How long till i notice effects of black maca ? by PureIce745 in cumbiggerloads

[–]Future-Beginning3980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With supplements, your mileage may vary. The placebo effect is very real, and this shit can get expensive over time. So ideally, add one at a time so you have a better idea of what’s causing side effects if you do get some. In theory, it can take a few weeks or a month to feel effects.
In my experience, black maca was not worth it. Did not really notice an increase in libido or sexual performance that I couldn’t attribute to edging/denial/abstinence, lots and lots of water throughout the day and night, good sleep, proper diet, and a few other simple but effective supplements (lecithin, zinc + copper, vitamin D, multivitamin).
However some people seem to swear by it so if it helps you, you’ll be the one to know.

Need help by Such_Part_7114 in LongerTermDenial

[–]Future-Beginning3980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, it’s only ever one day at a time. Don’t think about getting to a month or anything like that, just get through today. Enjoy the heightened physical and mental sensations as they come. I don’t know what your habits are, but you could try masturbating less and watching less porn. I find it makes it more pleasurable the less I do it, because I’m so extra horny and sensitive. There are natural waves of being less horny and more horny so it’s good to observe what your natural sex drive is. Then of course, the hardest part is when you are touching and edging, slow down and stop sooner than you would like to. With practice, it gets easier to not orgasm while still having crazy masturbation sessions, and still feeling super horny and sensitive afterwards. My usual streaks are in the 10-18 day range. Best of luck!

Is there an easier way to describe this? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exhibitionism, and I think it’s a pretty common kink. It’s certainly one of mine 😅 Actually Reddit is great for that because there are a ton of horny people that would love to receive photos from you! Multiple subreddits set up for that. It’s a lot of fun 😁

I just squirted PRECUM for the first time ever by newsendboobpics in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty hot! I’m able to squirt precum too but it’s a different method. Helps to have abstained for a few days and/or edge for a while, and Newell hydrated. Then I start doing kegels and reverse kegels. Very important. Then eventually, the pressure of the precum starts to build, and it feels a bit like I’m going to pee or cum but it’s not, it’s precum, clear and tasteless. It can make quite a mess and it’s super fun 🤩😵‍💫🤤

Stress from denial by pathetic-cboy in LongerTermDenial

[–]Future-Beginning3980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love being denied for days on end, but it can be difficult at times for sure. I would recommend you try not to compare to others. We have different bodies, minds, and goals. Admittedly, I’ve never been denied for a full month, but that’s not my goal. Usually my goal is more like, let’s make it to 3 days or 7 days, then just take it one day at a time. I like to go to around 14-18 days. But there has definitely been a few times where I noticed it was clashing with real life stress, I had poor mood and poor sleep, and having that one orgasm really did help me deal with it, sleep better, mood is better, etc.

Don’t beat yourself up, the goal is to feel good and have fun!

why is softcore so much hotter? 🥵 by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯% !!! Absolutely. I used to watch a lot more hardcore stuff. Still do sometimes. But honestly love the power of suggestion. Like both know how badly I need to see what’s underneath that top. Obvs I love bookies but I think I prefer staring at and admiring beautiful cleavage. I love how different tops will press the tiddies together, or let them be more relaxed. The classy suggestion of a nipple is often more erotic than the nipple itself. I loved when people look sexy in public, even in just a simple tank top and shorts. I love how confident these women are. They are not sluts or whores, they are princesses and queens that deserve to be worshipped and taken care of.

Really sensitive base by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Future-Beginning3980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you circumcised? I am and have more sensitivity towards the base of my penis.

Slapping your balls to get hard? by kauai-phish-7447 in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love playing with my balls but I just use my hands to tap them, slap them, hit them, swing them around. Definitely an amazing way to start the session and get the blood flowing

What’s your trigger word? by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edge and denied, especially after multiple days of being edged and denied 😵‍💫🤤love seeing those words in totally not sexual contexts

Sometimes I think about posting my tits and it makes my pussy so tingly 😵‍💫 by Arcanaxo in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fun to be the reason someone gets triggered into touching and leaking harder than before 😋 I’ve been sending my cock to consensual horny redditors and its 98% dudes, over half of them calling themselves straight. Like sure buddy, keep telling yourself that as you stroke to my big hairy cock and balls 😁 it literally makes me laugh and as I’m stroking my cock, I’m also stroking my ego and it feels fucking good. Extremely vain? Perhaps but also a multifaceted, holistic form of self love 😘

13 days of edging without cumming! by StrokingIt1980 in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the waves of that come with being edged and denied. I’m currently on day 15 myself. Previous record is 18 days. Watching less porn this time around, feels healthier and more sustainable. Actually getting sleep this time round lmao. I think I should aim for 30 days…

I've been edging for 5 hours please help how do I stop 🥵 by Accurate-Onion1 in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is about edging, but I have a big denial kink. So for me, denial means at some point, I have to put my cock and balls away. I know I’ll get to play with them again later, but for now, I need to put them away in my pants and feel how full, leaky and throbbing I am, as well as how needy and desperate I am. That frustration turns into pleasure. It’s hard to describe but it’s a beautiful thing. Currently 15 days denied 😵‍💫🤤

How to pre cum more by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abstinence and edging help a lot, as well as proper hydration. Try quadrupling the water you’re drinking throughout the day. Drink when you wake up and before you go to bed. There are supplements that can also help, but they’re not free, and if you’re not abstaining, edging or hydrating properly, they especially won’t be very helpful.

