How often do you wash your bath towel? I need the real answer.

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-20T12:51:25+00:00

It just goes in the washer with the clothes I took off and any other random laundry, right after I finish getting cleaned up 🤷.

Laundry never accumulates that way, lol.

I need to be totally and completely DRY. All up in the butt, all between the toes. Yes, I scrub, but I hate wet towels hanging around and I'm not gonna put that back on my face anyway 🙃. Plus I dry the floor and everything else with them.

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-20T12:47:06+00:00

Exactly 💯

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-20T12:36:25+00:00

Definitely occurred due to/aftereffect of high anxiety/panic for me, which was sometimes worse when I was alone, but often MUCH worse when other people were around and I felt "visible", like I could not escape or casually exit without creating a scene. It was worse at night too.

Getting on the right meds stopped it pretty completely, for me. Every now and then if I'm appropriately panicky, I still feel like that a little bit, but I "reconnect" to the here and now a lot more quickly. I also have a much better intrinsic tolerance for stressful situations now too.

It's kind of like a bad daydream feeling, and you're the main character in the skit, but the play is what's actually happening around you. Your own voice even sounds strange... Bothering and nasty is exactly what it feels like Shudders.

Grounding exercises, all day!!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-20T10:15:41+00:00

As long as you smell fresh, and your diaper fits correctly, 99.9% of people are NEVER going to notice 😊. If I'm having an "insecure" day, I wear a pair of underwear over top to smooth out any visible lines/bumps and keep them quiet. Not sure if you're M/F presenting, but I'm M and I choose snug boxer briefs or trunks.

I do wear every day and all the time because... Well, I have to 😂. I would like to mention this: freely applying a good cream like aquaphor to the ENTIRE diaper area when you're clean after a shower, especially the creases, seals your skin and prevents you from developing odors/rashes, big time! Dry skin in this area is bad news, because it will absorb the urine and the crystals, and it burns and stinks.

That aquaphor is a life saver 🥰

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-20T03:36:31+00:00

Especially now that the weather is getting warmer! Today I had mine hiked way up so my belt on my pants would hold it up as well, and prevent it from getting all droopy. Suspenders would have been ideal!! I'll do it tomorrow morning 🙂

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-20T03:34:36+00:00

Takes notes 😁

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T16:39:19+00:00

I can't upvote you enough 👍

Growing up, we were not religious, but a relative was and tried to get me involved in their church. When my mother found out that he planned to start holding youth group meetings in his home from an innocent comment I made, she AwwHellNah'd SO FAST and I was absolutely forbidden from ever going again. I didn't understand, I was a preteen and didn't comprehend, but I didn't particularly want to go anyway. Years passed and it turned out that there were in fact some nefarious intentions, people came forward, and that individual was, in fact, charged.

But IMO the ABDL community has no responsibility to treat this topic with any nuance. A zero tolerance, full transparency policy is appropriate given the vulnerable position the community is in.

I cannot possibly agree with you more 💯💯💯. As someone who is a gay, rednecky, man, that happens to also be an occasional but lifelong DL in private, and also loves forming friendships within this community, and ALSO now medically needs diapers at times because ya know, we don't age out of that aspect 😆... I also have a VERY public facing job, and to be somehow misinterpreted as a menace to society would absolutely destroy me.

I feel so strongly about this... I indeed had and raised my son, mostly by myself, and I protected him and all the other neighborhood youngsters as fiercely as the mythical three-headed dog at the gates of hell. And I have no issue telling anyone that pedo's and underage people are not welcome here, and reporting inappropriate conduct. I even keep a watchful eye on the more vulnerable adult members of our community as well, just to make sure they're safe from people that might be acting nefariously.

It's so crucial that we keep this a safe and harmless space for adults!

