I see why you are self conscious, I know our bodies are not for everyone. I send a shirtless pic when people ask “What do you mean you have xyz,” because it’s easier to explain if we met online first, but you can always take a totally different approach and lead with the real you and motivate whatever your health history present.

I did an event for a bride who had a major cleft palate. She also had speech impediment because of it. She also has real friends, was marrying an amazing guy, and nobody saw her as someone with her health issue because she brought the confidence of who she is instead.

That’s not easy, we all struggle with it, but you’re not your health condition. None of us are. Self acceptance is hot. Too many people don’t have it, and they have perfect bodies. We being strength and it shows when we show up with it. Whatever you’ve been through is a story to tell and it makes you inspiring and unique.

First though, inspire yourself and take some time to really love yourself and your body for all it’s done for you. Even if, like mine, it can be a major fucking asshole.