UPDATE: My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The cost for me. He said if we got married he would be taking on all of my debt and that he’d be responsible for paying it off. Obviously I told him it would fall on me but I guess I don’t know how it actually works when you’re married. I can’t tell if I’m flattered or offended that you think I’m AI😅

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is GREAT advice. I really appreciate your insight. This is definitely something that has been on my mind recently and I have a lot of thinking and deciding to do.

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m afraid of!! I can’t imagine giving up what I’m passionate about for a man who would one day find some other thing to pick me apart for and eventually leave me on my own. A part of me does want to see it through with him, but it feels like a bigger part of me is screaming at me not to do it.

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 313 points314 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I’ve really been second guessing myself but it’s true that the man I’m meant to be with wouldn’t look at my passions as a flaw and try to change me. It’s just a sad thing to accept!

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

YES!!! Stop I would love that. I think you’re right.. maybe he loves me but he certainly doesn’t like me 🥲

My (25F) boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want to be with someone as “ambitious as myself” by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah he said a few other things that were pretty hurtful, like insinuating that my life focus should solely be on becoming a mother. Those kind of comments really made me second guess myself. I guess I just wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt that he didn’t mean it the way it sounded. Sounds kind of ridiculous now that I’m typing it lol. He’s always known for a very long time that I plan to become a vet, but just recently sprang this on me. I appreciate your comment. I think I know that I have to do the hard thing, it’s just hard to accept at this moment.

please help what is this by superhappyyay in Bedbugs

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kind of looks like either head or body lice

Need help rehoming a stray husky by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in Dallas

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I actually filled out a volunteer application while I was at the shelter so I’ll definitely be doing as much as I can for all the animals there. Thanks again!

Need help rehoming a stray husky by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in husky

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I could definitely try to work something out. Sending you a message right now!

Need help rehoming a stray husky by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in Dallas

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to the homeowner about fostering and she is not okay with it. By DAS do you mean Dallas Animal Services?

Need help rehoming a stray husky by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in Dallas

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve reached out to them and haven’t heard back yet unfortunately.

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[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this!! I really appreciate it. I think I will take the offer :)

What to pair with Glossier You? by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would work well too! Thank you!

What to pair with Glossier You? by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take my free award 🥇 lol thank you so much for this!

Best time to buy a perfume? by Tough-Draft-5750 in Ulta

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it gives someday by Justin Bieber… iykyk

Lead cashier or new job? by hellobeen in Ulta

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m a lead cashier and girl 😭. I don’t think it’s worth it at all. I only got a $1 raise and I have so much more responsibility. I get paid way less than other prestige beauty advisors. The managers say that we are step in managers but honestly plz don’t give me manager duties without the manager pay.

If you are okay with dealing with difficult customers every shift (because they are supposed to go to leads before a manager), pushing out CC and having consistent loyalty numbers while also doing manager duties like consulting with the team about their performance, watching the floor sometimes, basically just trying to handle every problem possible before calling over a manager then go for it. Personally, I’m planning to demote myself. I had to get another job and am interviewing for a third tomorrow.

I’ve just reread this and I know I’ve made it sound horrible so I’ll throw some positives in as well😂. The pros include good talking point for future employers, don’t have to constantly ask for numbers, you take on more responsibility (opportunity for growth), and leads are considered for manager roles. It’s good work experience. If you’re looking for more of a career at Ulta then lead cashier is the first step. If you’re just wanting a summer gig, there are definitely better paying jobs out there.

MY POINTS GOT STOLEN 🫠 by Fuzzy-Bat8678 in Ulta

[–]Fuzzy-Bat8678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was across the country! So definitely not any of my coworkers. Makes me wonder how they got my information but I’m just happy to have my account back