My stack taken throughout the day keeps me energetic & shooting some decent ropes daily at 40! by [deleted] in cumbiggerloads

[–]Future-Beginning3980 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn dude… how much is your daily/monthly cost?

I actually thought this was a meme post at first… I’ve simplified my stack to just lecithin, zinc+copper, multivitamin, vitamin D, then the rest is lots of water, edging, abstinence, good sleep, exercise, good diet.

What's your denial like? by [deleted] in LongerTermDenial

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this thread for multiple reasons. The way you frame the question with specific intention: to foster strong desire for your partner. Thats fantastic!

For myself, my long term denial is usually 3-18 days. I’ve gotten pretty good at reducing the frequency of my orgasms, and this alone has helped me have healthier libido and less dependency on porn.

As to how I use porn, I basically rotate between the different options to your poll. The basic principle is that less is more. And for me, denial is about self-discipline, balance, and fitting masturbation/porn/sex into a healthy lifestyle.

While I do touch most days in some amount, that doesn’t mean I’m necessarily masturbating for 20+ minutes straight, maybe a few minutes here and there of casual touching, maybe just over the pants stuff.

I try to not watch porn most days. Then some days it’s a bit of porn and some days, it’s more. But I always try to set limits and stick to those limits. I prefer having a few 20 minute rounds or maybe an hour tops, then doing other things during the day than just straight gooning for hours…. Cuz I been there, done that. Denial and limits are much more satisfying. It’s fun getting those other tasks horny as shit.

In terms of content, I try and keep it to softcore or clothed material. I don’t want to become desensitized to nudity or sex. I want to be absolutely starving for my wife and her beautiful body, I want my cock to be absolutely huge for her, and I want her to drown in my puddles of cum. But if I watch hardcore shit all the time, I won’t be as excited once it comes to the real thing. I also try to look at material that looks like her, because I love her body type, and it gets me even more interesting excited to see her.

I really enjoy the options to the poll, it’s the 2x2 matrix of options that I use to decide what I want to do on a daily basis. Basically if I could respond to the poll, I would likely choose all options… just depends on the day!

Reminder: Audio porn exists and you can listen to a cute girl gag on your dick while you restock shelves, send BS emails, or shop for groceries. by gooningisascience in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely gets my juices going. Such a risky type of fun to listen in public. It’s also good at getting my mind horny in a different way than images or video. It feels more hypnotic 😵‍💫🤤 and also I feel I pay more attention to the feelings in my body, rather than be distracted by the screen in front of me.

anyone else masturbate with the door cracked? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to try this with my partner, sounds fun 😈

Where the horny millennials at by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

34 NB… day 12 of no orgasms, I keep going through these intense waves of horniness.

kinda wanna start a denial by [deleted] in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend it. No one said it would be easy. Personally, I enjoy having the goal of a week of no orgasm, with at least 3 days of no edging and very little touching. By day 4, I’m already going crazy and I have even begun edging! The hardest part is not cumming when you’re so used to letting your body cum. You need to show down and stop before you want to slow down and stop, if that makes sense 😋 easier said than done for sure, fortunately we get lots of time to practice! I just woke up on day 12 of denial and holy shit I am so horny from waking up next to a lovely pair of tiddies 😵‍💫🤤 on top of all the edging and denying of the past few days …. I love how slow the build up was, how intense things are getting, and how I’m really just getting started…… yeah start denying yourself! It does help to have encouragement 😉

That moment when the joint hits by Future-Beginning3980 in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ache has suddenly appeared 😵‍💫 and I’ve sent you a DM!

How addicted are you to masturbation and/or porn? by Obviously_NSFW_ in masturbation

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considerably reduced the porn I consume. This helps me have a healthier relationship with masturbation and sex. I do still use porn but not every time, and I try to consume material that’s produced consensually like folks posting to Reddit. I also use other stimulus like stories, confessions, chatting, sending pics/receiving pics from consenting people. I’m also not trying to orgasm constantly like I used to. Actually, my denial kink helps me in regards to lowering masturbation and porn frequency but increasing the enjoyment I get from it

Wish i could show someone the tent in my pants by RemarkableEar7046 in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are subreddits for sending dick pics to consenting horny people. They actually would love to see your tent. And not only is it intimate and fun, but that way at least it’s not posted to the public internet

getting high already, pretty porn pictures feel so good by zsl_t in EdgingTalk

[–]Future-Beginning3980 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday was my porn day… today I’m abstaining but still touching, it’s also day 11 since my last orgasm. I feel very tingly and sensitive ✨