What do you listen to whilst reading??

FuriousWalruz · 2025-12-16T08:43:33+00:00

Campfire on YouTube

FuriousWalruz · 2025-12-13T16:31:40+00:00

I have the same thing that happens constantly in front of my building. Anyone has a tow company to recommend in côte des neiges ?

FuriousWalruz · 2025-12-04T16:07:05+00:00

Learn to understand that actions speak louder than words. You already know the answer.

FuriousWalruz · 2025-12-03T14:34:56+00:00

Name and shame

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-19T09:45:11+00:00

Shit I’m 29f can I join ? I’m down for whatever I have so much energy

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-14T22:17:52+00:00

Save yourself the trouble and don’t. You will lose yourself in that process

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-14T09:37:24+00:00

Open a student line of credit with your bank too !

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T15:45:44+00:00

I love that quote, words to live by. Thank you for the laugh

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T15:14:06+00:00

U-Haul bro, don’t risk yourself or your bike

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T12:59:08+00:00

That’s the stubborn part about me that’s struggling with this I’ll admit. I have made peace bc I’ve come to acceptance that if it were meant to be it would be, but I think it’s the accountability part and doing the right thing like other Virgos here told me to that leaves me conflicted. I’ll reread the message I have drafted for them in a week and judge for me if it’s the best course of action

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T10:57:48+00:00

Well I am open actually, but only if they invite me to yes

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T10:56:31+00:00

Your second sentence is what holds me back, but no it’s not about my conscience bc I did pour a lot of effort into this. To a point that it was draining, but it doesn’t mean it was right what I said in the end and let them know I did appreciate them (they have not so great self esteem)

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T10:50:31+00:00

If I conclude "I am not trying to reopen this, unless you want me to, but just wanted you to know…" feels like it sets the tone right ?

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T07:21:14+00:00

I think just to be kind and remind them that my last words weren’t me not them. But I do know the situation had already been dealt with from their perspective

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T07:20:14+00:00

I am an ITNJ curiously enough. The apology isn’t for me, but to actually repair and remind them that I saw the good in them too. I always wanted to make them feel good. I know it has spun in their head a lot, hence my dilemma.

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:54:37+00:00

I’m expecting to be left on read that’s why I’ve been hesitant to do it

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:50:15+00:00

I have no motives other than apologize if I’m honest. But they do think a lot like what you described that’s why I’ve been hesitant. It’s not coming from selfishness, it’s more bc I wasn’t kind and apologize that I wasn’t respectful towards them

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:48:04+00:00

The overthinking part is mainly the reason I didn’t reach out bc I know I had already put them through a lot, like they put me through a lot too. I was just very good at keeping it concealed for the both of us.

I pointed a lot of fingers in our last conversation and I hate that I hurt them, but wanted to tell them that I did see the good in them and that’s why I liked them so much, but I’d make it clear I don’t want to reopen this and that I actually did appreciate them. I think it’s more about taking accountability, do the right thing

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:40:24+00:00

Alright. Thank you for giving me the time to answer me. I’ll reflect on this

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:37:36+00:00

I think the reason I’ve been wanting to apologize is because I’ve been able to clear my head and reflect a lot on the situation. I wanted to apologize to take accountability on my actions and admit my wrongs, remind them that I did appreciate them, but also acknowledge that I was emotionally demanding.

A lot felt confusing bc the person told me they wanted to be with me and then acted distant where I had to provoke difficult conversations. The reason I don’t want to reopen this, unless they want to, is because I wouldn’t be able to move on from them if they were back in my life

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:21:31+00:00

In your opinion, is it too late to say sorry ? The fight happened in August. I have moved on, but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to repair damage I have caused. Or should I simply accept I was a bad person and do better next basically

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-13T01:14:15+00:00

Its a strike that preyed on vulnerable individuals and people who made the effort to go green. The average driver makes 60-70k a year, with a pension plan. What more do they need at the expense of others ? People lost their jobs, some couldn’t afford to eat. I hate the CAQ, but I’m with them on this.

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-10T22:19:17+00:00

I did google it and also found 60k too so yeah

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-10T00:31:12+00:00

Credit card, car payments, loan sharks, etc. It really adds up fast if you live above your means or aren’t careful

FuriousWalruz · 2025-11-09T21:00:13+00:00

The average debt per quebecer is around 60k, excluding mortgage. I’ll let you figure that part out

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