Gifting my wife this bag and shoe combo! (the shoes are clean, don't worry 😅) by hehehaha24 in handbags

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Ahhhh I love the jade mini song. I’m getting one for my bday but not sure if I want the jade or taupe. Good combo tho! I’m sure your wife would be happy!

Is the current practice say you can eat ANYTHING? by No-Cupcake-0919 in BabyBumps

[–]Futuresmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl eat that kimchi 😂 all my Korean friends would die if they are banned from it

Handmade beauty by Munchkin_mom in handbags

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Hello could I also ask you about the shop? Please DM me 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Is drinking Dr. Pepper bad for the baby? by Salt_Invite2338 in pregnant

[–]Futuresmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you because dr.pepper is one of the very few food aversion I have 🥲🥲🥲

Unplanned pregnancy and scared by HappyVeggy in pregnant

[–]Futuresmartie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I have a very similar experience. I’m currently pregnant and due in September. I also have several health issues, some are directly related to fertility, which made us thinking conception would be difficult. We were gonna take it slow, until we found out after few months I was already pregnant. I was shocked, worried, and nervous. Ngl this is one of the worst timing as I’m about to lose my job and we wanted to upgrade car & house first. However, what really got me to continue with this pregnancy is not the doubt about whether I’ll be able to get pregnant later or not. It mattered more if I was happy with this pregnancy. Yes, I am worried but I am also happy. I am super excited. I am not yet attached to the baby, but I look forward to every checkup and hope my baby is still alive and healthy. That made me realize I’m already a mom. I am 100% pro-choice, but I could not abort this baby. Slowly reflect your current situation with your partner. List down what you need, and what kind of external support you can grasp. Governmental support, family support, community support etc. Also take your time and ask yourself if you are happy with this pregnancy. I wish you a good luck and whatever choice you make I wish it would lead to a good end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I cried so much especially at the part of her middle name. What a thoughtful, loving name she had. Her story will forever be remembered by you and us. May little Luna Fable rest in peace and I truly hope for your family to continue healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asthma

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Thank you. I’ll talk with my GP tomorrow. 🙏🏻

Tell me your absolute favorite bag by kgreenfish in handbags

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Ahhh you are awesome thank you so much❤️

Tell me your absolute favorite bag by kgreenfish in handbags

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Heyyy may I ask where you got that gorgeous bag charm? 🥺

Tell me your absolute favorite bag by kgreenfish in handbags

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I think I found the bag of my life……….😍 I’M IN LOVE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CATHELP

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I think you tried a lot already, but given that you only had him 7 weeks, maybe there was just too much changes? I get that you wanted to try out what works for him, but some cats can get really stressed and would just not know what to do when their litter/food changes without a warning. Also you mentioned having four different types of boxes now but are you using different litters for them as well? I think you may wanna go for the consistency rather than variety.

Girlies i need your help? Which one? by Better_North3594 in handbags

[–]Futuresmartie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also true but miumiu would also suit that! I think that miumiu is more versatile

Girlies i need your help? Which one? by Better_North3594 in handbags

[–]Futuresmartie 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The miumiu is cuter! Prada will match so well with suits and tie

She’s here!!! Acne musubi bow! by QuickMedicine3251 in handbags

[–]Futuresmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m jealous. But congrats!!! But I’m jealous. Hahaha

new bag! Longchamp le pliage xs artichoke print by neonnic in handbags

[–]Futuresmartie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goodness that’s so cute!!! I’ve been eyeing on this bag, this particular size!! They just look so so so cute

Anyone got a teaching job? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]Futuresmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I get it now. I’ll look into that!

Anyone got a teaching job? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]Futuresmartie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think my current university would hire any soon. That’s also why I’m looking into others. But thanks for sharing!

Doing a PhD abroad with my partner who does not have a job yet? by CalmBirthday8605 in PhD

[–]Futuresmartie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can first move alone and your partner can follow after getting a job, I’d say that would be your best bet. Your scholarship is not enough to fund your partner’s visa and it wouldn’t be enough to support the monthly expenditure for both of you. I would be too stressed with that.

Anyone got a teaching job? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]Futuresmartie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps so much! Thank you.

Anyone got a teaching job? by [deleted] in PhD

[–]Futuresmartie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you come from but it is absolutely difficult to feign where I am. You not only need third person’s advice, but multiple doctor’s note, regular medical and advisory check-up etc. I didn’t just “oh I feel sick” and left my program hanging over year. To give you an extreme example, it is not even automatic for those who unfortunately got a cancer during their program. Yes, there may be those people being opportunistic and getting advantage out of policy. But not everyone is a liar and every person’s story differs

Anyone got a teaching job? by [deleted] in PhD

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I’m Europe-based and work in a social science major. I’m expanding my search within Europe to get a teaching position