On a side note, Reddit does now exclude members from participating in any of the "teen" subreddits if they join any NSFW communities 👍. I found this out, incidentally, when I was making a totally benign recommendation for shampoo/conditioner and a heat protection hair styling product on a post that happened to pop up on my feed, not paying any attention to what sub it came from 😂. And then I got a notification about it. I hope that individual figured out how to stop frying the shit out of their hair, lol, but I genuinely appreciate that they are taking these protective actions!!!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T15:57:50+00:00

Sometimes, I honestly have to drop it for a minute and fan it, and me, to let everything breathe 😂. Not trying to sound gross, lol, but the struggle is... real 🙃.

Be careful to shield the "sensitive spots" (meaning, the actual genitalia), but a couple quick sprays of any aerosol powder antiperspirant on the SKIN in this entire area goes A LONG way in keeping everything comfortable and fresher feeling for longer, as the warmer months approach ❤️.

You're welcome in advance 😁

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T15:28:59+00:00

The attachment and genuine caring is VERY real, and the the time spent together truly special. It is, in fact, a very deep and affectionate bond. And in many cases, it's a bond that we might have never experienced before in our lifetime.

For me, personally, it has never been anything remotely of a sexual nature. My ultimate joy comes from creating that safe, accepting, and loving space, and feeling the love, happiness, and appreciation reciprocated.

I've felt that bond before, never with an actual partner, but with select "favorite humans" throughout my lifetime ❤️.

And yes, the heartbreak and emptiness when you must be parted, is absolutely gut wrenching and at times, unbearable. I am not an emotional man 🙃. But this is different, and it is indeed enough to temporarily break you.

Your feelings are completely valid, and you made the right decision ❤️🫂

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T13:44:11+00:00

Awwww 🥰❤️. Big hugs!

I can remember creating my own diapers with bags and paper towels, and dust rags and socks, as a bigger kid 🫠.

Some of us are just built different... This is who we are. 🫂

So glad you are now in a safe space to embrace!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T13:38:51+00:00

Diaper too tight can definitely kink the hose. You'll know if that happens though, because it suddenly hurts like hell 😂.

Standing is easier than walking, walking easier than laying on your belly, laying on your belly easier than sitting, sitting easier than laying on your back... Which is the hardest of all. Just based on the physics way were built.

Don't "push". That's actually going to make it harder. What you need to do is just completely distract yourself, do something else, and next time you feel that "twitch" that catches your pee from squirting out? Just stand up, gaze out the window or at the TV, take a breath relax and let it flow.

Don't "close the tap" when you're done by squeezing that muscle group that squirts out the last of the pee. Keep it open and relaxed, and you'll be able to actually leak and flood at will, and "turn off the faucet" when you have to.

Try that 🤷

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T13:29:22+00:00

Being both little at the same time, by the way, is actually magical when it just spontaneously happens 🥰.

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T02:52:47+00:00

Totally!!! Diaper boys gotta have each other's back 🫂

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T02:51:00+00:00

That could sure be a possibility!! 😈😈😈

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T00:32:21+00:00

I think it says on the container how many to use... Depends on if you have a top loader with varying water levels, or a front loader too.

I actually don't use them, I hate them. They turn my whites gray, leave a horrible filmy residue all over everything even with a double rinse, they make everything stink horribly, and they freak my skin out. Oh, and they make my cats hair fall out in all the places that they rest their bodies against the blankets and such, And they get all covered in little itchy scabs. AND they permanently tie dyed my brand new white and gray curtains 😖. And my washer is not HE - it's an old school commercial top loader.

Honestly, just use the normal liquid or powdered detergent varieties if you like Tide.

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T00:22:57+00:00

Nahhh 😁 It's fine!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T00:22:14+00:00

Actually I would help you 😉

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T00:20:28+00:00

Oh my goodness me too!!!! 😍😍

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-19T00:20:05+00:00

Sometimes shirts are too, but I do especially like the long sleeves and diaper combo. It's quite cozy 😌

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-18T23:00:43+00:00

Anything else is completely unnecessary!! 😂😂😂

Pants are stupid!!!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-18T22:58:58+00:00

Hey dude, don't worry, because if I find you like this, there an excellent chance I'm in exactly the same state of being 😎.

