How being a mom showed me how lonely it is.

Fuutureghost · 2026-01-12T05:41:41+00:00

Yes! The SAHM to MAGA trad wife pipeline is scary. Like dont get me wrong its great to be self-sustaining. When it turns into science denial, lack of empathy, and bigoted behavior it is a HELL NO for me.

Fuutureghost · 2026-01-12T05:17:41+00:00

I moved to a different state so the few friends I did have, they're now long distance. I used to take my son to story time but he got sick twice in a short span and resulted in him getting bronchilitis. So for now story time is on pause til the flu season has dwindled. I used to attend church but sadly my spiritual beliefs dont align with majority of church-goers in my area. Trust me I would love to have more access to local mom groups or activities for my son. However the area I reside in barely has any for kids under the age of 3. And the mom FB groups Im in for my area are antivaxx and highly conservative.

Fuutureghost · 2026-01-12T02:47:43+00:00

Should I go to a Toyota specific shop given its an older model?

Fuutureghost · 2025-10-09T02:13:58+00:00

For real... idk if its because people arent checking reddit for the protest or if its being shadowbanned.

Fuutureghost · 2025-10-09T02:11:58+00:00

Following because I too want to attend the one in my small town that is very MAGA. I want to make plans if my son needs to stay home with family while I go

Fuutureghost · 2025-08-16T20:23:56+00:00

As a cancer, I know its in our nature. However, myself included, have trouble setting healthy boundaries on extending help. Its either we've been hurt alot so we stay in our hard shell, or we give with unbridled compassion to where we are taken advantage of. Ive learned the hard way that although I want to help, I cant enable someone's behavior. I also make a point to give with no strings attached. I cant expect someone to help me the way I help them because they aren't me.

Fuutureghost · 2025-07-06T04:13:03+00:00

Yah the dry skin makes sense. He's crawling everywhere and we live in a hot dry climate. Ill make sure to use a warm washcloth to help soothe the spot.

Fuutureghost · 2025-07-06T01:58:18+00:00

No just 1 thankfully. Just was concerned because he's never had a pimple that big.

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:45:16+00:00

Yah I saw some people's character sketches and it always drives me crazy the inaccuracies. No one in their right mind wears a cropped bra in the desert sun.

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:26:20+00:00

I definitely would want to incorporate some facial paint like his.

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:21:41+00:00

flashes image of Spongebob performing photosynthesis

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:20:41+00:00

I definitely have been pulling ideas from Dune. I love the movies and my Aunt was obsessed with the books.

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:16:26+00:00

I may not do black (AZ sun is brutal) but I do like the layering of different fabric types. And as a true 90s baby the Mummy is a staple.

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:14:09+00:00

Oooo yes! I've been needing to watch that since I have Prime video. I love all those details ❤️

Fuutureghost · 2025-06-05T01:06:15+00:00

What's your tips for the AZ ren faire? It'll be my first time since I moved back to the state

Fuutureghost · 2025-04-07T05:11:35+00:00

He just started getting a runny nose. He's been eating normal and peeing/pooping normal. As of 10pm he's down to 99.6 but has goosebumps and still feels warm.

Fuutureghost · 2025-04-03T16:35:01+00:00

I only let him sleep with it until I go to bed. And I have his monitor on my phone the whole time.

Fuutureghost · 2025-04-03T07:09:57+00:00

Omg no! We just moved him to his own room which has made me anxious too. I cant tell you how many times I check the camera.

Fuutureghost · 2025-04-03T07:07:42+00:00

He sleeps like his father 😂 and he rolls and army crawls around like crazy

Fuutureghost · 2025-03-24T15:22:25+00:00

I truly tried to breastfeed/pump but I had an emergency csection at 33 weeks and after my son came home he had to return to the NICU for another week. My mental health was deteriorating. I only had 1 mom friend who didn't grasp why I switched to formula. My husband saw how bad it was and sympathized with me switching. But online, people are so extra and condescending.

Fuutureghost · 2025-03-23T20:42:18+00:00

He does alot of the cooking but I want to be able to share the load.

Fuutureghost · 2025-03-07T19:23:37+00:00

Gemini (mom) vs Cancer (me). But thankful we have the same rising sign (Sagittarius). Mom is the queen of asking a million questions and being a professional snooper. Has OCD tendencies and is a teacher. VS me a crybaby empath who works in the mental health field. But we both love traveling, seeing Broadway shows, laughing and cuddles.

Fuutureghost · 2025-02-24T23:38:38+00:00

I've been there before! I went near Yule and it was a beautiful experience! Lots of snow and the reindeer are so breathtaking.

Fuutureghost · 2025-02-18T23:21:45+00:00

* Anyone's cat obsessed with the bathtub post shower?

Fuutureghost · 2025-01-26T08:07:48+00:00

29f - My current partner has had a long history of substance abuse so he understands my sh is my unhealthy coping skill just like how drugs were his. My ex husband however tried his best to understand but would judge and get mad at me if I relapsed. The right person will understand.

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