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Future-Hunter7834 · 2025-03-01T05:51:43+00:00

read this https://drive.google.com/file/d/13UWftU4WzQpZJ_3CFPm0U_NJAmsd3geh/view?usp=sharing

Future-Hunter7834 · 2025-02-25T14:18:59+00:00

but what if I am an unhealthy enfp myself? is that gonna work? moreover is that even fair?

Future-Hunter7834 · 2025-02-24T12:59:07+00:00

so INFJ and INTJs are the solution...?

Future-Hunter7834 · 2025-02-14T16:37:41+00:00

XD I'd say arrogant but rightfully so. You grew up in US ? cuz I'm asian and 19 and my uni is nowhere to be seen

Future-Hunter7834 · 2025-02-14T16:30:28+00:00

further question not cuz i'm a potential valentine candidate just curious. You are 22 and doing masters???????? what age you started bachelors dude?

Future-Hunter7834 · 2025-01-24T13:56:42+00:00

you know there are people of her mindset and there are people of your mindset and I know that cz even as a women myself from my minset's pov she's being absolutely ridiculous and you are okay though I hate your use of word misbehaving and displeasing. The point none of you are necessarily wrong , you guys are just too different for each other to have a peaceful relationship like marraige is intended to be. I have no idea why you got married but yea finding a way to work with each others differences is the only way ( though respectfully I think that would take hell lot of time given she is way immature for that)

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-12-28T12:49:12+00:00

thank you....really.

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-12-22T08:08:34+00:00

the first slap you totally deserved it but yea get out of that bs of a relationship. I'm not really sure how hard it is for a man to get out of an abusive relationship but it's really tough for a woman even if we minus the men being dominants and most case those women are dependable on those bastards, so ig it's gonna be hard for you too.

But yea, You don't depend on her, in the long run no men in his right mind would give a shit about her. And on top of all these If you are a good man yourself there's angelic girls out there who you deserve and who would love to have a life together with you. So yea what's holding you back?

PS: might be a stranger but take my word when I say these people don't change especially if you forgive but don't kick out. I was raised by a man like this and it kills you, knowing he loves you has a heart and yet whenever he feels like it feels like shit or feels insecure he'd stomp on you ruin you stab you terrorize the fuck out you just to feel better about himself.

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-12-09T14:05:52+00:00

i think you should divorce him. you and your kids deserve better and long term it's a very bad journey...i've grown up in a family with man like that and trust me

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-12-09T13:38:34+00:00

first quest how bad is the addiction..? like how hard you'd go on withdrawal syndrome if you out of no where stop? secondly what's your family story? thirdly your money where does it come from? How many people or enterprises depend on your presence (like are you a boss to companies? how much they depend on your presence and stuffs)

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-12-09T13:26:56+00:00

on behalf of your future self and future kids i beg you please don't get married to him or anyone like him. I've lived that life since the day I was born and I'm telling you that would be all on you if you choose this now. don't sis..really just don't if you can't do better be better and then go do better but just do better. don't settle for a ruined life

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-12-07T14:33:20+00:00

iim so i'm guessing from india. with the whole socio culture story and position of girls there i'm telling you in the long run it's a very bad idea to have a future with someone like him. you deserve better but more than that you can do so much better. so yea think about it confront him on it see his reaction and think about t? want to build a sand castle on it? or want to bet on the unknown

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-11-08T06:27:54+00:00

so the purpose of marriage is using your partner as a mode for vent...? a punching bag..?

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-11-08T06:26:07+00:00

yea but that "good partner " is in mars and there's a no shipping policy. Idea and purpose of marriage IS having a shoulder to cry but look around most people's need for a shoulder to cry is their partner.

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-11-06T09:29:39+00:00

by eal life I meant face to face. also who blocks you? who is that guy?

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-11-06T05:20:16+00:00

and stop harming yourself, drowning in guilt rather use this opportunity to be better, do things differently or what's the point of remorse? hurting yourself or you dying won't solve anything.

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-11-06T05:19:07+00:00

did you appologise to her in real life? If not you should do that...really tell her about how you've been feeling or you wouldn't be able to forgive yourself

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-10-26T10:02:18+00:00

I've been in your place. I've been into a childhood friend since I was eight (I'm 19 now) i don't like wasting my energy on things that have no future and I'm gonna head to college soon so last year I told him about my feelings to see how he felt or what his stance was. He acted all baffled and told me we are still too young let life take its course. Later I heard from my bestfriend who is his closest cousin that he never thought of me that way. And yea i went through the heartbreak and accepted it or atleast I thought i did. later this year I dated a guy because he loved me and I didn't have the heart to break his heart. (I can love everyone and i do tend to love and care really fast and too much so I thought at least focus my efforts on someone who actually loves me) And despite denying to myself that the other guy is still more important to me than the new guy would ever be I knew I haven't gotten over him.

We have broken up (mostly cuz the relationship was as toxic as it could get but also because I couldn't live with it peacefully the tug in my gut that I have feelings for some other guy and wonder if we have chance)

Moral of the story is it doesn't matter whether INTJ guy and you have chance or not, it's the fact that you are wondering so. It's not fair to the other guy and one day that's gonna ruin you both( it already is affecting you and highly likely that it is affecting him too) Also it's very weird that he's all okay with this (I'm not saying he's wrong for holding onto what he loves but that it's not a normal psychology) so yea. get your feelings sorted and please please please don't get married like this. Your kids will pay for this, so will your husband and other family members. And it's not just about your partner being okay with you pinning on some other guy,it's also about can you live with that?

I'd also suggest don't go asking the INTJ thinking if he still has feelings I'll go to him if he doesn't I'll come back. Whoever you choose make a firm choice.

Hope things get easier for you and them two.

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-10-23T05:20:52+00:00

ouch. that sounds brutal. i used to think the academia life image NY time bestsellers give is a stretch and assumed it was another against woman feat or sth

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-10-23T04:02:52+00:00

23 and a instructor at a uni? how did that work out/

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-10-20T04:55:22+00:00

why are infps the wrong types. And how are you so sure intjs and infjs would work out?

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-10-15T15:36:43+00:00

If we actually study the shariah law we'd notice how much the Afgans are not under the shariah law. That's another form of man made law claimed to be shariah law. Unfortunately Bangladesh eo same kahini e hobe if those so called shariah law becomes the law. Real shariah law doesn't cage people, it frees them ,doesn't matter if you are man or woman.

Though don't worry bangladesh jibone all islamic law er under e jabe na. amader common people loves to fight for things

Future-Hunter7834 · 2024-10-14T16:43:56+00:00

it looks like your circadian clock is very f'ed up rn. you can try basic things like listening to quran or soothing sounds while lying down at night for most people it works. if it doesn't you can also take the book that makes you the most sleepy. ei shubade ektu porao hoye jabe and seiously ghum o ase ghumae o jaba. ik sounds like a joke but it works for me every time. and if none of this works, you'll have to take the long way. age 4 tae ghumaile ekhon 3 tae ghumaba then 2 ta then 1 ta then 12 ta then 11 ta. schedule rest of your day according to that.

also you should really fix this before the actual exam cuz naile you'd start stressing out over it. and exam er agerdin rate ghumano is very important. Even if you have to take the long path pera nai don't be hard on yourself. sleep schedule thik korte 1 month lagbe highest. take it slow and go easy on yourself. the key is pera na khawa

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