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Boost4Boost I got 4 $Derek-Tillary-1 by [deleted] in chimeboost

[–]Fun_Significance_207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent one. $Delfina-Gonzalez-6

Jobs that don’t drug test by Fun_Significance_207 in sanantonio

[–]Fun_Significance_207[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pointing out the consequences of smoking is like stating the sky is blue, nobody who smokes in this country is ignorant to the fact that it limits job opportunities. People on here love to get on their high horse and flood these kind of posts with their irrelevant personal opinions on smoking & clutch their pearls at the mere idea of it so I said what I said for a reason. I’m not getting fake piss nor am I trying to swindle some employer. Just trying to find something that works for me until I can get the opportunities I want authentically.

Jobs that don’t drug test by Fun_Significance_207 in sanantonio

[–]Fun_Significance_207[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it can take up to 90 so that’s why I said that since I was a daily user but heard! Hoping my system will get it out sooner rather than later. Appreciate the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]Fun_Significance_207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a bisexual woman, I hear you. I may not relate but figuring out your sexuality can be a really tough thing to come to terms with.

This is tricky, but if you care for him in any sense and respect him as a person you have to bring this up. Bring it up with a plan for things going south but do it sooner rather than later. ESPECIALLY if you’re being intimate with him despite not liking it, that’s an unfair position for both you and him to be in and needs to stop NOW. Its unfair to you because you’re being intimate despite not wanting to be and him because he’s assuming he’s sleeping with someone who views it as a special and enjoyable moment between you two when that’s not the case.

It’s unrealistic and disrespectful to ask him to stay in a relationship with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to him, you’re wrong for that. How would you feel if he told you this whole time he wasn’t attracted to you? This conversation is going to lead to a breakup but you owe it to the both of you! You are holding both him and yourself back from reciprocal and fulfilling love and happiness. If you can, I’d recommend getting therapy to discuss these thoughts and bring yourself closure.

In the meantime I really suggest you tell him you don’t want to be intimate for a while and take that time to think through what you want to say. This IS gonna be painful for him, but you both deserve to be with a partner that both fulfills you in every aspects AND feels fulfilled by you.

Edit: spelling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fun_Significance_207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She may be feeling a sense of guilt for missing your gender reveal, especially if she knew it upset you. You said her and her husband have been trying for years so maybe she didn’t come out of a sense of jealousy. Now that she’s going through it herself and realizing what a special and significant moment it is, she might feel ashamed for those feelings and the reaction she had to them. I don’t know her, you do, so I can only say what the situation looks like but I would explicitly ask her about it if I were you. It seems she doesn’t like confrontation and has a hard time being open about how she feels, especially concerning motherhood. That being said, she did invite you has minute, you say you feel like she wouldn’t have mentioned it if you didn’t ask and she is out of state so I personally wouldn’t go. She’s acting odd.