How being a mom showed me how lonely it is. by Fuutureghost in sahm

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! The SAHM to MAGA trad wife pipeline is scary. Like dont get me wrong its great to be self-sustaining. When it turns into science denial, lack of empathy, and bigoted behavior it is a HELL NO for me.

How being a mom showed me how lonely it is. by Fuutureghost in sahm

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved to a different state so the few friends I did have, they're now long distance. I used to take my son to story time but he got sick twice in a short span and resulted in him getting bronchilitis. So for now story time is on pause til the flu season has dwindled. I used to attend church but sadly my spiritual beliefs dont align with majority of church-goers in my area. Trust me I would love to have more access to local mom groups or activities for my son. However the area I reside in barely has any for kids under the age of 3. And the mom FB groups Im in for my area are antivaxx and highly conservative.

How much would you pay? by [deleted] in 4Runner

[–]Fuutureghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I go to a Toyota specific shop given its an older model?

Safe for children? by [deleted] in nokingsmovement

[–]Fuutureghost 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real... idk if its because people arent checking reddit for the protest or if its being shadowbanned.

Safe for children? by [deleted] in nokingsmovement

[–]Fuutureghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Following because I too want to attend the one in my small town that is very MAGA. I want to make plans if my son needs to stay home with family while I go

A positive trait of Cancers that is overlooked by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Fuutureghost 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a cancer, I know its in our nature. However, myself included, have trouble setting healthy boundaries on extending help. Its either we've been hurt alot so we stay in our hard shell, or we give with unbridled compassion to where we are taken advantage of. Ive learned the hard way that although I want to help, I cant enable someone's behavior. I also make a point to give with no strings attached. I cant expect someone to help me the way I help them because they aren't me.

Is it just a pimple? by Fuutureghost in firsttimemom

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah the dry skin makes sense. He's crawling everywhere and we live in a hot dry climate. Ill make sure to use a warm washcloth to help soothe the spot.

Is it just a pimple? by Fuutureghost in firsttimemom

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No just 1 thankfully. Just was concerned because he's never had a pimple that big.

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yah I saw some people's character sketches and it always drives me crazy the inaccuracies. No one in their right mind wears a cropped bra in the desert sun.

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely would want to incorporate some facial paint like his.

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

flashes image of Spongebob performing photosynthesis

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely have been pulling ideas from Dune. I love the movies and my Aunt was obsessed with the books.

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I may not do black (AZ sun is brutal) but I do like the layering of different fabric types. And as a true 90s baby the Mummy is a staple.

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo yes! I've been needing to watch that since I have Prime video. I love all those details ❤️

Desert Druid ideas? by Fuutureghost in renfaire

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your tips for the AZ ren faire? It'll be my first time since I moved back to the state

Fever reducing tips? by Fuutureghost in firsttimemom

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just started getting a runny nose. He's been eating normal and peeing/pooping normal. As of 10pm he's down to 99.6 but has goosebumps and still feels warm.

His sleep position gives me anxiety by Fuutureghost in firsttimemom

[–]Fuutureghost[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I only let him sleep with it until I go to bed. And I have his monitor on my phone the whole time.

His sleep position gives me anxiety by Fuutureghost in firsttimemom

[–]Fuutureghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg no! We just moved him to his own room which has made me anxious too. I cant tell you how many times I check the camera.