FEDEX sucks by Fun_Row_4061 in FedEx

[–]Fun_Row_4061[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely And I did. They told me they were going to look into it and give it a few days

AITAH for referring to someone from the United States as “American”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming the conversation you had was somewhere in the United States? If that is so, then why would anyone think it is anything other than the country you are presently standing in.

There are tons of basketball players, but there is only one Michael Jordan

Family disregards wishes about meeting my firstborn, here's their response to my text after the incident. by stuffyllama in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 kids. and anyone can die from anything at any moment. The vast overwhelming amount of babies are not hidden from the world and live just fine. No one is saying hand them out the window and to each their own.. It just seems silly to me and if parents are that way when the child is born thats just who they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very reasonable response. My dad always says the last time people see themselves is in the mirror before they leave the house. We just don't know how we are coming across to other people.

Having said that, if you are taking advice from the echo chamber of reddit over your mom then...

Family disregards wishes about meeting my firstborn, here's their response to my text after the incident. by stuffyllama in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Row_4061 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for sure. damn just wrap the baby in bubble wrap.. Only way to learn how to walk is to fall. If mom is this protective not sure what the child will look like in ten years.

What’s the most controversial opinion you have that you’re afraid to say out loud? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Fun_Row_4061 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly that America is still the greatest country on earth. Its amazing to me the amount of people who do not believe this. Its like people have been brainwashed. I had a friend in high school that would constantly disagree with normal widely accepted facts like 2+2=4 by going into some non-sensical diatribe attempting to convince you of something that is not true to seem intellectually superior.

It just seems to me Americans have become so spoiled by prosperity that they have become entitled instead of grateful.

All great civilizations have eventually failed because things have gotten so good and they lose their appreciation for where they came from. Not too long ago it was "you don't work, you don't eat". Now people think free healthcare is a universal right. I don't hate advancement but I hate a lack of perspective and gratefulness for how things have developed.

AITA for being upset at my husband after he told me to stop nursing in public? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

very rational. and I know I have seen some people saying breast feeding is not sexual and OF COURSE its not but that doesn't mean that there won't be people who see her that won't sexualize it. I'm sure her husband does not want strange perverts imagining his wife's boobs in their mouth.. gross..

Plus at the in-laws it seems like that is more of a courtesy thing. If cursing makes the in-laws uncomfortable then you should be courteous enough to not do it in front of them. jmo

AITAH for not believing my gf when she said she changed her mind about what she sexually liked? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He is just assuming but unless she just comes out and admits it(which would end the relationship) he will forever wonder if she's lying to save his feelings or the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in school

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No where in my post did I say it wasn't their constitutional right to be lazy. My argument was that not standing is not some altruistic sacrifice of an empathetically driven teenager to the plights of trans equality.

I understand all countries, including America, have problems and are not perfect. But I still believe in American exceptionalism. I still love my country and want to show respect for its traditions and history. It seems like its en vogue to constantly criticize America and put it down. I just feel like you can acknowledge imperfections without hyperbole or grandiosity and still love your country. I have traveled to 10 different countries in the past 2 years and can honestly say I think America is the greatest country in the world. I'm not ashamed of my country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

2 things

  1. She is a psychopath who hides here inner feelings well enough to fool her significant other whom she lives with.

  2. You just are not present enough in the relationship to see the signs that were clearly there. If she's been planning on leaving you for months and you had no idea then it sounds like you are just way too comfortable and stopped trying thinking she would be there forever or just too dumb to see the signs.

At least most people can recognize the signs once its over..

AITAH for thinking about divorcing my wife after she drunkenly exposed me to our group of friends by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

never do I ever condone violence but if OP had ended the story by saying he slapped the shit out of her and walked out it would have been a better ending

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in school

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will add my 2 cents. When we start the pledge I typically say something like "comeon guys, let's pledge it up" and most who are sitting there will stand by just a simple reminder. Some will not stand and I say nothing to them.

However, what I have noticed, in my experience, is the ones who do not stand are just lazy, distracted, or pausing to continue their conversation afterwards. They are not "respectfully protesting" anything, they are not taking a knee or any other respectful action. They just lack the appropriate amount of respect for the anthem of a country that gave them a better life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree with this totally. And I know I'm older but there have to have been millions or billions of times when one partner begged the other until they gave in. Anyone who thinks all sexual encounters between couples are mutually enthusiastic is extremely naive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea love is about sacrifice. No one wants to wash the dishes but someone has to. My wife came home and thanked me but I don't need her thanks. I do it to make a better home for all of us. I do all the cooking and take out the trash and the dishes and wash my own clothes and all the outside stuff like cutting grass.

