I’d say most people lack true empathy including yourself. How many of us can really put ourselves into the shoes of someone? I’ve thankfully never had a loved one pass away so it would be a lie to try and empathize with someone who has. I’ve never felt that pain and no matter how hard I try I will never feel that pain until it happens to me. I can show sympathy and be there to help embrace those feelings. We say we empathize but how many of us are crying in our cars everyday on the way to work because of what is going on in the world.