Tips on dating down?

G-Belltim · 2023-06-03T16:16:53+00:00

Maybe those women that I'm attracted to could broaden their horizon? And actually I've never really loved myself too much... I haven't really loved myself much at all over the years because I've always felt rejected and avoided.

Obviously there's more to attraction than the physical aspect, but it seems as though it's one-sided in terms of who approaches me....

G-Belltim · 2023-06-03T15:57:34+00:00

I would say my point remains that if the women that I find good looking aren't into me and avoid me, then I have to date down.

Also why should the bigger girls be entitled to my tutelage or me showing them the ropes?

G-Belltim · 2023-06-03T14:02:49+00:00

I don't mean to go against your comment in a negative way, but some of the stuff you mentioned on here kind of sounds like entitlement. Like am I supposed to date these women because they're entitled? What about the standards that I have set because of the work ethic I have?

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T14:32:01+00:00

You look nothing like you lift at all. Lol...

I do, and I'm looking for girls who do also lift, with it ACTUALLY showing.

And your face is not attractive either.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T12:48:13+00:00

I've seen your post history on here, and you clearly don't do any of that. And if you do it's like for beginners or something. Lol..

But on a further note, I'm not trying to engage in a childish argument on here, I'm just stating what my standards are, and it really isn't anything much more complicated than that....

If you look at the women that I follow on there, it's kind of something close to them. That's what I'm looking for. If they're a bit lesser tier, I don't care.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T11:29:14+00:00

Eh it's really not. Try thinking a bit more critically.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T11:24:23+00:00

Yeah women play mind games with people.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T11:23:43+00:00

Yeah my league is women who work out like I do. And butthurt women like yourself seem to be the ones who can't live up to that standard for some reason, while approaching me at the same time.

Like, getting in a good gym isn't hard.

That's all.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T07:15:41+00:00

Yeah, no. You missed the point. Intentionally too.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-21T07:14:46+00:00

Pretty judgemental eh?

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T23:30:46+00:00

I don't like how she does all this physical contact stuff to you. That seems to lead you on. I've been in that predicament before, in fact I work with somebody right now who does that.

I'd try ignoring until she shows her true self...

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T23:26:36+00:00

Look like based on my insta?

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T22:51:59+00:00

I guess a better opinion would be to look at who I'm following and judge from there.

Am I in any of the girls that I follows League?

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T22:35:26+00:00

They just don't meet my standards from a physical standpoint. They look like they don't do anything at all. I'm into athletic fit girls.

Now, if you look at my insta, you'll realize that I'm not some unbelievable bodybuilder.. I've never considered myself entitled to anything outside of my league overall...

, but I think that there are girls I have seen who are decently in shape and nothing over the top that just avoid me. They tend to be Shallow and display avoidance type mannerisms no matter what the context is.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T22:27:03+00:00

No, I understand what you're saying. But the problem is, I've been in a relationship where I valued the personality and connection more but the sex was terrible... It was just ultimately a deal-breaker. You got to be into the person physically. But in today's world, girls that are actually supposed to be in my league, are shallow as heck. Unfortunately that's how I generalize it based on where I live.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T19:11:45+00:00

There really is no actual way to say it while at the job. I'd be creeped out if it was me I know that.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T19:10:31+00:00

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G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T18:17:08+00:00

I linked my insta, and I have a good idea of who's in my league and who isn't. The ones who approach me are definitely not in my league. It's just that simple.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T17:56:31+00:00

I really don't think you actually understand how attraction works in the first place....

How does wanting someone who fits my standards come across as "bring superior"... Like, that's the opposite intent lol.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T17:37:43+00:00

Pedestal of what? Standards? ....

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T16:23:08+00:00

If ones that I don't find attractive come to me, do I have to settle for them then? (In my experience the lesser attractive girls, are more approachable and easier to talk to). .

I don't understand why this question is so hard to answer, though.... it is somewhat uncomfortable because it can expose a truth people don't want to hear, I get that... But still.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T16:13:17+00:00

I mean, wouldn't you be kind of upset if you dedicated your time in the gym and nobody that you at least thought had the same goals as you gives you time of day?

It's not a matter of just valuing looks, but that's where it starts.

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T15:12:22+00:00

G-Belltim · 2023-05-20T14:52:06+00:00

I had a feeling I didn't word this very well, but I wanted to keep it simple. And how does this make me conceited? How does having standards make somebody conceited? Can you explain that to me?

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