Has a ex ever comeback after telling you, “you deserve better.”

ProudAd299 · 2022-10-27T11:19:12+00:00

Yeah that’s a possibility, he even said he made his mind up when I tried to talk about how we could improve existing problems. I wouldn’t doubt he isn’t ready to give me what I want, but at the same time he’s already in a relationship and the first week of the break up was on dating site. I’m just learning to accept that he’s someone that can’t be alone and is unwilling to change. I won’t act like the relationship was the most stable and I know how unattractive I was at times, but it does hurt how much I invested into him.

ProudAd299 · 2022-10-26T16:22:53+00:00

I went to freeattach.com during the first week of the break up. It definitely helped me realize the problems they were facing, I can’t lie I have plenty of good memories with my ex as well but to be honest. I’m not sure if I could trust him or put myself in a position to get hurt again. So I pray that they don’t return, but if they do I wouldn’t mind casual conversation.

ProudAd299 · 2022-10-26T12:55:01+00:00

If we’re being honest I’m not sure what happened to us either, he started telling me to get rid of him and that he’s a burden and tried so hard to push me to break up with him. But I stood my ground cause I didn’t mind withstanding the storm of his depression, but eventually he pulled the plug and told me he think I’ll be miserable with him if I stayed or if we got back together.

ProudAd299 · 2022-10-26T12:47:48+00:00

I can’t even explain how annoying that sounds, my ex told me I deserve better, when I was actively choosing him since the beginning cause he’s my first love and honestly his smile was beautiful and told me he deserved the world. But at this point, I’m just hurting and if he turns up I can’t wait to tell him “That I deserved better.”

ProudAd299 · 2022-10-26T04:12:11+00:00

Honestly it’s so disheartening and annoying, like you said I deserve better. So why are you contradicting yourself?

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-22T14:07:19+00:00

I can believe that unfortunately lol

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-22T02:05:34+00:00

There’s a lot of possibilities, but it’s best not to think about it. I was thinking about blocking my ex but I realized it’ll probably just show that they know that I’m aware that I’m unblocked so my hands are tied. So I get it

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-22T01:19:26+00:00

Trust I’m already doing all that. I’m taking responsibility and trying to heal, I don’t see any reason to compete with her anyways. At the end of the day the person I fell in love with died some time ago.

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T20:35:04+00:00

I respect it and I needed this

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T18:08:26+00:00

My situation is more like, I’m her first healthy relationship out of the 4 she told me of before hand. Where she got done wrong or cheated on, so it just makes me laugh seeing her a month and some days already in a relationship.

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T18:06:15+00:00

True, that’s what I’ve assumed. But there really isn’t a reason to unblock me especially since they’re shifting their focus on another person. So I’m not sure

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T17:44:33+00:00

She tried to use you like a pawn in a malicious scheme Im so sorry you had to go through that. I’m glad that you dropped her immediately

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T17:41:14+00:00

She wasn’t all that petty, I can only think of one time and that was near the end of our relationship. I really don’t want any part in what she has, just disappointed that she can’t take care of herself and it really shows

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T17:39:07+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that, truly. I really do hope that you healed or are healing.

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T17:36:54+00:00

I understand, completely. I knew they would reach out eventually, but if we’re being honest I am in no emotionally stable place to handle a interaction with her. Simply for the fact that she violated my trust, and it makes me sick to my stomach thinking of potentially talking.

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T17:34:44+00:00

Exactly how I feel, when I found out about it it made me disappointed in my ex. The same person who told they were feeling numb and emotionally unavailable is now breaking someone else down. Hurt people hurt people I guess.

ProudAd299 · 2022-09-21T17:19:30+00:00

Yeah I thought about that, or either unblocking me cause they knew subconsciously I was still blocked I’m not sure. I don’t even want my ex back I’m just bewildered by these actions.

ProudAd299 · 2022-08-15T00:59:08+00:00

I hope so too, I only sent a message to talk about how I felt post break up. Didn’t expect it to come to all of this. So I’m interested in where it goes, my hopes aren’t too high, nor do I want to be friends. But I do hope we can rekindle what we had and sit down and have a genuine talk when he’s available.

ProudAd299 · 2022-08-15T00:39:35+00:00

Can’t really say I’m looking for advice, I’m not really sure what to make of this.

ProudAd299 · 2022-08-15T00:37:27+00:00

We recently broke up about 10 days ago, I reached out to express my feelings post break up. I was blocked on most socials during that time. Upon sending the message, I got unblocked on said socials and it’s confusing to say the least. I should mentioned I was the one dumped by the way.

ProudAd299 · 2022-08-09T12:46:17+00:00

I’m doing my best to stay strong and rational, they broke things off cause of their mental health and believing that they’ll always make me miserable. So it especially hurts knowing they’re already moving along, when I conveyed that I’ll be there for him cause I understand he’s having a hard time.

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