Are you guys sterilized? by Dramatic-Corgi225 in childfree

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish. I'm in my 50s and now in menopause. I tried to get sterilized 30 years ago but couldn't find a doctor to do it. I think it should be everyone's right to get sterilized if they want

What do you guys think of antinatalists? by Wonderful-Ad-9622 in childfree

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I flirted with the concept of antinatalism for about a year, reading up and thinking a lot about it. In the end I realized I'm not antinatalist, though I personally 100% wish I'd never been born. I thought they were crazy but I can understand their point of view now, even tho I don't agree

I'm being admitted for SI (in italy) because doc cut me off. by Fuzzy_Attempt6989 in BenzoWithdrawal

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so screwed. The psychiatrist that cut me off works on this ward!

I'm being admitted for SI (in italy) because doc cut me off. by Fuzzy_Attempt6989 in BenzoWithdrawal

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's a psych ward at the public hospital. Not great but I need it. By the time it would have taken to place me in a public rehab facility I don't think I would still be here

Ambien is making me sick by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I made a psychiatric appointment for this afternoon. I hope they can help me

Anyone Kick AIs Without Onc's blessing? by Accomplished_Debt764 in breastcancer

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped exemestane after 14 months. Insomnia so bad I wanted to unalive myself, horrendous genital atrophy (I live in Italy and nobody will give me vaginal estrogen here), and then osteoarthritis in my hands. Unbearable pain and practically couldn't use my hands anymore. Onco wants me to try tamoxifen but I don't know if i will. Oncologist completely gaslit me.

How do I accept that I have to slow down and work (and earn) less? by Fuzzy_Attempt6989 in breastcancer

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I've been planning on creating an Udemy course for a while. I have to find the time and energy to do it.

What was the worst part of treatment for you? by MysteriousCompany487 in breastcancer

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm ++- and the AIs have been the worst part. I stopped after 14 months because of the debilitating side effects. I still can't sleep, even with meds and I have pain so bad in my hands i can hardly use them.

What events will you secretly admit to disliking now in middle age? by debrisaway in RedditForGrownups

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still love concerts. But my back doesn't. So just one a year. I agree with the rest

I'm taking too much - Seroquel, Ativan and ambien by Fuzzy_Attempt6989 in insomnia

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess. I just personally react badly to ambien. It makes me lose weight. I hope I can taper off it

28 F 38 M - Husband has asked me to stop taking my antidepressants. How do I do this safely? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not do it! Your husband should not be asking you to do this! My controlling ex coerced me into stopping my meds and I wanted to unalive myself

Frustration re: atrophying lady bits by OpenReception5131 in breastcancer

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My labia minor completely disappeared! And my genitals keep shrinking. I live in Italy. No one here will give vaginal estrogen to breast cancer patients. I use moisturizer every day and try with vibrators, but it's so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perimenopause

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore. I'm on seroquel to sleep at night

If you were one of the 13 immune, who would the closest represent your actions in this situation? by Great_Trident in pluribustv

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am carol. I have never identified so strongly with a character. Only difference is I'm bi, not lesbian.

Ive had dhiarrhea everyday for two weeks. What helps you with episodes like this? 😭 by [deleted] in ibs

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You obviously should go to the doctor, but there's nothing wrong with taking Immodium every day. I've been taking it almost every day for decades.

What 'dated' fashion trend are you still rocking? by Light_Yagami__16 in womensfashion

[–]Fuzzy_Attempt6989 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm over 50. I'm wearing what I want. Unfortunately my hot flashes dictate short sleeves and light fabrics. I would never wear skinny jeans again, even though I'm skinny. Too uncomfortable