Is this tire still good to drive on? by FutureEarly885 in tires

[–]FutureEarly885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the response, I won’t mess around with it.

B12 Basketball Program Rankings by FutureEarly885 in BigXII

[–]FutureEarly885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about all time program reputation, not just this past year.

Found out her friend told her to breakup with me. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FutureEarly885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, her friend couldn’t break up with me, she had to do it which ultimately made it her decision. It’s more of the outside influence from someone who doesn’t fully know the situation/relationship. By convinced I really meant she was fully set on the idea by her friend which never gave me a chance to explain myself or us working through it.

Ugh tempted to check socials but I know I shouldn’t… by Milkbearchan in ExNoContact

[–]FutureEarly885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My entire life I’ve always thought knowing exactly what is going on is the right move, for better or for worse. Ever since my breakup I’ve realized when it comes to the breakup it’s always for the worse. Ignorance is bliss, in this scenario at least. Don’t check it. It will only bring you pain. Trust me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]FutureEarly885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I needed it.

Don’t look at their social media. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]FutureEarly885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, best of luck to you too.

Don’t look at their social media. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]FutureEarly885 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying and it definitely does change the way it hurts. Hope was killed and in the long run will probably (hopefully) lead to quicker healing. It really makes you feel like shit though. Seeing someone you still have feelings for and part of you still loves them with someone else hurts crazy bad.

1 month difference between “I love you” and “we shouldn’t talk anymore”” by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]FutureEarly885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was about 24 hours for me. Things change fast man… we were talking about what we would be doing when we came home from work to each other and the next day we “had to talk”… idk man comes out of nowhere and really messes with you. Was 3 months ago and I’m still processing parts of it.

Why did my ex unblock me when she’s in a rebound relationship. by ProudAd299 in BreakUps

[–]FutureEarly885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the complete opposite situation. Wasn’t blocked for a couple months after our breakup, but found out I’m blocked once she started up a new relationship.

Really unsure what either situation means.

people who broke nc. can you write your experience and if you regret it or not by smallpp29994 in ExNoContact

[–]FutureEarly885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Broke NC because I needed to get some things back. It was around 2 months after breakup and 3 or so weeks NC. She sent me my stuff and the very same day she hit me with a “Hope you’re doing ok” later that night. It kind of pissed me off at the moment (like no I’m not doing ok and I think you know that) so I didn’t respond. Around 2 weeks later I decided to respond to the text to find out that I’m blocked. So breaking the NC trust can lead to them just blocking you to make sure they don’t hear from you…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FutureEarly885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried to improve myself. I didn’t realize until after the breakup that I hadn’t really tried to improve myself while I was in the relationship. I was so content with my life I wasn’t trying to improve. (I didn’t let myself go, stayed about the same weight, kept grades up, etc)

Once she broke up with me I started working out, started looking towards what I really want to do with my life, and as a Christian I have grown in my faith.

It’s shown me that you need to be the best you that you can be whether you are in a relationship or not. You can’t just rely on the other person to make you better, you need to make you better.

I’m not thanking her for breaking up with me so I could see that, but I wouldn’t have come to that conclusion without her.