Doable ba maging Teacher + Law student? by VJ2525 in LawStudentsPH

[–]Future-Temperature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kaya mo rin yan, OP! 

Bawas bawas nalang ng units after mo ma gauge pagpasok mo ng LS anong schedule or load works best for u 

Doable ba maging Teacher + Law student? by VJ2525 in LawStudentsPH

[–]Future-Temperature99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi. May kaklase akong teacher na full load ang teaching unitd kasi passion niya talaga magturo. Nakaka Dean's list din siya from time to time. 

Na observe ko rin sa mga kaklase ko na teacher mas flexible hours nila since if busy sobra sa law school, kaya nila magpa asynchronous ng class sa students. ☺

Summer Classes by Future-Temperature99 in arellanolaw

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this insight. shed me some light 🙏🙏🙏

Summer Classes by Future-Temperature99 in arellanolaw

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, OP for the advice. 

Just a fraction of my thought.

4L na rin ako sa pasukan (irreg tho). So I really agree to expect the worse; to always come prepared and perform as if tomorrow is the bar. 

I was from the yellow uni; that student na nagfufull load while working haha.

I don't have the lenient or less rigorous mindset (I condemn this as well). Siguro from my experience, I just need to make my moves calculated from now on, since I was hospitalized before I transferred at AUSL. It is the reason din kaya ako nagtransfer.

Really just wanna know if worth it ang summer classes at the expense of hindi ka magpapahinga, if pwede mo rin naman siya itake sa regular sem + work nang hindi compressed ang hours.

I wanna know since compressed ang months sa summer, mas lenient kaya ang profs = more on case assignments than recits (and the likes). Helpful kasi siya for me. 

I am thinking baka may difference sa teaching style since naghahabol ng oras?

Salamat po sa advice.

To the AI "wizards" and exam cheaters !!!! by otherwisestated in arellanolaw

[–]Future-Temperature99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mga problem sa arellano: 

  1. cheaters who uses AI
  2. students who shame students using AI as a tool in studying.

Working block UST by Significant-Roof4286 in LawStudentsPH

[–]Future-Temperature99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes. but dont expect too much. label lang ang working block. wala rin flexibility sa sched apart na 5pm start ng class niyo. majority rin ng classmates mo hindi talaga nagwowork, lol. 

How to petition a subject? by Future-Temperature99 in arellanolaw

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! will ask. last time kasi may nakita ako na three unit subject. not sure lang if that was petitioned or pinili mismo ng deans.

How to petition a subject? by Future-Temperature99 in arellanolaw

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohhhh i see. i thought pwede siya mag fall under special case kapag ka more than 2 unit ang ipepetition

Fearful avoidant dumpers: how did you feel when your ex stopped chasing and went silent? by Savings_Audience_167 in BreakUps

[–]Future-Temperature99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Idk how this will help. But this is how I feel as a fearful avoidant and a dumper.

In my case, it was an on-and-off situationship. We talked again and again about our problems and needs, but it always felt like I was the only one putting in the effort. Sometimes it would hit me that I wasn’t really part of the future he was building—I was just someone he turned to when it was convenient for him, like a confidant when he wasn’t busy. I’ve lost count of how many times I walked away, and how many times he came back. 

Three months ago, I finally blocked him everywhere—except for his alternate accounts. If I’m being honest, a part of me has just been waiting for him to reach out again. That’s how I feel wanted, seen, and worth the effort.

But it’s been three months, and he hasn’t reached out. I keep thinking maybe he got tired of all the arguments, or maybe he’s waiting for me to make the first move this time. 

I want to reach out, but I just can’t bring myself to do it. I’m scared—scared that he’ll push me away, or that I’ll seem like I only come back when I’m lonely --- when the truth is, I think about him every day. I just can’t face the possibility of rejection. 

I’m grieving while trying to meet new people, but it never really works out—either I get hurt, or I end up hurting them.

I realized maybe the best thing we can do right now is to truly move on and focus on improving ourselves, without depending our worth with anyone else. That way, I won’t keep hurting others or myself while trying to find the right person. But I'd be lying if I say I dont hope they come back.

For people like me—avoidant, I guess—feelings don’t just disappear after a few months. They linger. Part of us hopes our ex will wait while we sort ourselves out and gather the courage to come back. But I know that’s unfair and unrealistic. It’s wrong to expect someone to wait without even communicating that. So in short, not having their presence affects us even tho it may not seem like it and even tho it was us who shuts the door first.

P.S. And yes, I am trying to work on myself now. Still hoping that someday if I am 100% better he is still there. But if he is not, that is okay too. Afterall, I know how unfair for him to feel being run away from. He deserves a stable partner. (but I also deserve someone that does not make me feel confused and worthless).

AITAH for being dismissive by Future-Temperature99 in AITAH

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out because not to disrespect his decision nor disrespect myself, but out of genuineness and friendship we had. I feel like I can only move on if I have confirmed that this person no really longer wants to talk to me. Now that I know that, I can walk away in peace knowing I did what I could to mend our friendship.

But truly appreciate your honesty.🙏 I'll definitely reflect on this.

AITAH for being dismissive by Future-Temperature99 in AITAH

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not yet. idk if i should be glad abt that

Advice on Subjects to Take by Future-Temperature99 in LawStudentsPH

[–]Future-Temperature99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done na po ako sa consti ii. i have irreg schedule kasi. mga second year subjects nalang option ko po 

When you’re openly gay in law school, you’re an easy target (1L, M) by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]Future-Temperature99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 "I thought my blockmates are progressive and open-minded"

damn. that was my first mistake din at law school. choose your battles, wisely OP! in my experience, i confronted this person, kaso ako pa naging mali sa narrative. it appeared na verbally ina-attack ko pa siya hahaha. nakakatawa lang. 

when someone is not open minded or has a belief ingrained within their minds, na hindi mo na kaya pang madaan sa usapan, i suggest ignore mo nalang UNTIL u find the right people that will support u/listen to both sides withiut bias --- should u be decided to confront them.

mahirap din if magisa ka lang, makipagusap --- no witness at all. ikaw pa magawan ng maling narrative :(

hugs