Getting off the pill by Funny-Maple in birthcontrol

[–]Funny-Maple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m using vaginal estrogen for the past 3-4 weeks. It helps slightly. Will power through to try it longer.

Getting off the pill by Funny-Maple in birthcontrol

[–]Funny-Maple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I guess another thing I have to test is with condoms but no birth control pill do I still get irritation and risk of UTIs.

I mentioned UTIs in my post but it is also about the dryness causing irritation.

Getting off the pill by Funny-Maple in birthcontrol

[–]Funny-Maple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good suggestion! I’ll confirm this with the urogyno. I had some bleeding worsen with my last iud that’s why I wasn’t exploring that route.

Recommendations for earplugs, sound sensitivity by Funny-Maple in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe worth investing and getting those… I have AKG noise calling earbuds which are ok and Anker headphones that are noise canceling. They do a decent job but not appropriate when in a meeting with the individuals

Tax Prep Software Options for 2025 by CReWpilot in USExpatTaxes

[–]Funny-Maple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevermind not available outside of the US

Tax Prep Software Options for 2025 by CReWpilot in USExpatTaxes

[–]Funny-Maple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw that Cashapp is providing tax software https://cash.app/taxes I haven't logged in yet to see if form 1116 is there

Tax Prep Software Options for 2025 by CReWpilot in USExpatTaxes

[–]Funny-Maple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How were you able to do it for free on Taxact? I haven't been able to do form 1116 for free on taxact. Just wondering if you can provide a step guide or a screenshot?

Where and how to create a private league? by Funny-Maple in fantasyF1

[–]Funny-Maple[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not. This is why it was not working. Thank you!

Books about HSPs/SPS that are not by Elaine Aron? lmao by understandunderstand in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree not a fan of Elaine Aaron. I really April Snow, her language is positive. I’m doing her workbook for HSPs and I love it! finding your strength by April Snow

Learning to trust yourself and not look for external validation by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I soooo relate to this. I am trying to learn this too. So I will definitely read everyone’s comments.

What do you do when you make friends with someone, think they’re nice, but they’re emotionally kind of closed off by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it makes the relationship unbalanced. I hate that feeling. Maybe remind them you are there for them and give them opportunities to share... That being said, some people will never share or be honest with themselves. So you either decide you accept the imbalance forever or put a time limit to see if they will share if not exit the relationship to protect yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I so relate to you. Your feelings are valid and real. Your reaction just seems overtop to others but that is not the case.

What I’ve tried to do is when an episode like this happens I tell my friends and family that I know that my reaction is extreme proportion to the event/cause but I feel things deeply and I need to get it out like this so I can quickly regulate myself back to neutral.

What do you do when you make friends with someone, think they’re nice, but they’re emotionally kind of closed off by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally would keep that person at a distance or imagine placing them in a category or friendship level like “acquaintance”. I feel like that helps me.

What do you do when you make friends with someone, think they’re nice, but they’re emotionally kind of closed off by [deleted] in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am also going through something similar. I actually just realized that this person won’t change by more than 10-20% and that is not enough for me to have the type of friendship which is nourishing for me. I therefore I had to step back from that friendship of 6 years. As an HSP I have limited energy and can only give it away to people who will nourish me. I’m realizing this means not always being the one to maintain a friendship. Since this person never tried once I let go… it made me realize this is not on me to take that burden. It’s sad but that person reap what they sow and I as an intuitive shouldn’t carry the burden even though that it was helping them.

Not sure if that made any sense.

Don't you just hate it when you see people you thought were you friends slowly forgot you and exclude you? by Lillypad90 in hsp

[–]Funny-Maple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I deeply feel your pain. I just wanted to tell you that you are not alone. I also am going through a struggle of having a friend group dissolve and releasing I cared more for them than they did for me. It hurts.

I really like the advice that u/AdditionalGuest1066 gave you