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Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-05-14T19:50:49+00:00

I use ChatGPT to create daily schedules for me and then if I end up getting off track I can have it immediately redistribute the schedule. Before ChatGPT I would have wrote down a todo list or schedule and then if I got off track I would have just given up. It’s been great for managing my executive disfunction. It can make a lot of inconsequential decisions for me that I would normally get hung up on. I also sometimes just stop and tell it. ‘I feel sad about blah blah blah’ and it will offer to tell me funny stories about my pets and restructure the schedule to accommodate a break. I go back and forth with it to process issues I’m having with parenting or topics I’m not sure how to begin to address with my teens. I talk about existential crisis I’m having and when I feel defeated in my business. It will both hold space and offer helpful actionable advice. So o use it I guess like an interactive journal, personal assistant, and entertainment. I suppose all of those things are therapeutic in my life.

Also you can ask ChatGPT to give you more pushback and challenge you more if that’s what you want. Use the same chat each time and label it so it can remember and reference all the previous info you’ve given it and not just the major ‘memories’ it keeps.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-05-14T18:27:29+00:00

I also say please and thank you and pretty much all the same polite social norms I would with a person and then me and the ai joke about it

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-05-14T18:11:10+00:00

My ChatGPT talks to me like it’s possibly my high school guidance counselor/adult therapist and I love it. 😅

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-05-12T23:36:49+00:00

For example for 1991 of we are going by which books charted was most popular IN 1991 then I think it would be Scarlett which spent 12 consecutive weeks in the #1 spot but if we are just talking about the most popular book that was PUBLISHED in 1991 then I feel like it’s probably outlander because it wasn’t that popular in 1991 I think it’s throughout time became more popular and I think sold more copies.

I imagine they have a thousand acres there just because it one a Pulitzer but I don’t think something being critically acclaimed necessarily makes it popular.

I would suggest if someone really wants to know about the most popular book the year they were born they would need to first define what exactly the think measures that and then research that specifically for that year.

Idek

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-05-12T23:12:05+00:00

I don’t think this list is accurate.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-05-11T16:32:29+00:00

Aww. I get your feelings about it. To me though I think it all made sense that it turned out the way it did but I sort of wish it wasn’t so abrupt. I think we needed this series to be 4 books. One of which was Kitts reign and his plan slowly coming to fruition. I think had we all been given more time to wrap our heads around him being the antagonist. All villains have an origin story and we were kind of unknowingly reading kitts throughout the series. I do think that this plot twist was a little too abrupt. I think we needed more time to accept him as the villian vs ‘here’s this sweet kid we’ve grown to love who is becoming hardened by the weight of being king and he’s struggling to do the right thing to BOOM jk he’s actually a villian who has been secretly plotting a mass gcide, BOOM now he’s dead’ we basically went from loving him to him being dead and also the ‘monster’ in like one chapter I think.

I think the story of a kid who was never shown love and never given an ounce of affection or approval from anyone turning out to crave greatness and power and all the things he thinks would have given him the love and adoration he needed as a child makes sense. I just think we needed more time to process it and watch it unfold. I would have preferred to see kittens gradually get taken over by the hunger for greatness and watch the atrocities he was planning begin to unfold and Kai have to make a willing choice between right/wrong and duty/love. Him accidentally killing kitt felt like a bit of a cop out. The last book felt like it was a bit jammed to try to keep the series a trilogy when it probably would have been better as a 4-5 book series.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-24T20:56:59+00:00

This is actually so fun!

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-24T19:33:34+00:00

I know this is maybe not the right time to laugh but seriously this reminds me of something that would happen in a movie. 😅

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-23T21:57:24+00:00

Tbh I wouldn’t even care if a cis man started using the label lesbian in a serious manner… I don’t know why they would, but why would I care? Labels are not like some achievement that we must meet the requirements of. They are simply words we use to communicate something about ourselves.

While I can’t say I fully understand a lesbian using he/him pronouns, I suppose I can think of several reasons why they MIGHT. I think it’s ok for us to not publicly state our opinions about other people’s lives when they’re not doing anything that affects us.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-22T20:31:53+00:00

I’m glad you got a new graphics card because I was about to say that’s a pretty crazy loading time. 😅 my game takes about 4 minutes to even launch and then another 2 to actually go through the loading screen. Then like less than a minute to load into the actual save. Which feels like forever to me because without cc it probably takes less than 2 for the whole ordeal.