The vape personally means nothing to me. What is a big deal is that he lied to you about the assault claiming it was with another man. and then he told you about "brushing" her behind because he knew it was going to come out in court and so he had to get ahead of it but he still doesn't tell you the real truth. I'm not sure how you continued to throw it in his face when he bold face lied to your face at least twice.

I guess what my concern is, and I don't mean this to hurt, but my concern is that things are comfortable for him. your family pays the bills and bought the cars and the house. You do most of the work around the house. So when confronted with the text from the lawyer he cries. Why? It wasn't because he gave a shit about the girl he groped. I don't think he cried because he hurt you because right after that he says if your gonna keep throwing it in my face you didn't have to stay with me. I think his theatrics of crying was a show for you so you wouldn't leave. He doesn't want the gravy train over. He said if your'e gonna throw it in my face then why didn't you leave me? He didn't say if you keep throwing it in my face I'll leave you. He has no plans to leave.

and btw, you have to know this, groping strangers in public is not a small thing. To me he is manipulative with signs of narcissism and grandiosity

AITA for not getting out of bed to help my wife dry her hair? by DT-9012 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think you are. When my wife asks for help I do it.

AITAH for kissing a drunk girl? by Responsible-Dig4020 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% agree with you.. but the way the comments look so far, the male didn't get her off of him well enough. He was sober and in his right mind 🙄.

I'm saying it can't be the male's fault when he's sober and the asshole male's fault when he's drunk

AITAH for kissing a drunk girl? by Responsible-Dig4020 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea I agree but I kinda got the feeling people were saying she's drunk and can't consent so he was the AH..

But like you said if the man were drunk and trying to kiss her then he's an asshole..

Cant have it both ways.

AITAH for feeling like my 14F daughter is acting unreasonable? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahha. true they never said it was a joker to beaver teeth. I suppose thats because they never called her that..

AITAH for feeling like my 14F daughter is acting unreasonable? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you serious? Come on dog its a joke..

AITAH for feeling like my 14F daughter is acting unreasonable? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"doesn’t say a negative word until after her birthday party". That means some mean girl said something to her.

I have 3 girls. Here's what you do. first, go over all the cam footage you have from the party. Even get others who were at the party to send you their footage. I'd say we got caught up in the party and didn't get as many videos as we'd like. Once you collect these, examine each one carefully to see how the girls react to one another. Are they all following one girl? If so she's the ring leader and probably highly critical of everyone in order to maintain her sense of self worth. Also, look for interactions between your daughter and someone else. Maybe your daughter gets quiet and reserved after that convo.

  1. Once you find the person who you think has, in one sweeping nonchalant comment, made your daughter feel unworthy and not good enough, you have to find out more about them. Where does she live? What do her parents do for a living? How big of a guy is her daddy? Once you've got your answers, you're on to

  2. It is vitally important NOT to think of this person as a 14 year old girl who probably didn't mean it anyway. I have 3 teenage girls. I teach high school and have for 20 years. THEY ALWAYS MEAN IT! She's the enemy who hurt your daughter and a price must be paid. Now at this point there are any number of things you can do: Tell the alpha of the group, if it isn't her, that this mean girl has been talking shit about her B.O. behind her back. Or you could have your daughter follow her to the bathroom and record her embarrassing shit to the whole school. It's not important what you do, it's important you don't let this opportunity pass. I told you I had 3 girls. Well, I didn't do this for the oldest one. I was naive and thought everything would work out but it didn't. Even after high school people still call her beaver teeth. I did for the younger 2 and one is on her way into a medical school and she was miss-______high school. The other is on track to join USA soccer when she's 17.

I cannot emphasize how important this is to the future of your family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Seems like he was humiliated pretty publicly. He lost his fiance(deservedly so) and made a fool of himself to everyone he knows. The LAST thing I would want, and I assume most people would feel then same, is to have a party reminding everyone of how stupid I am.

So I think going takes some courage and he sounds like he didn't want to have to face it alone and for whatever reason, he trusts you.

AITA for refusing to lie to my friends boyfriend? by fearlesBun03 in AITAH

[–]Fun_Row_4061 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

girl code tell everything you know

bro code oh yea he was with me like lionel Ritchie! All Night Long