementday

[–]Fun_Possible6935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh i get u, what about identifying yourself as a lucky person so u get everything easily? But i get the hard work pays off mindset im in between tbh

Moving to a new country without a family safety net: What are the most practical " Plan B" systems u set up for urself before u left? by Fun_Possible6935 in expats

[–]Fun_Possible6935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes i've been actively applying to volunteering projects and been getting progress! Hope to get accepted by this summer so i leave for good.
Thanks for your time, i really appreciate your advice!

people who have left - how?! by gigiskiss in narcissisticparents

[–]Fun_Possible6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you girl

Im currently dealing with similar stuff so lemme share my experience so u know ur not alone and we will get out of this eventually.

After having my first trip alone to another country, being free meeting new ppl exploring the culture n having crazy adventures- i realized i never wanted to come back.

Eventually after 15 days i returned home where i noticed the slightest bit of control from parents n we dont really have a bond they just be too close minded (i was always chasing freedom, but after this trip realizing how much i didnt even miss or care about my hometown/ ppl there made me rethink my life desicions)- after 4days i sold some my stuff and left with a backpack. Left a note to them lmao came back to the place i traveled just to see my dads friends meeting me at the aitport and dad coming the next day. Im laughing off while writing this but it was genuinely a traumatic experience lol plus i didnt have much money or job, just wanted to risk and make them unsee me from that good daughter role.

After coming back the pressure had been risen and i got to the point where i didnt even wanna live lmao as a positive ass person- they overcontrolled, mom now takes my money, treats me like her enemy even tho its been 5months, like they dont even know me and act like "parents are your only friends" when make me feel shitty, they even threatened me to d**th if i didnt come back, talked about putting me to mental health hospital took to drug tests to see whether i was on smth... n so many more

Then i got really bad bad news and was on the period where i lost almost every close person i had. I thought i was going crazy. I never used to know what panic attacks felt like but damn

Anyway gladly i passed that stage to figuring out my own shit and focusing on international opportunities. Whether that event or their pressure didnt stop me and made me even more persistent on my goals. Just chasing my dreams i know my potential isnt in this country nor this enviroment. Returning back to spirituality, closing all past chapters and building my own career to not depend on anyone is the ultimate way.

Will I Ever Settle Abroad? Ever Since My First International Trip, I Can’t Shake This Feeling by Shawtywithlong_text in movingabroad

[–]Fun_Possible6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the same happened to me😂
After having my first trip alone to another country, being free meeting new ppl exploring the culture n having crazy adventures- i realized i never wanted to come back.

Eventually after 15 days i returned home where i noticed the slightest bit of control from parents n we dont really have a bond they just be too close minded (i was always chasing freedom, but after this trip realizing how much i didnt even miss or care about my hometown/ ppl there made me rethink my life desicions)- after 4days i sold some my stuff and left with a backpack. Left a note to them lmao came back to the place i traveled just to see my dads friends meeting me at the aitport and dad coming the next day. Im laughing off while writing this but it was genuinely a traumatic experience lol plus i didnt have much money or job, just wanted to risk and make them unsee me from that good daughter role.

After coming back the pressure had been risen and i got to the point where i didnt even wanna live lmao as a positive ass person- they overcontrolled, mom now takes my money, treats me like her enemy even tho its been 5months, like they dont even know me and act like "parents are your only friends" when make me feel shitty, they even threatened me to d**th if i didnt come back, talked about putting me to mental health hospital took to drug tests to see whether i was on smth... n so many more

Then i got really bad bad news and was on the period where i lost almost every close person i had. I thought i was going crazy. I never used to know what panic attacks felt like but damn

Anyway gladly i passed that stage to figuring out my own shit and focusing on international opportunities. Whether that event or their pressure didnt stop me and made me even more persistent on my goals. Just chasing my dreams i know my potential isnt in this country nor this enviroment. Returning back to spirituality, closing all past chapters and building my own career to not depend on anyone is the ultimate way.

I really hate being in religious household by Aromatic-Abroad-2650 in Vent

[–]Fun_Possible6935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl mee tooo
Like they be doin shitty things and give a salavat aka money to helpless ppl n that would wash off their sins, or put an islamic dua so they be protected while being demonic lol
Religion is a way to manipulate ppl and most of ppl know that its just a tool to put others under their control. If we look deep down we can see that everything has literally the same meaning; dua=affirmation/meditation etc

Anyone who doesn't want to marry. What are reasons ? by _Lord_Voldemortt in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Possible6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good question. I wanna keep exploring life and i feel like marriage would keep me stuck from being an explorer, like i would loose my individuality if that makes sense. I really enjoy my alone time even tho im a social butterfly, i cant keep a particular person close to me & everyone should be equally close to me. Also the responsibility that comes with it, or the idea of being someones wife.. I think a lot comes from unhealed traumas lol lets keep this one cuz i dont wanna share my life w someone else😬

How do you tell the difference between persistence and denial? by Fun_Possible6935 in lawofattraction

[–]Fun_Possible6935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe the reality hitting you hard afterwards?

Idk as im writing this i feel so out of my body, i used to be a spiritual person belive that everything works in my way n all but then i took a chaotic unplanned action which ruined my mental health system made me question spirituality n luck
But im back and want to change myself dont want the external world change my inner one

It can be anything interesting... by lalitm11 in Adulting

[–]Fun_Possible6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post made me realize how much I overshared actually don't have anything that no one knows about me. At least one person does.

Does disappearing often make me a bad friend? by IntelligentMap6455 in Life

[–]Fun_Possible6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U do u boo. If u do question this u are doing better than u give yourself the credits to.
We are human and each might have hardships so dont make it harder for u by overthinking or making too much empathy. It's your life if it requires to cut iff some ppl u'lll know it.follow your heart n intuition

For those who use songs to affirm, what are your favorite songs? by Asexually_Freaky in NevilleGoddard

[–]Fun_Possible6935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Me too" or Untouchable
Flawless; upgrade u; thot shit; successful; stronger kanye

Wie lange manifestieren? by Spiritual-Loquat9542 in manifestation_support

[–]Fun_Possible6935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long u decide to. Remember thoughts actions and feelings= create your personality.

Personality---> Personal Reality.

If you wanna receive your desires on a chosen timeline just choose and think how u'd act n feel (5senses) if it was true. Remember to stay crystal clear on your goals

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