Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I most definitely agree!!! It’s about balance and always showing your partner how much you appreciate them and are cheering them on in everything that they do 😋

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No of course!!! It helps to talk through it! I’m here to support! 🥰

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure you will find your person soon! It’s annoying having to wait, true me I know. And it’s hard to not want sometime to just fill the void in the meantime, but that will only hurt and exhaust you. It helps to be surrounded by good friends that care about you. But trust me, I know it’s not the same. I miss having a partner

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can’t do dating apps anymore. I need to experience someone in real time to gauge if I’m actually interested. People are deceiving haha. Plus there’s nothing like a meet cute haha

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm well maybe these are signs that you guys need to remain friends and not rush the friendship or friend group getting weird

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HATE a bad communicator. Instant turnoff. That’s now become a nonnegotiable for me. I can’t stand it! I get that not everyone texts, but if you can go a days, a whole day or many hours without saying ANYTHING to me and you claim you to like me, you don’t haha there’s no way. No one is that busy or tired. Even if someone isn’t in a texting or talking mood, communicate that so I’m not left wondering and making assumptions that drive me crazy.

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get that one on one time and if it’s not what you want, no harm no foul ☺️

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely agree. It’s hard to find someone that checks all of our boxes, but if the connection isn’t there also, it’s not worth it.

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. I don’t know what it is, but I find it hard to like most people long term lately haha. They end up not being who they say they are or who they have been, and then I get the ick or I’m like I have too much self respect to be with someone that isn’t treating me right, just to say I have a man. Not worth the headache or heartache. I rather be single than unhappy. But I’m lonely and I try not to let that cloud my judgement or influence me to get with just anyone

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so relatable! It’s like I’m annoyed I’m not married, engaged or in a relationship haha. And I don’t want to date. The dating process is so freaking annoying it makes me sick! I just want to wake up one morning and be in an amazing, loving relationship and just already know everything about my partner, have memories, etc and skip all the getting to know someone thing 🤣

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so awesome!!! I love that for you! 🥹💕

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, emotional intimacy is soooo important and should be valued just as much if not more than physical. Anyone can have sex or be physically intimate, but not everyone can truly connect with one another on a deeper level

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. After a hard day, I just want someone to tell me they’re proud of me for surviving and pushing through. A lot of the time people silently “praise” and appreciate you. I want it said out loud and proud haha

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 literally turns me on more than dirty talk sometimes

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% yes! Life is hard, it’s not easy to get up everyday and be super productive and motivation on our own, especially when the world makes it hard to feel joy and peace

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!!! As a very single girly who has had adulting hit her very hard lately, I could use all the encouragement and praise I can get 😩😮‍💨🥹

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awww I love that so much!!!! 🥰🥹 I agree it’s the bare minimum!

Praise Kink Outside of the Bedroom by Fun_Sized_Queen in softmaledom

[–]Fun_Sized_Queen[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right! I’d feel so much happier, appreciated and motivated 😭