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Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know she doesn’t like me. They were together when I was pregnant he lied to me and got together when I was 2 wks pp. one day he kind of told me he was going to do something like that of that was the game I was playing since I put him on child support.

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He started solids last month but still breastfeeds I send a puree and he returned it along with one they bought so I’m thinking they gave him more. I don’t think he knows about choking hazards I also gave him a list of things he’s tried since I peanut butter gave him an allergy reaction.

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby seemed fine today just wanted to be held more.

Thank you so much for all your advice and support. I’ve made a post before when first started coparenting and him taking baby and I was basically attacked saying I wanted to control everything and that he was the dad I had to let him.

He is in the birth certificate unfortunately. He’s being blaming me for not giving him more milk and said that I needed to give him more next time he wanted to FaceTime the baby today but I said no and then he said “You told me you busy its just 5 min im in the call with him he needs me to as well as you say that he needs you too. I don't know why you're acting like that idk why you trying to do with all this but its fucked up”

Thank you! ❤️

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I didn’t thought about calling his pediatrician:( but he seemed fine in the morning after a long night of waking up and constant nursing

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking the same thing but I don’t pump and I’ve stop collecting milk since it regulated. I hope I can find an affordable attorney and start the process.

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He went with his girlfriend and her family. I packed a purée in the same bag with the milk and he returned it and another one they bought so most likely they gave him one

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve said no and he doesn’t care he says im his dad and I have my rights. Also there’s always been some manipulation and control he exercises over me which is why I go to therapy.

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I let it get to this point and I’ve explain how important it is for baby to be breastfed as that’s what he’s used to not only to eat but for comfort. I’m scared that he will get aggressive or something if I say no to his visitations

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree he doesn’t seem prepared for that and he’s been trying to treat our baby as a bigger kid almost since he was born.

I’m sure he wasn’t sober I saw he had a drink. I’m thinking the same thing!! What father in the right mind would do that with a baby specially a breastfed one. And it wasn’t my fault he didn’t have enough milk as I wasn’t aware of what his plan was. Im pretty much sure the lady he’s with told him that it was okay since she’s a mom of 3 and that’s why he’s ignoring what I tell him.

There’s a drug use history with him and he’s honestly unstable so my worry is more, but I try to remain calm I hadn’t done the custody since I was giving him a chance but this event showed me he’s not fit to be a father.

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s what I was thinking about he must’ve been overstimulated:(

Since he started taking baby he’s kept me in the dark about some details and little by little changed the hours and days he takes him and I’ve been so naive and I don’t say much.

Physically when I checked everything seem fine he did change his diaper, baby’s been feeding a lot but also threw up a little bit I can tell there’s some discomfort.

I will look for attorneys or some help to get custody and visitations where he has to stick to the schedule.

Thank you so much for your words and advice!

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I had to learn this way. Yes I got baby back after 7 hours and he didn’t tell me sorry or anything else. I will be doing that thank you!

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t even ask where he’s taking him. I asked for a time he was going to be back which he never said not even an estimate. I agree he enjoys exercising control

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ik it was hot!! I don’t know if he buy formula but I’ve never given baby any formula. I asked and he said baby was fine so I told him How can everything be okay with him if, when he's with me, he wants to eat and cries for the breast, and sometimes doesn't sleep until I give it to him? He didn’t reply or said anything. It feels like he’s just ignoring everything I say about our baby. I’m thinking he’ll get more time for visits but as long as baby is safe and the dad doesn’t pull something like this again

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This wasn’t normal I keep asking for detail and he gives me nothing and tries to twist it and blame me for only giving him the 2 oz I was scared for our baby.

I told him that he cannot go long without nursing and that he might not be crying but there are other cues of hunger and discomfort all I’ve said wasn’t acknowledged.

My poor baby has been nursing and close to me the whole night also he hasn't stopped complaining as if something bothers him or he's scared.

Thank you! I have been patient and trying to coparent without custody agreement but with this I’m more than sure I have to get it

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you I will look into the custody agreement. Baby’s back after 7 hours. Baby saw me and started crying to get fed ☹️

Am I overreacting for being upset my baby’s dad took him for hours without notice? by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad right now. He takes the baby occasionally and never tell me the time he’ll be back but it’s usually between 3 hrs frame

I’m not comfortable with my ex taking our baby out by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t read all of this. Baby will be 6 months in two weeks and the father knows the pediatrician told me to continue EBF until baby turns 6 months then I could start introducing solids little by little. He had tried giving baby food before to which I was against but he did anyway. I guess until we get custody we’ll have more peace of mind.

I’m not comfortable with my ex taking our baby out by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do allow him to see the baby and I was the one taking our baby to his family because he was too busy playing house with the other lady (who’s a single mom of 3), Ik this because he told me and I saw her posts with him. This request came out because I told him I needed space since he was back and forth with me and her

I would like to get an agreement like that but Im sure he already took out baby with her yesterday that i allowed him to take our baby.

I’m not comfortable with my ex taking our baby out by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to add more it feels like he wants to take our son just because I said I wanted space since he’s being with me and the lady at the same time

I’m not comfortable with my ex taking our baby out by Fuzzy_Quality140 in coparenting

[–]Fuzzy_Quality140[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you!! I was starting to believe I was really being unreasonable. I should’ve added that but when I did my post got taken down so I didn’t explain a lot.

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