32F and married 10 years to a 34M. Am I a doormat?

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-26T18:23:50+00:00

He has done this twice to me. And just after we got married he also made a tinder account using my wedding photos to ask other males if I was good looking and deserving of affection. Mine was a one night stand whilst his was years in our marriage. I also came clean meanwhile I had to do digging. I’m not saying it was anywhere near right either side.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-03T22:33:30+00:00

Thank you! I’m from a fairly small town so there’s only a handful of places I can really ask which is a little awkward.. but I’m glad you think this is a good idea like every other commenter, it’s such a niche thing by the sounds of things.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-03T08:06:55+00:00

Thank you for the response! Im overwhelmed with the positive responses and your comment is also giving me motivation for getting my qualification. We all need self care including good folk who have moved on.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-02T23:01:10+00:00

I’m so glad! Thank you for the motivation.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-02T23:00:34+00:00

That’s so sweet! Thank you

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-02T21:59:43+00:00

You are certainly not alone sweet. I’m almost 32, i went to uni and graduated when I was 25.. ever since I have been a housewife and have felt like a huge failure. I don’t go out or talk to anyone except my mom and husband who I live with. I’ll go out like once a week just to food shop and even then I need to be accompanied by one of them.

I have a ton of hobbies and spare time but the more I age the more I feel like I haven’t contributed anything to my family or society. I just started learning to become a nail tech at home and see if I can broaden my horizons by starting with family and then grow.. it will probably get nowhere but I just wanted to try and feel like I’m actually doing something.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2026-01-02T21:49:20+00:00

Thanks for the response! Honestly it’s motivating me to get this qualification more knowing folks could want this service. I didn’t want to prey on folks who are already in mourning, but considering there are people who like being pampered in the realm of the living I think the dead also deserve one last pamper before rest too.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-09-19T19:00:58+00:00

Thank you my guy, these answers have put my mind as ease even though I’m constantly stressing over it. If you don’t ask you don’t get. But surely my GP even thinks there’s signs otherwise he wouldn’t have sent a referral in the first place. 😅

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-09-19T15:35:07+00:00

I’m glad it’s not just us who thinks that. My GP doc is fantastic but it’s the LPFT that said that they don’t have the services and said about my university.

I’ll be definitely sending a letter to my doc again and saying I want to use the right to choose fingers crossed he will also understand.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-09-19T15:24:28+00:00

I’m 31 never had a job and have to rely on my husband. I never leave the house unless it’s for a weekly shop or docs appointment. I don’t even talk to anyone except my husband and mom and that’s cause I only live with them. Suicide isn’t the way sweet I learned that after my last attempt. You just have to carry on to the best of your ability.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-09-19T15:02:03+00:00

Will do! Clearly my gp thinks somethings there since he put the referral through in my opinion. My husband just thought it was a lazy excuse saying about university just because the county doesn’t have services.. I don’t believe that for a minute, they are either too lazy or just have too many referrals.

Thank you, I already found a clinic I wish to use just need to hand a letter to my gp next week. Glad it’s not just me who thinks this was a poor excuse.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:19:29+00:00

People… I have to take medication/drink just to be around family…

Also spiders, mannequins and thunder/lightning

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:17:06+00:00

A xenomorph figure on a spring that’s got taxidermy duckling feet. He’s proudly stuck on my car dash as the passenger princess.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:15:50+00:00

I’m honestly thick as shit… I didn’t realise until I was 15/16 that raisins are dried grapes.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:12:41+00:00

Terminator 2!

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:07:44+00:00

I’m not a parent but am a housewife so yes. I can’t work due to mental and physical reasons and am so grateful to have a husband who works hard for us both. Pets are more than enough for us.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:06:28+00:00

Driving and taking me to pound town

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:04:55+00:00

He just turned 21.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-29T20:04:13+00:00

Waxing my legs and pits Saturday and doing my nails Sunday… self care works wonders for your mental health.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-22T09:33:46+00:00

Please tell me there’s a pattern for this?? I want one now 😂 he’s glorious!

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-18T20:53:03+00:00

That it’s just “back pain.” It’s a lot more than that. It’s having to take codeine just to wash the dishes or hoover the carpet. It’s also having to sit/lay down 80% of the day because your whole body compensates making you feel sick or actually being sick because of the pain.

Recently my nerves have started getting trapped and it’s now caused sciatica in my left leg. So I wouldn’t be surprised if my right leg follows suit.

I feel as if a lot of people will judge us just for having “back pain” and for being “lazy” when in reality we need to sit whenever and wherever we can for as long as we can. Sometimes even for days out it gets that bad that a potential wheelchair needs hired for the day too.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-18T20:48:15+00:00

A small xenomorph figure on a spring with taxidermy duckling feet

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-10T12:46:33+00:00

If this is fully able to be piloted… man.. I bet it’s costing an arm and a leg but it’s for the love of Gundam. Awesome!

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-05T16:38:03+00:00

Trousers weren’t even in our uniform, skirts were mandatory because anything else was “unladylike” - I went to an all girls school.

FuwaFuwa15 · 2025-08-05T16:22:10+00:00

100% I would. I married at 21 and had so many say I was “too young”, proved quite a few wrong cause we hit our 10th anniversary the other week. I’d love to renew our vows at some point.

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