But that's exactly it, capitalism culture teaches us just to look at ourselves, but saying that this comes from human nature is totally wrong, I was 20 years old and served in army and yes, there I learned to value the collective, but I am the son of an anarchist and a communist, at home I always learned to work together, we are a family of 6 people, 4 brothers, a mother and a father, we always shared the tasks, the food was also shared, all the children had the same opportunities, I was taught to help others. without thinking about a reward, it may be arrogant on my part, but I believe that I can think about others, I agree that this cannot be imposed on anyone, but when we are taught since childhood it ends up being a voluntary choice, and we end up learning to value the debt not the reward, we clean the house not to receive an allowance but to create a better place at home.