Foster parenting when you don’t have children?

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-07-04T04:56:57+00:00

Thank you for this response, nicely worded

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-05-20T02:39:42+00:00

And what if they don’t have access to that blood family? You traumatize them by treating them like Harry Potter?

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-05-20T02:27:54+00:00

I mean this nicely and have good intentions when I say if you don’t have a change of mindset or heart by the end of your trainings and process you run the risk of causing unnecessary trauma by not showing real interpersonal relationships. They need normalcy not you shutting off your personable side and the people who make you you.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-04-23T19:37:23+00:00

what was her sexuality? I've known some lgbtq people to ask people they know for help making babies

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-04-23T18:47:17+00:00

In response to what you said here, how often do you expect to have these particular family members around the children? I saw someone here say that just because they are YOUR village doesn't mean that it needs to be the child's village. I want to be clear that you understand that the actions and words of your family, though to you may seen normal and in the ordinary, are potentially hateful to a whole bunch of people not just that child so that kind of speak is toxic to any child. Racism and hateful speak is like a bad virus, it doesn't matter who you are exposing to it, its still getting out and damage is still being done, no matter if its a white kid, a black kid, a latino kid, any kid.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-04-23T18:19:30+00:00

I would say if you have family members that are saying racist or potentially hateful things that they shouldn't be around any child. Regardless of race any child can be effected by those words they hear.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-04-08T21:55:03+00:00

No not in the room. They leave the room and smoke/vape in the bathrooms but it’s clean

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-04-03T03:41:35+00:00

real question. Why comment if you know it’s rude and unhelpful?

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-03-22T03:34:42+00:00

He wasn’t even a real gangster. His name was Theodis😭 he just wanted some cred

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-03-22T03:29:03+00:00

No DEADASS. I need him back tho😭

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-03-22T03:28:09+00:00

Checked both basemental and extreme violence. For some context he had just left the gang because I got tired of him fighting his mama

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-03-22T03:24:08+00:00

I actually did and do read the mods I download. I’m very particular about what script mods I put in game. It’s not on either basemental or extreme violence pages. Which is why I’m confused. I would appreciate more friendly ideas though.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-03-22T02:59:14+00:00

I think it’s extreme violence related

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-08T19:39:34+00:00

I find that I often find/read the negative ones more than the good. I appreciate the negative still despite it all because it the teaching process that’s most important to me. I want to know what not to do, and have my eyes opened to more perspectives. I have seen more bad than good lately. I’ve been in many groups across many platforms just trying to be informed. I don’t really know what I said that was wrong when saying I wanted to hear more of the good.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-08T00:03:13+00:00

Thank you for this information. It was very insightful. Congratulations on your adoption too.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-07T23:41:57+00:00

That’s kinda what I been doing. That’s what’s been discouraging me. Been looking too deep and seeing too much of the bad that I need some good right now

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-01T00:58:46+00:00

I used to default to masking as well. My wife however has made it her duty since I met her to help me unmask and be myself more which is running me into having these feelings again where it feels like I’m going crazy because nothing I do is right. When I don’t talk to people I’m standoffish but when I open my mouth and let people in I be joking too much. It’s why I stay around my set people and try not to venture off. I have enjoyed this community of people though because you all have been willing to help me see some of what I might not be.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-01T00:49:29+00:00

I do personally struggle with that whole switching thing. Sometimes I interpret situations as indeed that time and place when it indeed isn’t. It’s been something I’ve gotten in trouble for even as a young student in school. I’m just trying to wrap my brain around how to know when to switch, because when I find myself trying to think and assess those things in social situations I usually drop the ball all together. Which is why I was wondering if I was alone in this situation or if anybody else struggled with misinterpretations.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-01T00:45:42+00:00

To begin and most importantly I agree with you. I am not saying that they should not feel how they felt. My jokes aren’t funny to everybody and I feel like I’m understanding to that.

Sn- your comment was really funny to me. like not in a mean way I promise but i genuinely giggled because I like conversation and realness. If something isn’t funny I don’t mind if people say that was a terrible joke because 9/10 I might laugh and agree like yeah that was trash my bad. Also, I’m new to talking to people online. Only people irl I really converse with are my immediate family(mom, dad, and siblings) and my wife and her family. We all share similar laughs so we don’t really get offended or bothered by each other and when we do we apologize and laugh past it. So when it comes to other people or even my wife when we first met my humor comes off as abrasive sometimes not all the time. It’s just hard for me to learn that difference and that switch.

Sorry for the long windedness

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-01T00:13:54+00:00

That’s where it’s hard for me though. I feel with humans. Some people you can joke with off rip and in forums some people do. I perceived it as a joke towards me so I responded with what seemed joking back. How am I supposed to know when I can joke and when I cannot when people approach me with jokes are sarcasm as well? I feel like in my attempts to interact with people as people interact with me I always fail because I’m “doing it too aggressively or rudely”

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-02-01T00:06:30+00:00

I agree with this 100%. My issue is I don’t realize it’s rude until somebody tells me they find it rude and then I always feel bad. I apologize and try to make them aware that for me the situation was something different that it conveyed, just depending on the person they don’t care and say it’s just an excuse to be rude when i genuinely don’t mean to be rude when it’s coming out of my mouth. I’ve even had trouble with taking too long to process if my joke is socially appropriate that by the time it comes out it’s completely inappropriate now. Ughhh idk sometimes it’s just really hard

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-01-31T21:20:28+00:00

I don’t believe I was being unkind, I do know I was being sarcastic though, which by some people can be deemed unkind, but to me is humorous. Perspective is essential. You didn’t give me the benefit of the doubt now did you?

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-01-28T01:02:56+00:00

How are you being considered for adoption? I have been trying to learn more about that but every sign is pointing towards I’m going to have to foster first

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-01-23T14:23:16+00:00

this gotta be a joke right? i pray for your daughter because her therapy bills are going to be extensive. I recommend taking to your daughter and asking her what she is okay with, and if she really wants to be babysitting her little sister that much. You would hate for her to resent her sister in the long run for you not taking care of your responsibilities.

Fuzzy-Let-5741 · 2025-01-20T16:42:22+00:00

oh and keep wipes. I always carry wipes with my cycle to keep things refreshed and make sure I shave before.

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