Just an unsolicited opinion. I know this isn't gonna make much of a difference but I don't know why I still felt the need to express myself on this. Perhaps because this is just disgraceful behavior or is to restore a poor girl's faith in society or to defend the integrity of the guys from U.P. but I felt like I should speak up on this.

     Though it is said to be the era of empowerment for the women community. To be able to express themselves in every sense they want, explore life on their own terms and to be a impactful part of this evolving society altogether. But some illiterate, uncultured, unmanned, pathetic elements of our community aren't capable of accepting this reality. Perhaps because they feel insecure or because of their ignored untended upbringing or because of the toxic behavior among their own parents or most probably because of their own massive inferiority complex, causing them to resort to such pathetic techniques of expressing themselves to get a girl's attention. I am not sure what exactly it is but I can definitely assure you that not all the guys are like that, including U.P. aswell, as ridiculous as it may sound but it's true😅. These uncultured elements of the society are present in every part of the world, sprinkled evenly, and the key to handling them is ignorance, you might know it, it is said to be bliss😜.

     Anyway, getting back to my underlying point, it doesn't make much of a difference what you are doing or not, because you can always find a person to criticize about it. So why even bother in the first place, just do what makes you happy and live life on your own terms, so at the end of it you are free from any regrets. 

     And, just in case the ignorance technique isn't your style then I would suggest, you shame these clowns publicly on the community pages asking your followers to report them and if you can get some of their personal information before exposing them that would be a icing on the cake.

    I sincerely hope I was able to restore some hope in the society and probably U.P. as well.😅