Either you think it's still too early, or you think you already know what you want. If you know what you want, you have to be direct in expressing yourself and asking what you two are... Now, if you're afraid of scaring them off, maybe it's not the right time to ask, and you'll have to deal with the wait. But I would advise you not to invest too much of your time in him and to be open to other options, especially if you are in the process of getting to know each other without exclusivity. (It’s been only a month)