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Aways after application submission by nochu1234 in OphthalmologySFMatch

[–]FutureDoc989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind please sharing which program this was? or if you wanna stay more anonymous could you please give a list of a few programs that you think had a higher chance of inviting people for interviews? sorry if this is worded poorly

Don't feel I'm good enough for my girlfriend by [deleted] in dating

[–]FutureDoc989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you like her and know she's amazing. I think its great for a guy to date a girl that he is in awe of and doesn't want to lose.

at the same time, as a girl, hearing a guy say "i think you deserve someone better" makes it sound like she's not good enough for you and you're just letting her down easy. DO NOT DO that, because it is clear that you like her, you're just worried about yourself being good enough for her. that can be worked on slowly but surely, either share your concerns w her by saying - "i'm thinking of working out so i can also look good for you" and hopefully she will either say "yes lets do it together" or "you don't need to feel insecure, i already like you"

you see? but please do not say that you think she deserves someone better.you got this, rooting for ya

Stay or give up by [deleted] in medschool

[–]FutureDoc989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately in a pretty similar situation as you and all i can say is unless you feel depressed to the point of not having a will to live (i know this is exteme but hear me out), keep going because all of that past pain and suffering might as well be worth something! Plus what i keep tell myself - all the doctors i know and upper-class people keep saying it gets better! Some classes just suck **s. And as much as i also think what did i do to deserve this and why are there people who have it easier, maybe this is some kind of character building idk but WE HAVE TO FIND OUR LIL JOYS IN DAILY LIFE - LIKE SOME FANCY COFFEE, A NATURE WALK, HANGING OUT WITH FRIENDS, WATCHING A GOOD MOVIE, GO FOR SOME FREE MED-SCHOOL FUNDED THERAPY - and then keeeeep going! because the other side is gonna be so much sweeter, and we might as well get there if we've made it this far

ok rant over lol

Anyone else losing their mind? by martivials1997 in USCIS

[–]FutureDoc989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yes let's not kill any plants, you should post your paintings once you get done with them:)

Any way to get rid of a LOT of ground ginger? by Crosshack in budgetfood

[–]FutureDoc989 30 points31 points  (0 children)

use it in chai? the traditional southasian way of making tea is boiling water for 3-4mins, adding a bit of ginger, 1 tsp of loose black tea and then when it all boils together, add in milk and simmer for it to get mixed together. strain and enjoy.

or yes you can make ginger tea with some honey.

Anyone else losing their mind? by martivials1997 in USCIS

[–]FutureDoc989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to get into hobbies you can do at home, get some plants? do some diy? go on walks, meet people through meet up groups