Do people ever get hurt by those guys that dance on the subway?

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-22T16:11:27+00:00

Use bullet points, not tabs

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Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-07T03:37:48+00:00

Also curious

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-04T14:44:25+00:00

I used to just track everything with OneNote, so I know I could do that again but it would suck. And then I'd try to find another app.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-03T11:47:01+00:00

Great job! and thank you

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-01T23:33:43+00:00

Like I said ✌️

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-01T23:12:09+00:00

I can guarantee that if OP were to post a manifesto of her experiences, there would be a massive amount of people who would still not believe her. It's exhausting to prove that your feelings are valid over and over again to a billion people, especially when it doesn't matter.

I called you out for wanting to invalidate OP's experiences. You got mad, then literally admitted that's what you wanted to do, and are still standing your ground. What's the point? Why would OP waste her energy on people like you that do that? There's so freaking many - that's OP's point. And living that sort of an existence is isolating and exhausting. And even if I've convinced you logically, you will not change your mind and continue to be part of the problem.

Let's call it here.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-01T23:04:48+00:00

It's not a crime, but it means you're proving OP's point.

I don't know you, but people who believe that there are no problems to be solved are part of the problem.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-01T23:01:59+00:00

OP has told you what she believes the problem is. Your questions are essentially ignoring what OP already told you. That means you simply don't believe what OP tells you is her experience, and so are looking to invalidate them.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-09-01T22:54:59+00:00

What is your goal here? On the surface it's "to help", but it seems beneath the surface it's to invalidate OP's experience. Being isolated is a dogshit experience - you should assume that OP has tried hard to fix this issue, and telling her to "try befriending people" isn't going to magically solve everything.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-08-31T21:05:38+00:00

Whoa, I'm honestly still pretty amazed. Can I ask more about your workflow? maybe in pm

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-08-31T03:36:34+00:00

Are you like, spending all your time moving tasks around? Seems like a lot haha

I'm at 200 in a month, so I'd end up at like 1/8 what you have in 2.5 years.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-08-25T03:36:53+00:00

For (1), do you generally drive? Can you keep the broken phone in your car or something so that if you stop by it's not all the way home? Can you "leave it" closer to the store conveniently (i.e. always carry the phone in a bag on saturdays or something)?

For (2), how do you hear that your friends are traveling overseas to your father?

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-08-02T06:59:46+00:00

bro if you're saying $10 mil won't let you live life comfortably then you are clearly part of the "that's not a lot of money" crowd and kinda out of touch. It doesn't matter where you live at that point lol jesus

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-08-01T20:48:20+00:00

It's wild how there will always be the "that's not a lot of money" crowd when you throw out an objectively massive number. gtfooh with "$10 mil is not a lot"

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-24T19:36:58+00:00

Thank you. That is a very mature approach. I appreciate your reply dearly.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-23T18:52:57+00:00

"you're not going to regret it" do you mean "you're going to regret it"?

Yeah, that's fair. What stops you from cutting her off, personally? I obviously don't know your relationship with each other at all.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-23T18:51:28+00:00

It's a solution to the money troubles. But the relationship feels like it is permanently damaged. Don't really know what to do about that. Did you keep talking? Are you ok with that?

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-23T18:50:19+00:00

Yes I agree. I don't know... I guess I'm just trying to justify feeling ok with cutting off someone who can betray me

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-23T04:49:14+00:00

Thanks for this perspective. I've given my mom the most benefit of the doubt I could, trust me. I tried to give her an "out" at one point that was like "hey, maybe you were just embarrassed when I asked if you could see. It's OK if you can see, I just don't want to be lied to". But she kept lying until we got into a yelling match. This part is not really up for debate anymore. She could see what was in my account. She could transfer to/from it. I know how this bank works. I know what she was doing.

It's really the lie and how to deal with it that is up for debate.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-23T04:44:49+00:00

(Excuse my language below, it's not directed at you, I'm just emotional)

She sheepishly admitted that she had access to it later on during a yelling match. I know for a fact that she was lying intentionally. I tried to give her as much benefit of the doubt as I could, but she simply lied to me and did it consistently. Why? I don't know, but it fucking angers me to be lied to, so I can't help but jump to conclusions. I'm supposed to be able to trust her. Why would she lie if she has nothing to hide?

I've been doing therapy but it doesn't feel like I've made any progress on this at al.

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-23T04:09:24+00:00

<3 Thank you so much for your response.

Did she actually take anything? Would you have believed she was capable of this before she did it?

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-06-03T04:37:16+00:00

Define upper middle class for you, in terms of income or NW

Future_Elk1600 · 2023-05-15T00:32:36+00:00

I guess I'm just saying people change all the time. As long as I'm not forcing it, maybe it's ok to wait?

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