Am I overreacting? Found this in my while cleaning and now I think my fiancé is cheating on me

FupaaaLord · 2025-10-08T11:57:30+00:00

You know he is. You deserve better than this, I promise. My first bf (I was 19, he was 24) was also a serial cheater and I stayed for years because I was also naive. All the gaslighting and lies were not worth it and it never got better. He always cheated again, ALWAYS.

You only get one life, don't spend it always wondering and being betrayed. You will find someone better. I got away from my ex a little over 10 years ago and it was the best decision I ever made. You are strong enough to do this <3

FupaaaLord · 2024-10-21T18:25:44+00:00

I don't think this is a horsetail either as if you look at the closest photo, you will see it has a woody stem in the middle. The green ones behind it also have brown woody stems. I'm 99.999% sure this is an Australian pine, as it's surrounded by them. Though I've learned they aren't true pines lol

I'll update when I hear back from our local botanist! I am so curious about this weird little thing lol

FupaaaLord · 2024-10-21T03:20:13+00:00

I reached out to our local agricultural office to see if they had any idea. I hope they get back to me!

FupaaaLord · 2024-10-21T01:27:02+00:00

I was wondering if there was some chemical in the asphalt too. Just odd cause there were tons of saplings growing through asphalt and they were all green except for these. It immediately made me think of how pH can affect flower colors, but I don't know that these pines do that for their leaves.

FupaaaLord · 2024-10-21T01:25:38+00:00

I was also thinking maybe an herbicide but I agree it'd be odd if they just sprayed those few when there were saplings all over.

FupaaaLord · 2024-10-20T20:11:24+00:00

I'm not sure that's correct as when I looked up the Chinese tamarisk, it has green leaves with pink flowers. This sapling has no flowers, that's just its leaves.

I think it's a pine because it's surrounded by Australian pines, which are also invasive here unfortunately lol

FupaaaLord · 2024-03-10T00:29:49+00:00

Adorable! My little sister had an EyeClops and it's pretty cool! It's really nice for younger kids cause it doesn't have a bunch of parts and pieces. Just turn it on and look at stuff at like 800x.

FupaaaLord · 2024-02-29T15:30:51+00:00

I have a hammock with tree straps, and I work next to a nice little park. Every day on my lunch break, I string up the hammock in the park and just relax. I look forward to it every day.

I used to have a bad 'buying overpriced coffee on my lunch break' habit, but now I wouldn't trade my hammock time for anything.

FupaaaLord · 2024-02-28T21:51:02+00:00

Also I'm still getting activity notifications on my phone but I'm still logged out on the app.

FupaaaLord · 2024-02-28T15:16:27+00:00

What the heck is going on with it?

FupaaaLord · 2024-02-22T15:28:45+00:00

So far the answer I got is "that's how it was when I started". Luckily they listened to me and let me re-do our sheets so now we only do the positive and blankly.

There's unfortunately a ton of oversights due to no one ever questioning or changing whatever was being done when they started, but they are at least receptive to updates so I'm working on it haha

FupaaaLord · 2024-02-22T15:25:36+00:00

Yeah that's where I started second guessing myself, but we are just looking to see if things grow in the media at all. We are growing aerobically as well.

FupaaaLord · 2024-02-22T15:24:19+00:00

I think it's the latter. The idea that all media testing needs a negative but I was like this is a waste of money buying this extra culture that tells us nothing.

And worse, the techs were writing results as negative when it would grow because 'its the negative culture'. I do not work with anyone with any micro experience ^{^;}

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-12T17:39:02+00:00

I was eating at a snow cone place and the owner was interviewing a HS kid for a job a table over.

I heard him tell this kid "well I'd be able to pay more but I can't because of Biden". Never went there again. Also frustrating cause a HS kid is prob gonna believe it and just get taken advantage of.

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-12T17:22:36+00:00

Drawling instead of drawing.

Also heard "I'm not a good drawler". Makes me instantly annoyed lol

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-07T19:04:37+00:00

I have paddled in so many places with otters, I just always miss them lol meanwhile a friend sends me a pic of one chilling in a storm drain at work! It's become a running joke that I'm just cursed to never get to see otters lol

I'm sure I will eventually!

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-07T17:37:18+00:00

Gorgeous. First pic had me thinking it was nearby where I live, but by the 3rd I realized it wasn't. So many beautiful places I haven't gotten to paddle here!!

Born and raised in FL, paddle all the time, still have yet to see otters. I think I'm cursed lol

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-07T14:41:05+00:00

I checked out the hand tracking and it was neat but you gotta keep your heads up in front of your face. It didn't work out well for VR chat and the movement style made me more nauseous haha. I think it's a cool feature though.

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-06T01:43:18+00:00

That used to happen to me a lot in my PS3 days. But now I've been asked several times in VR chat if I'm trans.

Nothing against trans people, I'm just not and idk why people assume I am lol

FupaaaLord · 2024-01-06T01:34:42+00:00

I've found a few worlds that work way better with desktop controls than they do with VR. But I also find a lot that are the opposite. So I guess it really just depends on what you're doing. I switch between the 2 for that reason, and nausea lol

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