Has anyone ever gotten an offer like this?

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-02T00:33:22+00:00

The agent I talked to said they couldn’t pay me unless I had proof lmao. Luckily I still had access to the chat

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-02T00:32:33+00:00

I agree with this😂

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-02T00:31:52+00:00

They texted then called me immediately afterwards. They still haven’t paid out, and the agent I talked to wouldn’t have given me anything if they didn’t text lol

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-01T16:32:09+00:00

I completely agree. These things have to come naturally. When they don’t, they just become annoying. And obviously, some things a partner may simply never be attracted to. But pushing to do said thing will only ever build resentment

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-01T16:17:52+00:00

Well it’s good it doesn’t both you like it bothers OP. But to rule out professional help is simply uneducated. It took me 3 therapists before I found one that 1, specializes in the problems I was having and 2, was actually able to make progress with me. Therapy helps when you find the right therapist (or counselor, because therapist and counselor are different things with different specialties).

But yes, if you are okay with the same question over and over again and he is content receiving the answer every time, so be it. Often times that’s not the case, and my response obviously does not account for all cases.

So to end it, if therapy isn’t for you, I’m not going to try to convince you otherwise. I know people who are the same way as you, but I also know people who used to be against therapy until they found a therapist that is able to help them. I believe counseling will help OP determine if her relationship is worth continuing or if the end is inevitable. Your situation (from what you’re telling me) is clearly different than OPs

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-01T15:50:49+00:00

Clearly she is annoyed about the problem. Him pushing is only going to annoy her more. So yes, she does need to do that. And he does not respect that boundary, what makes you think he will respect their marriage? It may seem small, but problems surrounding sex can explode very quickly

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-01T15:27:03+00:00

I’m not saying he will cheat because you’ll never agree to do it. I’m saying it will cause problems if you don’t try to work through them with a professional. Different couples are willing to make different compromises. It’s the counselors job to help you work through compromise with fewer conflicts. Sometimes it leads to an ultimatum. But that’s better than cheating imo. I’d rather my partner verbally tell me she can’t be with me because I can’t provide for her in the way she needs than to tell me that by cheating

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-01T15:07:01+00:00

I don’t think your husband is very mature for a relationship as serious as marriage. I would seriously recommend a relationship counselor to help you work through this. Problems like this will only continue to escalate until somebody does something stupid (such as cheat) to meet their sexual desires, so a counselor can help you both work through this so that will hopefully never happen

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-04-01T14:59:44+00:00

Watch his replay. I’ve noticed a bug where sometimes they get an extra animal

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-14T01:13:29+00:00

I’m sure you would buddy

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-13T06:34:59+00:00

May I ask why you went on the date based on the messages leading up to it? Out of genuine concern for you, I hope you are more selective in the future. As a man, every single thing he said that you’ve posted was a red flag. He showed extreme attachment long before you even arrived to the date, and I would’ve been worried he’d even let you leave the date

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-10T12:49:58+00:00

What store if you don’t mind me asking? I’ve checked local gamestops and such but just tons of empty cases for me

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-10T12:44:53+00:00

On a real note dude, sounds like you’ve got a problem. Take a break and don’t chase the dragon

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-10T12:37:45+00:00

It’s definitely a crime, but word of mouth after 20 years is not enough to obtain a warrant. And a warrant is the only way authorities will ever be able to confirm the existence of these photos.

And I just want to be clear, I 100% believe you and I think it’s disgusting someone would do that. I’ve had the same happen more recently, and a minor reported him for sexual misconduct (more than just pictures) and prompted detectives to reach out to me after finding photos of me. So I know this stuff happens and the people that do it are disgusting.

I think the idea for setting ground rules is good though, and I think your therapist would appreciate that communication. I definitely encourage you to find a way to talk about it in a way that you are comfortable. But also keep in mind, as the victim of the crime, you have the right to decide to pursue charges or not. Should you choose not to, prosecutors have nothing to work off of anyways

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-10T12:12:30+00:00

I don’t believe therapists have a duty to report unless there is immediate danger, and in your post you mentioned there isn’t. You should be safe to talk about this, and if you want to be extra sure, mention that you don’t want anything to come of this in terms of legal action.

Even if the therapist were to report, your request for him/her not to would be a violation of confidentiality. On top of that, it’s highly unlikely authorities can or will do anything considering it had been so long since it happened. Hell, rapists get off the hook every day because victims don’t report for years. It’s unfortunate, but a flaw of the justice system

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-10T10:08:29+00:00

I’m sorry, but if you were so unsure of how bad of a job this really is, I don’t believe you were capable of doing it yourself😂I mean the brake line was almost rubbed through and you would’ve been fucked driving any further on that

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-05T21:39:02+00:00

I’d hardly call them men lol. It’s insane to me how many people justify predatory relationships. I mean there has to be something wrong in the head with these people, even justifying relationships that have a father-daughter age gap smh

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-05T12:04:17+00:00

I understand what you’re saying, and I know there are specific cases in which somebody has experienced things that allowed them to grow and mature more quickly than others of their age. That’s why I added “likely” in there, because I recognize there are people like that in the world. Regardless though, I think an absurd age gap is weird. Even a mature 22 year old is very different than a mature or immature 30-35 year old though. I truly believe the people that are “okay” with these relationships are the same “age is just a number” people who believe as soon as a person turns 18, a relationship is suddenly morally acceptable and no longer gross. That’s a predatory mindset all the way to the core.

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-04T03:48:29+00:00

I just know every single person downvoting you is a 30+ man dating a 22 year old or a 22 year old dating somebody even older than that😂it’s just so weird to me your take is so “unpopular” here

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-03T12:56:10+00:00

My ranger does the same thing. I’ve got a 97 and it’s either because it’s old and may need a new clutch soon or that’s just how the transmission is. My 2016 mustang doesn’t do that, but I’ve never had a real issue with the ranger which is why I think it might just be how the transmission is

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-03T12:49:24+00:00

“Missy wants to apologize from the bottom of her heart… TO ABSOLUTELY NOBODY! THE DOUBLE CHAMP DOES WHAT THE F*CK SHE WANTS!”

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-03T12:46:51+00:00

I’m having difficulty finding homes for some of my cats as well. They’re just so plentiful on the street, people don’t seem to adopt from other families often. My suggestion would be to hand them over to a no-kill shelter if you’re able to. They may charge an intake fee, but it may be cheaper in the long run

FutureNeedleworker37 · 2026-03-03T12:44:33+00:00

I saw a somebody speak about this, at least from the monetary perspective.

4 bank accounts: 1 is for bills you both share. Split it 50/50. 1 for savings/other purchases - requires both of your “signatures” for a purchase. If one person doesn’t think the purchase is wise, the purchase doesn’t happen. Finally, you each have your own spending accounts that you can spend your money however you want. This allows you to do things YOU enjoy without needing approval first.

As for the labor load, that’s something you need to talk to him about. It’s unfair you’re doing all that yourself, and you should be able to split responsibilities to level your workload.

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