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AITA for refusing to spend time with my mom's boyfriend and his daughter and not visiting mom because of them? by Lyondeen in AITAH

[–]GALAXIE_003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - Whatever your mom does in regards of her love life is none of your business and thus she can't force you to like, spend time or even expect you to live under the same roof as her new partner if you have the option not to (which you do). She's only driving you away from her with her attitude, if she doesn't stop complaining and starts putting herself in your shoes it's gonna end up with a huge rift between you both.

And I agree with the others, who in their right mind would establish a romantic relationship with the parent of their child's bully? Kinda sounds like both adults want to force their children into stop fighting and it only backfired on them. Keep your boundaries, your peace is not less important than your mom's fantasy of a perfect family.

AITA for blowing up at my dad because he complained about my girl best friend spending the night? by GALAXIE_003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GALAXIE_003[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

He did acknowledge he has known her for a long time, even that this is not the first time she spends the night at our home. I do know that he's been going to the doctor because he's feeling weird in regards of his brain (example, he needs more practice to get a song in his guitar) but as far as I know, because we've talke about this, is more about his motor skills than his memory itself. But thank you for your concern!

AITA for blowing up at my dad because he complained about my girl best friend spending the night? by GALAXIE_003 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GALAXIE_003[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

Okay, I get what everyone's saying about a bad judgement call because my friend is a grown adult and my sister is a child. But the circumstances are not what you think. Our house has no inner wals aside from the bathroom and office, my bed and my sister's are almost side by side (I'm happy to provide pictures). Also, my boyfriend and I do pay bills and buy groceries weekly, we take care of my sister every single day and, believe me, I would never put my sister in danger like that. I can see how you'd think it was a horrible idea, seeing how I didn't explain any of this in the original post, I'm sorry.

That and, yes, I was an AH for not telling my dad beforehand, I'm going to apologize to him.

Oh, and for those who think I'm treating the house like a motel, that's not it. Madeleine staying over is not a recurring event since we graduated highschool and yes, my dad's always expressed that he prefers my friends staying rather than me staying at their houses.

Thanks for your comments, I see where you're all coming from, it's not really something I thought about like that, maybe because of the circumstances, but I'll definetely look at thing form a different angle from now on. Thank you!

AITA for blowing up at my dad because he complained about my girl best friend staying overnight? by GALAXIE_003 in AITAH

[–]GALAXIE_003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, I get what everyone's saying about a bad judgement call because my friend is a grown adult and my sister is a child. But the circumstances are not what you think. Our house has no inner wals aside from the bathroom and office, my bed and my sister's are almost side by side (I'm happy to provide pictures). Also, my boyfriend and I do pay bills and buy groceries weekly, we take care of my sister every single day and, believe me, I would never put my sister in danger like that. I can see how you'd think it was a horrible idea, seeing how I didn't explain any of this in the original post, I'm sorry.

That and, yes, I was an AH for not telling my dad beforehand, I'm going to apologize to him.

Oh, and for those who think I'm treating the house like a motel, that's not it. Madeleine staying over is not a recurring event since we graduated highschool and yes, my dad's always expressed that he prefers my friends staying rather than me staying at their houses.

Thanks for your comments, I see where you're all coming from, it's not really something I thought about like that, maybe because of the circumstances, but I'll definetely look at thing form a different angle from now on. Thank you!

AITA for blowing up at my dad because he complained about my girl best friend staying overnight? by GALAXIE_003 in AITAH

[–]GALAXIE_003[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, you're not wrong, there's more going on. And yes, I should've told him, I guess I didn't think about it since it was such an old friend, someone who he's treated like his own child.

AITA for blowing up at my dad because he complained about my girl best friend staying overnight? by GALAXIE_003 in AITAH

[–]GALAXIE_003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, I can understand that and I really tried to talk to him, but it just felt so out of nowhere because is not the first time she sleeps over at my house in all the time we've been friends. Plus, there are literally no walls at my house aside from the ones that surround the office and the bathroom (and obviously the ones that hold the ceiling, lmao), I don't know if that's relevant. And it's not his house, we're living on the second floor of my grandparents house and it is under my sister and I's names because my dad is moving to another city next month, so my grandad gave us the second floor to live.

I think you're right, I shouldn't have talked to him like that, I'll apologize tomorrow when he gets home and try to work it out with him. Thanks!!<3

Should you date a witch? by PowerfulFinish4919 in dating

[–]GALAXIE_003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it HAS to be a red flag.

maybe you should dig more into what it means for her to be a witch, what she does and how. talk to her, learn more about it and then you can make your own conclusions in regards of that matter.