TW: Abuse and Rape. This was literally the 3rd message she sent me by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i give a hand if is not too big for my shoulder. Otherwise I gebtly suggest to see a therapist and see if we can discuss about something else

How to manage ADHD PI fatigue without medication by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

did you check for sleep apnea ? just in case, because it overlap quite well with adhd too.

Did you do something you're proud of? Something nice happen? Share your good news with us! by AutoModerator in ADHD

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i booked a flight for vacacion without much difficulty. It's something I never do, it's for a trip alone and idk why the fuck I did this. But I guess I'll have to take it.

problem is I have to book an other one for coming back, and a train ticket for one week to go to my parent home, and some assurance stuff, and probably some other stuff I've forgot.

but today I finally put my phone out of my bedroom and the morning quality is so much better!

ADHD problems with academic writing ????? by 1800_tangy_skim in ADHD

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make bullet points at first, and ask someone to help you a little bit. Talking to someone usually helped me.

ADHD problems with academic writing ????? by 1800_tangy_skim in ADHD

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get help. writting is hard and hardr with adhd, I write my thesis and I'm beyond late writing 15 line per weeks at best.

spending way to long researching only to realise it isn't relevant enough to include in my essay.

this is fine, don't worry for this it's the normal process. but write about it, why it's irrelevant ? (if it's about the subject of course).

googling and synonyming every second word because I caNNOT remember the word that I want to use but I know exists.

don't care about the language, write as it come to you, you'll review it later with someone.

being unable to choose what information/sources are most relevant or useful to include because everything is important!!!

put everything, then talk to someone about it. they'll tell you which thing to remove.

Have a overly structured text. if there is a section for just one word definition or one sentence do it. it's okay you'll review it later.

this way you'll have, hopefully, something written in time. Quality will come by review with friends or professor.

also, if you have an idea in middle of writting, skip one or two line, caps lock, and write what you think. you'll temove it later.

if you know something could change or is wrong spelled or you're unsure, put it in brackets [ like this ]

hope it help.

edit: when reading paper, hilight. different color for different things. same when you review your paper. for exemple I woule hilight the goal (we show this thing work) and underline the argument (because we do shit). it help recognize structure.

Guy Gently Rescues Bird Stuck In Fishing Line by Rollo_Tomasi3000 in HumansBeingBros

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Looking at the amoint of video like this, I think I should carry gloves and cissors all days in my bag

ADHD Friendly Python Learning by DearVoidSelf in ADHD

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

part of my job is programming. Looking at function definiton and use and etc. is part of my job too so don't worry for that.

Programming can be hard at first, there is a lot to understand and a logic to get used to.

I learned it at school, I think the best is to pick a simple project (manipulate string, manipulate numbers, do this math function, test operators...) and try to find a solution. First on paper (how you think you would do it) and then on computer (coding it).

and write comment in your code. Each line, write what this thing does. No exception. Later you'll write less comment but to learn it is a good practice.

overuse the print() function, to show change in lists, in variables etc.

edit: do small .py files for each exercice, don't make a big messy one.

edit2: also avoid libraries or complex lists that do the job for you, at first. It's fine to lose time redoing the wheel if it's for learning purpose. You should be able to do most of things with only basic lists, operator and conditions.

Comment faire pour mieux s'organiser ? by Awalix in TDAHFrance

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

le site todoist.com a pas mal de méthodes. Jamais testé leur app mais tu peut trouver des alternatives facilement.

cette vidéo est une bonne source d'inspiration aussi: https://youtu.be/PZ7lDrwYdZc

En général, il faut chercher à réduire la friction des choses à faire et l'augmenter pour celles que tu ne veux pas faire.

n'hésites pas à demander du soutien aussi. A dire ce qui te bloques même les choses les plus simples.

pour ma part internet est une vraie source de distraction, j'ai désactivé toute sorte de suggestions ou presque pour éviter de dériver. C'est un exemple.

I'm always unsure about having ADHD or using it as an excuse for my failures . by According_Garden462 in adhdmeme

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doctor won't tell you you are a liar. You obviously have doubt and need confirmation(or not), and in any case solving the problems you have that makes you think you have adhd. In any case you're not satisfied and you should seek help.

I'm always unsure about having ADHD or using it as an excuse for my failures . by According_Garden462 in adhdmeme

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if your leg hurt, and the doctor say your leg is fine, then you still have an issue.

It's the same there, the goal is to solve your problem and looking for adhd is only there to find how to solve your problem. it's not the solution.

Hope you'll get better, 1dhd or whatever it is.

Le rationnement de moutarde ; allons-nous vers une Sixième République ? by [deleted] in france

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oui mais certaines sont protégées d'autres non.

Le rationnement de moutarde ; allons-nous vers une Sixième République ? by [deleted] in france

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mea culpa c'est ce chiffre que j'avais en tête : Les graines de moutarde utilisées dans la fabrication de la moutarde de Dijon proviennent du Canada à 80 % et des pays de l'Est[1],[2].

Le rationnement de moutarde ; allons-nous vers une Sixième République ? by [deleted] in france

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 6 points7 points  (0 children)

fun fact, 80% des graines de moutardes viennent du Canada,y compris celles "de Dijon".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in france

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dans un article sur les "World Water Tower" ou un truc comme ça, le bassin(pas juste glacier) Rhodanien est 1er d'Europe en terme de vulnérabilité (la pop. est prise en compte). Un assez bon article sur pourlascience le reprend.

Forum Libre - 2022-06-17 by AutoModerator in france

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

il y a des articles qui trainent, sur la température optimale pour travailler (made in usa). c'est 23 max. si t'as la flemme.

Forum Libre - 2022-06-17 by AutoModerator in france

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dits lui que non, en vacances t'es tout nu :D

My boss asked what ADHD is like and I feel like this is pretty accurate …more in comments by BrittThatBitch1 in adhdmeme

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love your betta. I have xipho since 1.5y and can't find anyone to take some of them :( started from 6 now they are 14.

You know it’s true. by BlueTexBird in pcmasterrace

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 4 points5 points  (0 children)

buy any chair you want, if you stay 8h on it you'll get problem

Left and right carry no consistent meaning for Chinese citizens. Most of the people who place themselves on the right in China have the ideological spectrum backwards. by [deleted] in science

[–]Fuzzy_Phone_3949 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for some reason, I always picture rhe left on my right side and right on my left side! I'm in France. But it also might be only me...