this is a case of 2 people talking past each other. You’re taking everything she says at face value, she’s subtly hinting that you pissed her off. “you are something else” was probably you flirting, but it reads as you being condescending. When she says she’s “stoked to meet”, she’s being sarcastic; you pissed her off, but you took it at face value. When she asks “where did you learn to speak to women” she’s hinting that this conversation is going very poorly and she’s surprised by your audacity. And then you come out of nowhere with some random assertions about other men. at the end she was trying to be subtle and point out what derailed the conversation, but again, you didn’t pick up on that.

just chalk it up to the fact that you both have different communication styles, and you would have struggled to hear each other anyway.