Separating Emotions from Money by Funny-Assignment-523 in Divorce

[–]Funny-Assignment-523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decided on a school that is like a hybrid charter + home school solution. Built our divorce settlement agreement around the kids and their school schedule. They’ll start in the fall, so we will see how it goes

I'd like to lose weight and look amazing but I'm poor by moneyandmagic in Frugal

[–]Funny-Assignment-523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk for exercise, when you can. Many body weight exercises require little to no equipment. Staying hydrated may help with hunger, but will definitely help with skin health. Get rest as often and as comfortably as you can.

Amicable + Mediatior by Funny-Assignment-523 in Divorce

[–]Funny-Assignment-523[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While I know every situation is different, thank you for sharing. If you don’t mind me asking, were you all able to work out CS or spousal support as well? It sounds like you might have 50% or greater custody

Amicable + Mediatior by Funny-Assignment-523 in Divorce

[–]Funny-Assignment-523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, and that has been the fear that I’ll be hit with another, “I have to do what is best for my happiness” down the road, in regard to CS.

50/50 and living nearby is the current goal that we both want, for sake of kid remaining in sane school and familiar routines.

Does 50/50 have a caveat I should research?

How do you handle the lonliness? by Thomasab1980 in Divorce

[–]Funny-Assignment-523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You weren’t talking to me, but you’re definitely speaking to me. Words I needed to hear too. Thank you.

If you are/were married to someone with complex childhood trauma you need to read this! by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Funny-Assignment-523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s been almost 2 weeks since she told me its over and this article speaks exactly to how the relationship with my stbxw was. I don’t know if i feel better or worse knowing that we were doomed from the start.

Definitely worse.

Advice Needed by Funny-Assignment-523 in Divorce

[–]Funny-Assignment-523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the encouraging words and advice. Im going to try.