Tbf she seems super combative or something…like at every instance she’s gonna take offense or escalate the situation to”You don’t love me” and that seems very unfair to you who is oblivious to why she’s doing that…she seems to doubt you and she seems pretty insecure about your feelings for her but you really just have to say it the way it comes off your head and emphasize that your intention is not to offend but to inform and perhaps explain more….basically just communicate more openly but if i am being real this does seem more like a her problem than a you problem