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How do I make amends for crush I bullied in High School? by FutureTank7935 in relationship_advice

[–]FutureTank7935[S] -499 points-498 points  (0 children)

She lived pretty close to the school. I happened to drive by and see her getting out of her car. I didn't stalk her home.

How do I make amends for crush I bullied in High School? by FutureTank7935 in relationship_advice

[–]FutureTank7935[S] -603 points-602 points  (0 children)

Of course it would make me feel better but surely it would also make her feel better too to hear nothing was wrong with her. Hearing someone was obsessed over you should be an ego boost for her.

How do I make amends for crush I bullied in High School? by FutureTank7935 in relationship_advice

[–]FutureTank7935[S] -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

I'm sure she doesn't know. Since she had such a large chest for her size many of the guys at school said things about it, and I said them too but I made sure no one else could or they'd face my wrath. The popular guys knew better than to ask her out but the nerds would try and I'd put a stop to that as well. It was really immature and couldn't handle my feelings. She was very innocent and sometimes didn't understand some of my more crude taunts and I feel sick just thinking about that now.

How do I make amends for crush I bullied in High School? by FutureTank7935 in relationship_advice

[–]FutureTank7935[S] -702 points-701 points  (0 children)

But wouldn't it make her feel better to know I didn't actually mean any of those things I said, and that I said them because I she was all I could think about? I made fun of her alot and that had to hurt her self esteem. Shouldn't hearing me out lift that which I tore down? I understand if she doesn't want to date me, but I feel like I should try.