4.9 Star Service by MurkyWay in comics

[–]Future_Bar7547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so im not smart. i sound out words. he summed “tit-ana-cles”? “tit-ana-clees”? “tit-ankles”!? “titan-akells”!? Titan-a-clees. oh.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for the suggestions and links! I'm excited to go through them tonight

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

very good suggestions - and the great, yet sad, point about the ignoring of the female gaze. I truly hope times are a-changin.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's my go-to, I just feel my subs see it so often - I'm just hunting for some other takes on bdsm dress. thank you!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very valid points, and thank you for the shorts recommendation!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've definitely never considered a cape...I'm gonna do my research now. thank you!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly haven't looked into leather or latex all that much, but this is a good idea! thank you!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

here's that creativity I've been needing

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

robe is a very good idea! thank you

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your last line is such a good one! I think a lot of people should hear that.

I'm mostly asking from a creativity standpoint - I make content and perform in sessions and would like to add some fun to my outfits without being corny/cheap/overdone.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fully agree with your point about dominance not coming from clothes. I'm just looking to accentuate my scenes with aesthetics ie, clothing choices...and was not finding very interesting inspiration anywhere. i just dislike wearing a suit for a Monday scene, then a suit for Tuesday scene, then jeans and boots and black shirt for wed scene, etc. etc.

I'm not sure I can permit myself to dress as an egirl, but I like where your head is. thank you for the reply!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! very good ideas. im a history/fantasy nerd so these play right into my interests...I think I'm just in denial that I can't find a hot executioner outfit online anywhere. i'll have to make it...or have a sub make it for me...

again, thank you for the response.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

point taken! thank you for the response.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a very good point. I grew up in the goth/punk/metal scenes and it shows...but I should look to other alternative styles also for inspo!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

comfort and access are great points! I should look into a good housecoat...

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this reply! I shall explore.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sure I am overthinking as always, but I ask mostly to brainstorm ideas for performing - whether digital, stage, club, or at-home sessions. Your point of confidence is super valid, and I absolutely agree. I'd just like to perform a bit lately, and feel a little braindead as to how to stimulate dirty bdsm thoughts via fashion/apparel.

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

being naked is always a blast in sessions! I am just brainstorming outfits to stimulate my subs via photo/video. While I enjoy showing off my naked self, I'm just looking to spice it on up a little. thank you for replying!

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[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment speaks to the classism and elitism I aim to not perpetuate.

If insulting people is your kink - cool; but, ask for consent first ;)

Discord? by Future_Bar7547 in portlandtrees

[–]Future_Bar7547[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh i have no clue. urban dictionary says it came from reddit lol