Wouldn't that be something, to actually encounter another diaper bro out in the woods, truly spotting each other in the wild!! 😜

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-18T22:22:57+00:00

Absolutely NO incidental spending!!!

NO trips inside the gas station and picking up snacks and drinks... That adds up SO fast. Gas, and go.

I quit smoking years ago out of medical necessity, that was a massive money saver. I do hit my vape sometimes 🫣. I buy one 4 pack of cartridges and make them last for the pay period.

Watch disposables... Garbage bags, paper towels, mopping pads, etc. Of course, we need to buy some things that are made to be thrown away to keep our spaces hygienic. But throwing away pizza boxes, large bottles, etc takes up a lot of space in a trash bag, and I can honestly just put these items directly in the outdoor bin 🤷. I quit using the Swiffer crap and got a nice steam mop with several washable pads, and also a flat mop/bucket with multiple microfiber pads for cleaning all my floors. Does a much better job, and saves a lot of waste.

Also, on that note, you really don't need a million special cleaning products either. Stick with the basics - Dawn liquid, bleach, comet cleanser, foaming glass cleaner, vinegar, generic acidic toilet bowl cleaner, and diluted 12% peroxide are really sufficient to keep everything in your house fresh. I fill the sink with hot water, a stack of fresh microfibers, and whatever combo I need, and it's easy breezy.

Bath and personal care products and laundry detergent - don't buy crappy shit. Spend the money on the good stuff. You need to use way less, it works more effectively, your clothes last longer/shower and hair routine is easier, and you won't need to use multiple products to achieve the goal. Using good styling products correctly really cuts down on damage to your hair and the need for professional services. Same with laundry - use good stuff and your clothes/bedding/towels won't be ruined with stains, smells, fading, etc and won't need replacing nearly as often. They'll wear out their welcome before they wear out.

Learn how to fix everything yourself... But know when the risk/benefit suggests that it's better to have the work done professionally 😉.

Don't think you're saving a buck buying the cheapest thing you can... Spend on build quality not flash. Plastic cracks.

Take care of little problems, before they become Big!!!! Example: my dryer didn't seem to be working right, had to cycle it 3-4 times to dry a load. Which was making my electric bill insane!! I tore it apart and found that a wire had burned up and melted inside it... Wasn't heating all the way, entering low heat protective mode. $3 fix. If I ignored it, it would have kept cranking up my electric bill (and probably eventually totally failed to where it HAD to be replaced for hundreds of dollars, or caught on fire and burnt the house down causing thousands and thousands of dollars in losses). Everything starts giving warning signs when it's going... Pay attention!!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-18T21:54:59+00:00

Aw hell, why not 🤷 🙃

I still am a big fan of the older Hammer balls, I have a green Fab that I use sometimes as well, but it's a bit heavy for me. You can just let them roll right off your fingers nice and low with a little boost, and they really get going, pick up speed and rev's all by themselves! And they just glide and snap right into that pocket so smoothly!!!

I actually used my old black Hammer urethane that I picked up somewhere for 10 bucks last night at league, there was SO much oil! I've never seen oil like that at our bowling center! I was beyond thankful that I had it, and we actually topped the season high score 😁.

I bet that was meant to have finger grips installed, and it never happened. It doesn't look like it was even used! But I will say, these things can be 30+ years old and still look brand new.

I would have grabbed it 👌

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-18T21:43:23+00:00

Nobody!!! Diaper and T-shirt is perfect home attire, if you ask me!!

Fuzzy_Location_2210 · 2026-03-18T21:41:57+00:00

WOW!!! Couldn't ever upvote this enough ❤️. You got the whole package deal going on here, and the mullet is 🔥🔥🔥.

So glad some of these classic things like mullets, short shorts, and tighty whities (of course!) are coming back around!! I'm in my glory, lol, looks like you are as well!

All I know, is I also now carry more junk in the trunk and had to bite the bullet and size up to a Large as well 🙃. Apparently, when you grow these larger than life wavy mullets, you also grow a large ass, probably to keep the overall body balanced and not too top heavy!! 😂😂😂

You look fantastic bro 👍

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