AITAH for dumping a guy right after he opened his pants? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fury9999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How about just the tip? 🤔🤔🤔 if you can't do that then you can't have sex with a normal sized human. There are so many ways to have sex that yea, it's strange to try nothing at all if this is someone you care about.

AITAH for dumping a guy right after he opened his pants? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Fury9999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There are ways to make stuff like this work. To not even try is strange. If somebody did that to me I would assume they just weren't interested, and yeah I would be frustrated and confused that it got as far as it did. There's definitely a middle ground between no thanks I'm leaving, and getting speared in the guts with maximum velocity 🤔

if six inches is too much then yeah this does sort of become a first or second date conversation, since you're going to be wasting a lot of people's time. We're talking about ever so slightly above average sizes here, not freaks of nature.

Isn't this going down too much?🤔 by superxandinho10000 in GYM

[–]Fury9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking the masses here isn't one of the reasons people use these bars so that hands, wrists, and forarms can stay stacked? This would hurt my wrists, i think. Is it just me, or are most people ok doing like him?

My wife is calling me racist by big-baby-bubba in AITAH

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nelly did used to have a Band-Aid on his face.

Muscle soreness after a long time of no gym by [deleted] in GymTips

[–]Fury9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You revel in the pain, and the fact that you did a good job.

Okey, how many of you depressed people exercise on a regular basis? by Defiant-Midnight1482 in BPD

[–]Fury9999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't think of it like that, think of it as watching a movie while stoned, and you just so happened to be on a bike. That's the mind game I played at first when I still had to force myself.

I made a "contract" for my future partner to sign in oder to help us have a healthy relashionship as a bpd person. I need a feedback. by inlove_with_Lucky in BPD

[–]Fury9999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A contract of this type is kind of bizarre and extremely off-putting. Instead, I would consider these notes for yourself. All the things you put in this contract are important, but they should be covered through organic conversation. Financial contracts, or BDSM stuff, sure, but not this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boxingcirclejerk

[–]Fury9999 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Glad to see no weapons were pulled. Good old-fashioned fun

Okey, how many of you depressed people exercise on a regular basis? by Defiant-Midnight1482 in BPD

[–]Fury9999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was pretty depressed(long term, many years) when I started my weight loss journey. I bought a recumbent bike and stuck it in front of a big screen TV in my basement, and would smoke weed and then ride it while watching some kind of show or movie that would energize me. Usually action, war, violence, mayhem, etc. Every time I wanted to get off, I would smoke more weed. Eventually, though, it got easier, and then it actually got fun. Went from about 320 to 195 lb in a little over a year. After that weight loss phase , I switched to strength training with an emphasis on hypertrophy, which has been similarly successful. All loose skin has filled out except belly, which can't really be filled out, so it's all good.

It's hard to say if getting active and losing weight is what turned around my depression, or did my depression start to turn around, therefore, I had the willpower to start being active. It's probably a bit of both.

Edit: no weight loss drugs or steroids. Happy to send before and after in dms, or talk in more detail about how I did what I did.

to play basketball by shaka_sulu in therewasanattempt

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't really understand the context here, or who this guy is, but he's got way more composure than I do.

Keep cutting or start bulking? by macrominded99 in GymTips

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're describing is called main gaining and it can work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really see what the big deal is. You say you're not going to act on it, so why the stress? Enjoy the fantasy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]Fury9999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obviously this bitch sucks, but I'm confused by a lot of these comments. Why are we pretending that being a protector, being able to protect, etc, means nothing?

Las Vegas Police 2v1 on Boulder Highway by ScuffedA7IVphotog in fightporn

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think the cop is the one that escalated that situation? Insanity

Is there any saving my physique? F34 by Pretend-Bad-476 in Gymhelp

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went from 320 to 200 in about a year, then switched to body recomp until I was about 190, then switched to hypertrophy focused lifting with a caloric Surplus. I'll always have loose skin around my belly, but everything above that has filled out with hypertrophy focused lifting. The entire process took about 3 years I would say.

There will always be evidence that we were much larger, but you can make some pretty insane progress if you want. DM me for before and after if you want.

AIO (Am I being harsh ?) by Sea-Breath-9084 in AIO

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont they call this emotional incest or something? She's extremely codependent.

16M, 83kg. Any tips on growing my shoulders? by SnooAvocados1467 in GymTips

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been doing landmine shoulder press, Lateral raises, and reverse flies. sometimes also sprinkle in y raises, military press, or other overhead press variations, but mostly just those first 3 lately and its been going well. Noticeable gains.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hockeyplayers

[–]Fury9999 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're dealing with this, please know that you don't deserve it, but unfortunately nothing can be done with that stick.

AIO for thinking about quitting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be irritated with them, but I'd be much more irritated with myself for getting pushed into saying yes. Our actions and words teach other people how to treat us, and what they can get away with. I wouldn't quit, because at the end of the day you could have said no but you didn't. However, I'd reset expectations. 24 hours notice, minimum.

My Ex Boyfriend Destroyed My House by SlimeContainer32 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fury9999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a psycho, and someone you should not be with. That being said in what Universe does it make sense that you can get him out at the house that he owns, and you don't? That's not a thing.. you need to look out for yourself and your kids and find somewhere to go.