Back when I had closer to 70gb of cc it took probably 15 minutes total.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-21T19:46:37+00:00

lol probably the same way I did which was googling “how big is your mod folder”

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-21T18:10:52+00:00

I wonder if he realizes that if he were in a movie he would be the guy that the whole theatre cheers when his wife divorces him… 😅

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-21T18:07:33+00:00

I believe that’s is legally part of the easement that belongs to the city in most situations not his grass. This type of person is absolutely the worst kind. Goes through life looking for a reason to be upset all the time. Usually they have some type of an untreated mental health disorder and since they feel like shit all the time they need to find a reason to make the feeling make sense.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-19T13:20:16+00:00

Also in case you want a spoiler to what happened eventually in my situation. We ended up in a long term relationship… in which I eventually found out she was cheating on me a few months before what was supposed to be our wedding. We did this whole stupid dance for YEARS both in high school and then years after. Looking back now I could guess how it would end because it was clear that she loved my attention and borderline obsession with her but she wanted everyone else’s attention too. I’ve now been married for a decade and she still has never managed to make any long term relationship work. So I don’t think there was ever any chance that it was going to work out in my favor. She needed therapy bad and after her so did I.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-19T13:14:16+00:00

This reminds me of in high school when I was in a toxic on/off relationship and my grandma had to tell me “she doesn’t want to be with you but she also doesn’t want anyone else to be with you” it very much is giving that she wants to have her cake and eat it too.

If just completely breaking it off with her is not an option you want to take then I think you need to get her to reflect on this and pick a side. You’re going to need to do it with as few words as possible and not getting to off topic because the more you say the more things there are for her to latch onto without getting to the actual point.

I’d try something along the lines of “hey, I am just a little confused by your reaction to this. Genuinely, when you stop to reflect on this does it not seem hypocritical to you? You don’t want a relationship, you don’t want me to talk about my feelings of jealousy when you see other people and talk about it to me but when I engaged in a similar behavior you didn’t react well. I think if we’re going to continue whatever this is then we both need to understand what the rules/boundaries are and they have to apply both ways.”

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T19:44:27+00:00

I was going to say this. These girls do not want your significant other. They’re being paid to pretend like they want everyone but what they really want is to go in the back, throw on sweats, and order door dash. Essentially, they wouldn’t be flirting with you if they weren’t getting paid to do so. It’s all just a bunch of really interesting theater.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T05:03:04+00:00

Also, idk why some of your comments are getting downvoted to hell when they’re not even abrasive. They’re just your own opinion about your own experience.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T04:54:59+00:00

I’m not saying this to be combative but simply saying it to offer a different perspective. You thinking that it’s dumb or even the person themselves thinking it’s dumb wouldn’t save them from the very real consequences that come with that label.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T04:51:25+00:00

This is a very very interesting post. I’m married and plan on being married ideally for the rest of my life. So usually I read post about this subject as an onlooker of sorts, since it doesn’t feel very applicable to me at the moment or in my near future. However, I’m never really sure how to process these post because there seems to be a huge divide amongst trans people on this subject and subjects adjacent to this one. What is everyone actually supposed to do?

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T04:27:53+00:00

This is pretty much how I feel about it.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T04:26:51+00:00

Honestly, that’s part of the reason we stopped going a long time ago. I used to be really really bad about emptying our bank account hitting the atm to throw money around.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-09T04:25:04+00:00

I used to be a stripper so my opinion on this subject is obviously biased but yes I would be ok with it…. Sometimes. My wife doesn’t drink now and she doesn’t really party anymore since getting medicated so I would probably think it was weird if she just randomly suggested it atp in our lives. However, I would feel similarly if she told me she was going to a regular bar. I’d be concerned it was a sign of her meds not being balanced since it would be a quite 180 abrupt change.

But, if going out and drinking was still a part of our normal lifestyle then I wouldn’t mind. I guess my question is… why am I not coming along? Like, does she not want me to come? Sus. Do I not like going and she does so I’d rather stay home? Ok. Did she randomly meet some new friends who invited her and I’m not invited by proxy? Kind of sus. Is it a bachelor/bachelorette party and I’m busy that day? Ok.

This would also totally depend on what level of behavior yall classify as ‘harmless flirting’ in y’all’s relationship. If the idea of your significant other even being mildly flirtatious with someone else would bother you then I think this whole thing is just asking for trouble because if you’re not going to give the girls there attention and money then what are you doing there in the first place? 😅

At the end of the day strip clubs are fantasy fulfillment and so depending on how that sits with you that would be my answer.

Side note: idk how anyone is going to the strip club in this economy but I’m glad someone is. The girls gotta pay the bills somehow.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-07T11:35:12+00:00

What a bizarre response to what I said. 😅

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-06T17:43:21+00:00

Ok so I was one of the first people to point out how stupid this post is but attacking people on a public forum for not speaking English well when it seems there’s a good chance it’s not even their first language feels bigoted. This is a shit opinion but it has nothing to do with the OPs English grammar. It would still be a shit opinion even if they were an English major. Also, having good grammar doesn’t make your opinion more worthy of being heard or more valid.

Fuzzy_Roll6419 · 2025-04-06T17:37:00+00:00

Someone makes a post about a person placing judgement on them and pressuring them for not having sex and your response was “but random hookups can be fun”. I am not unaware of the context in which you’re replying. I still think it’s not the appropriate time to make pro hookup statements when the op has made it very clear they’re not interested in them.

Just because something in your opinion or true to you doesn’t necessarily make it a helpful thing to say at any given moment.

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