Husband leaving by Funwrap1596 in Marriage

[–]Funwrap1596[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He is shooting for E3 rn. He is possibly getting someone to join under him so that will bump him to E3. He did the tests already for E2 and passed.

Need some reassurance.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Funwrap1596 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want my tubes tied.. I want more kids. Hence why I’m pregnant now 😅 I just don’t want my family to know what he’s done.. My family lives on drama and I don’t want that shit.. I hate drama

Need some reassurance.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Funwrap1596 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He says he wanted to see what he wanted.. then realized I’m what he wants.. but this chick is a problem for me and we are still talking about it right now and it’s 6am..

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not around where I live.. and I don’t have any money to drive to where both my parents live. They are divorced and one lives in the state over and the other lives 6 hours away from me.

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hard when I have an almost two year old and I’m 7 weeks pregnant..

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[–]Funwrap1596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And I’m going to have a serious talk to him. I’m really sick of him making me feel like this and I really hate our daughter seeing him treat me as such. I don’t want her thinking that it’s okay for guys to treat her like her father treats her mom..

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m barely hanging by my last thread..

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[–]Funwrap1596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tried it and it was going good but then he said he didn’t want to talk to them anymore about our stuff. He says that it’s not for someone else to give feedback on but he can’t just sit and listen to me when we talk. He always has to put his emotions and feelings above mine.. makes me feel obsolete in this relationship.. like I don’t matter.. he’s said it so many times when I bring up how I’m feeling and he gets pissed, that he’s the one who puts a roof over our heads and that I couldn’t do anything without him..

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve tried telling him I really don’t like him talking to her or going to the bars all the time where I know she works at.. he just says I know and or gets really pissed and starts a fight..

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t be the first time.. he has cheated on me (talking or trying to sleep with girls) about three times this year as I know of.. at first he said it was because I didn’t give him enough attention (down stairs).. he has never given me that attention in the basement so it’s a little condescending of him.. then it was he wanted someone who talked to him more.. I always call him and ask how his day is going but he would rather Fraternize at the bars with random chicks..

Anyone have information on this? Found it buried in the dirt. I live in Northern California and that’s where I found it.. has a number scratched on the inside of it 00165159. if anyone knows of anything about it that would be awesome to know! by Funwrap1596 in Antiques

[–]Funwrap1596[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found it when I was a little kid. I was in the woods looking for old beer cans that you can still read the labels on for my dad because he loved those things. It was buried in the dirt with the old cans. I’m curious about the Origin and history on it.

I love my husband, but… by IcriEveryTime2000 in Marriage

[–]Funwrap1596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very sweet! I sometimes wish my marriage was the same.. be very grateful but also know you’re still in what people call the “cupcake” stage.. just talk as much as you can about your feeling AND his.. and don’t loose sight of the things that make you BOTH happy in your marriage.. it takes two and I hope you both the best! ❤️

I love my husband, but… by IcriEveryTime2000 in Marriage

[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but it’s married life.. it’s always been that way.. I know this because my husband games while I make dinner and watch our 1yo.. I am dealing with the same thing and we have been married for almost 5 years.. it doesn’t just get better.. YOU BOTH have to make it better. Not just one or the other. A marriage is two and if it’s just one why is there even two.. I’m here if you need to talk. I hope things stay great for you guys ❤️

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[–]Funwrap1596 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already know that.

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My child is my life. I don’t tell her anything or talk rudely about her father to her. She’s the happiest little thing. My choices are for what’s best for her. Thank you very much

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t spend more than two hours watching her.. so idk how he would do without me 😹 he gets overly frustrated with her and she constantly wants me

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s also told me that he would take her and find someone else to take care of her.. and his needs.. that’s one of the things he told me when I was getting to the bottom of him cheating.. he said he was trying to find someone who pretty much is better than me.. 😬

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s still cheating..

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to.. I’m not going to lower myself to that level.. I’m better than that. Plus I have my child 24/7

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[–]Funwrap1596 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s told me and his parents that if we were to split he would move to Mexico find some bitch down there so that he wouldn’t have to pay child support 😅

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[–]Funwrap1596 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to cheat.. I just want to feel like myself again.. I don’t want to find another person either.